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Remora
February 12th, 2014, 03:32 PM
Before i begin mashing buttons on my keyboard, i'll introduce myself. My name is SIMON amd i've mostly read the forums without replying to them. I do have a question though.

Am i gay?

Sure, the 8 times i parcitipated in sexual activities all were male on male, i never have had a "real" crush on a girl and am having one on a boy right now and the inly things that. turn md on are dicks, literally, penises.

Despite all that I still don't feel any other sexuality than bisexual or straight.

deregisterme
February 12th, 2014, 03:40 PM
Before i begin mashing buttons on my keyboard, i'll introduce myself. My name is Michael amd i've mostly read the forums without replying to them. I do have a question though.

Am i gay?

Sure, the 8 times i parcitipated in sexual activities all were male on male, i never have had a "real" crush on a girl and am having one on a boy right now and the inly things that. turn md on are dicks, literally, penises.

Despite all that I still don't feel any other sexuality than bisexual or straight.

I wouldn't worry too much on labels. There's no details on your sexual activities (not that you have to go in to them), do you feel those were intimate or mainly out of hormonal curiosity. Also, we're all still young on here, so there is still time for us to grow and our hormones to level off.

Remora
February 12th, 2014, 03:47 PM
I wouldn't worry too much on labels. There's no details on your sexual activities (not that you have to go in to them), do you feel those were intimate or mainly out of hormonal curiosity. Also, we're all still young on here, so there is still time for us to grow and our hormones to level off.

It was mainly curiosify, yeah, but how about this dude i'm in love with right now?

JamesSC
February 12th, 2014, 03:48 PM
No. I've had sex with boys before and I consider myself straight. To be honest, I don't think their is any way of knowing until you are out of your teenage years. In your teenage years, it's sex this, sex that, so I doubt it would be much of a problem.

deregisterme
February 12th, 2014, 03:51 PM
It was mainly curiosify, yeah, but how about this dude i'm in love with right now?

It could still mean that you're bi. I do get turned on by guys and girls. It might genuinely just be a crush, as there's a big step going from a crush to being in love

Harley Quinn
February 12th, 2014, 03:51 PM
P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

Matt_97
February 12th, 2014, 05:40 PM
Sexuality is very much how you feel. If you feel like you're only ever going to be attracted to boys and you're only ever going to love boys then it's probable that you're gay. However, if you feel attraction for both you're probably bisexual. Its down to who you are emotionally and sexually attracted to. I wouldn't worry about labels, because at the end of the day the only time you need it is if you come out, and i wouldn't advice doing that at this point if you're still confused about your feelings :) hope that helped a little bit

Zachary G
February 12th, 2014, 05:49 PM
I wouldn't worry too much on labels. There's no details on your sexual activities (not that you have to go in to them), do you feel those were intimate or mainly out of hormonal curiosity. Also, we're all still young on here, so there is still time for us to grow and our hormones to level off.

Johnny has a good point, dont worry too much about labels right now, there is still much time for you to experiment ans find out what is really for you. so relax and just go with the flow and if that flow is boys right now, thats okay.

Philleeep
February 12th, 2014, 06:01 PM
Just explore how you feel now and right now is what matters. What's the worst that can happen. You try something with a guy and you decide you don't like it and it's not for you? At least you'd know right?

DeadEyes
February 12th, 2014, 07:36 PM
Before i begin mashing buttons on my keyboard, i'll introduce myself. My name is Michael amd i've mostly read the forums without replying to them. I do have a question though.

Am i gay?

Sure, the 8 times i parcitipated in sexual activities all were male on male, i never have had a "real" crush on a girl and am having one on a boy right now and the inly things that. turn md on are dicks, literally, penises.

Despite all that I still don't feel any other sexuality than bisexual or straight.

That would sound like the description of being gay and even if you get the usual comments on here about not worrying about labels and that it's normal to be curious etc. I understand your need to clarify things but well if you actually are gay, you shouldn't feel bad about it.

Remora
February 13th, 2014, 01:17 PM
First of all; thanks for all the replies!
Just explore how you feel now and right now is what matters. What's the worst that can happen. You try something with a guy and you decide you don't like it and it's not for you? At least you'd know right?
That's the point, i liked it everytime i did it... but i'd never done it or amything similiar to or with girls so i don't know if i'd like that too..

AlexOnToast
February 14th, 2014, 07:53 AM
I don't think their is any way of knowing until you are out of your teenage years.
I beg to differ mate.

And to the OP, all I can say that if deep down you really feel like you are gay, then yes. Other than that, there is no way of telling for sure. And remember, sexuality is a fluid thing, there are no real definites and there are multiple grey areas.

backjruton
February 15th, 2014, 12:47 PM
Just tell people you're bisexual if not sure so you're open to anything :D like I have...