Never had a girlfriend- I'm 18.

[Gustave_the_Croc]

So I've come into 2016, another year. I'm now an adult, I'm a university student and lonely. The only contact I'd had with girls had been through school and every every crush I developed was the product of a enlogagated friendship boarding on a one sided relationship. I had asked girls out at a rate of 1 per year. Now, I'm at square one. No friendships to develop, stuck in limbo as to what a relationship has to be and how it starts.

I need help, I want a relationship.

[Britboo14]

The best advice I can give from my 14 years is don't force it.
Make friends, be yourself, and you never know, lightning might strike...

[everlong]

The best advice I can give from my 14 years is don't force it.
Make friends, be yourself, and you never know, lightning might strike...

I'm going to agree with this. Forcing a relationship won't get you much.

[Zachary G]

The best advice I can give from my 14 years is don't force it.
Make friends, be yourself, and you never know, lightning might strike...

yeahm you gotta put yourself out there and meet some people, but just be yourself and let things happen. . . you never know

[Sports Boy]

Maybe you could make friends with some girls without trying to make a romantic relationship. Then ask them for some help in finding someone to go out with.

[your_princess]

I know what you're going through. Up until 6 months ago I was single till then. I'm 18 now.. What I did is I just put myself out there. Talk to girls and make friends with them. Maybe once you get close enough they'll maybe want to be more than friends. Just don't force it because that causes too much stress.

[Thijs]

Hey, that doesn't matter at all!
I wished I never experienced the love-life at this age, as I keep being interested in it and keep trying to get girlfriends.
Just hang out with your friends, go do things you will never do when you are a grown-up, get ya study done, get a job and then build up everything!

[Meron]

You don't want a relationship, man. Trust me.

Once you commit to her and make her your everything it might feel great, but once you lose your everything you have nothing else left.