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Hansolo
March 14th, 2016, 01:10 AM
Does anyone feel guilty after masturbating ?
ShawnG
March 14th, 2016, 01:12 AM
I do not, what makes you feel guilty? Are you taking something to masturbate with that isn't yours?
TheLotus
March 14th, 2016, 01:32 AM
I remember when I first started masturbating I did but not anymore. I'm not really religious either so I don't know why I felt guilty at all
Second Chance
March 14th, 2016, 01:46 AM
Does anyone feel guilty after masturbating ?
When I first started masturbating I used to feel really guilty after cumming thinking I was doing something "adult" or "wrong." However, once I realized that cumming is totally natural and that there's nothing wrong about it, then I stopped feeling guilty.
I would not feel bad about masturbating because it is as natural as breathing, and the fact remains you are going to cum either by yourself or through a wet dream meaning that there is no way around it really.
Vermilion
March 14th, 2016, 02:06 AM
When I started yes but not for years
lliam
March 14th, 2016, 02:18 AM
Does anyone feel guilty after masturbating ?
I don't. Anyway: WHY?
ska8er
March 14th, 2016, 05:21 AM
As with mostly everyone else-Yeah at first I
felt guilty Idk y maybe because it was new and
I didn't know what was happening but I don't feel
that way anymore. Maybe we were told one time
that it was bad so there is that conscience telling
us bad boy bad boy.
ska8er
March 14th, 2016, 05:26 AM
I do not, what makes you feel guilty? Are you taking something to masturbate with that isn't yours?
Bro ur funny-man.
Yeah I know no stories so shoot me.
Just a little thought-when I first experimented
with my best bud I took his hand while-u know-LOL
Is that jacking with something that isnt urs? :yes:
Hansolo
March 14th, 2016, 05:29 AM
I don't. Anyway: WHY?
Idk people say its a sin im christian
Bull
March 14th, 2016, 05:31 AM
I have never felt any "guilt" whatsoever about masturbating, I have only felt pleasure. There is absolutely no natural reason to feel "guilty". None. I am a Christian, and no it is not a sin. Sin is rejecting Jesus. Masturbation is not an act of rejection.
ska8er
March 14th, 2016, 05:41 AM
Idk people say its a sin im christian
As Second Chance said above-its natural
to have a wet dream which is really ur
body releasing a build up of cum at the
time u have no control over.
So is that a sin? :what:
Bull
March 14th, 2016, 05:46 AM
As Second Chance said above-its natural
to have a wet dream which is really ur
body releasing a build up of cum at the
time u have no control over.
So is that a sin? :what:
Nope!
Pitsirikos
March 14th, 2016, 10:12 AM
No, of course I don't feel guilty. When I started masturbated I used to feel sorry that I hadn't started earlier.
swimjoey1
March 14th, 2016, 11:35 AM
Nope.. don't feel guilty at all.
everlong
March 14th, 2016, 12:50 PM
I think that's common
Uranus
March 14th, 2016, 01:14 PM
Nope, not at all.
Bluebyrd
March 14th, 2016, 04:40 PM
Nope guilty as such, but more so regretful and depressed TBH haha
Andy0308
March 14th, 2016, 06:20 PM
I did feel guilty at first, like the first week,maybe even the first month I started masturbating but I didn't feel guilty after I learned more about it and how normal/natural it is.
eric2001
March 14th, 2016, 06:39 PM
I don't feel guilty. It's just a physical thing like eating or sleeping.
lliam
March 14th, 2016, 10:20 PM
Idk people say its a sin im christian
And according to the usual clichés still Catholic? But I heard, that's spoon fed same to muslims. So, seems not only Christians have this prob.
beenthere
March 14th, 2016, 10:41 PM
Hey Dude, i think most christians feel the same as you do, i had some big discussions on this subject, look up my history it might help you out some. But I'll just say here, that it is not a sin, however maybe some of the things that go with it are, just check out my posts from before, lots of detail there.
TonyJoe
March 14th, 2016, 10:45 PM
I don't. Don't really see how anyone would feel guilty either.
West Coast Sheriff
March 14th, 2016, 11:24 PM
Most times I do.
jockeyboy97
March 14th, 2016, 11:42 PM
I did feel guilty when I first started to masturbate but after awhile I didn't anymore. I think it was because I thought I was doing something bad and if my parents caught me they would be upset.
Zachary G
March 15th, 2016, 06:53 AM
[QUOTE=Hansolo;3336961]Does anyone feel guilty after masturbating ?[/QUOTE
I used to feel guilty after I masturbated because I though I did something wrong and that when people would look at me they knew I did it. The guilty feelings will eventually go away, try not to let it ruin your good feelings because youve done nothing wrong.
Hermes
March 15th, 2016, 09:34 AM
The explanation for this is that the sex drive is very powerful so even people who have been brought up with negative views of sex/masturbation still get horny and still end up masturbating but then, at orgasm, there is a release of hormones that result in not being horny any more for a while (the refractory period) and at that point the previous feelings about sex/masturbation are effectively uncovered.
By comparison those with a positive attitude to sex/masturbation generally feel relaxed afterwards. I coun5t myself in this latter group - I don't feel guilty afterwards.
Negative views can come from the fact that sexual activities are generally done in private and therefore it almost seems we are trying to "get away with doing something we shouldn't" a bit like hiding under the bed covers with a book and torch when you're supposed to be sleeping. They can also come from religion and it seems to me some churches have been guilty of twisting the bible to their own ends, i.e. a high birth rate of believers.
The often quoted story of Onan (http://biblehub.com/genesis/38-9.htm) is not about masturbation but about Onan failing to perform his duty, according to Hebrew law, of providing his dead brother's wife with a child by practising coitus interruptus, i.e. the withdrawal method.
Other than that the bible has a very strong anti-adultery message so there are references such as Matthew 5:28 (http://biblehub.com/matthew/5-28.htm) which are often quoted as being anti-pornography. It is worth bearing in mind, though, that in biblical times puberty came later and marriage happened sooner, probably to the point that if you were sexually mature you'd be married. That means none of the prophets would have thought of the concept of a single guy looking at an unmarried but sexually mature girl or woman.
Tyler97
March 15th, 2016, 02:23 PM
Guilt is an emotion that happens when you did something bad or wrong, there's no reason to feel guilty from masturbation, feeling guilty after masturbation is wrong.
Sanchez16620
March 19th, 2016, 10:00 PM
I only feel guilty after watching porn lol but I always rely on it to get excited😆
Not Matt Damon
March 20th, 2016, 09:53 AM
All the time until I was 14 or 15, then I don't even care anymore coz it's normal
Impressionist1910
March 21st, 2016, 09:40 PM
Rarely. But there are times I do. But rarely.
KingWavy
March 31st, 2016, 12:51 AM
I sometimes do. I also feel lonely afterwards but its a common thing so no need to
Rhys2001
March 31st, 2016, 06:20 AM
yeh, i have no idea why but i do. though i believe it id probably down to exhaustion and an overwhelming amount of hormones running around.
James_Wilson
April 13th, 2016, 05:21 PM
I read that it has something to do with chemicals and hormones. I too used to feel guilty after masturbation but the feeling has now gone away.
Falcons_11
April 14th, 2016, 05:26 PM
I can't remember having felt guilty after I have masturbated and cummed. Why would you feel guilty? You haven't done anything wrong or committed any crime by doing it.
Exparagus
April 18th, 2016, 06:13 PM
I had that feeling at first, but I don't get it anymoree
Kevgpdx
April 18th, 2016, 08:14 PM
Not at all. I like it. All guys do it.
Goat69
April 23rd, 2016, 06:21 PM
yes its fairly normal
Mattlol
April 25th, 2016, 04:44 PM
I've never felt that way, that sounds odd to me to feel that way.
Steven1198
April 25th, 2016, 05:58 PM
Does anyone feel guilty after masturbating ?
I remember I felt very guilty when I did it for the 1st time but few days later after the first time, I body crave for the feeling and I did it again. It just like a cycle: masturbate > feel guilty > crave for it > masturbate again. After 2 weeks I'm like whatever, it feel good and I love it :D then I stop felt guilty about it
ValentinClarke
May 28th, 2016, 04:57 AM
Does anyone feel guilty after masturbating ?
I used to, but then it stopped after I had done it many times.
Just JT
May 28th, 2016, 06:12 AM
I used to, until I learned more about it and what it was. I used to think I was doing something wromg or something. Then learned it's all good.
But I also know people can beilieve its wromg or a sin for religious reasons, so your guilt can come from there to
In the end, I think it's fairly common to feel some guilt, but only becomes of other external perceptions that made us believe it to be wrong
But it's nor, it's normal, healthy, and fun, and almost everyone does it, and for those reasons, so wank on!!!
Ragle
May 28th, 2016, 06:34 AM
what a ridiculous idea. i never felt guilty.
The captain
May 28th, 2016, 12:58 PM
yep....sometimes I feel guilty
Kyle37
May 28th, 2016, 02:35 PM
I used to feel guilty when I first started but now it just feels really really good to finish up.
LFox96
May 28th, 2016, 11:06 PM
I did at first. Not anymore though. You should never feel guilty about jerking off
Cheerfoxx
May 29th, 2016, 07:33 AM
I am now 19, and sometimes I still feel not good about it doing it, then I wonder how it would have been much better if I had given it a girl and I blame myself for not finding a girl to do it with. While I think its much better if a girl can be sastistied by your semen.
Jameson9
May 29th, 2016, 09:04 AM
Only sometimes
BrendonOH
March 9th, 2017, 05:38 PM
Y would (or should) we feel guilty? It's what nature intended so how can it be wrong? It's just what boys do, "boys will be boys."
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