Bottoming

[Chapperz16]

So me and this other guy will be doing anal tomorrow and I am a tad bit scared bout what it'll feel like. I've heard from some that its painful and can turn you off guys, has anyone had any experience and whether this is true or not?

[jsands]

So me and this other guy will be doing anal tomorrow and I am a tad bit scared bout what it'll feel like. I've heard from some that its painful and can turn you off guys, has anyone had any experience and whether this is true or not?

Regardless of your question for now, but.....

Are you sure you're ready for it? Of course you're going to be nervous but just make sure you want to do this and if at any time you feel like it's no longer something you want. Stop.

Just a heads up, but no i've never done so good luck with it all.

[Chapperz16]

Regardless of your question for now, but.....

Are you sure you're ready for it? Of course you're going to be nervous but just make sure you want to do this and if at any time you feel like it's no longer something you want. Stop.

Just a heads up, but no i've never done so good luck with it all.


Cheers yea, the two of us have an agreement to only go if we both feel up to it.

[Abhorrence]

There's several things that you need to have before going into this:
You need to prepare, this can be anything from hygiene to just mentally being ready.
You need to have a trust with the person, if you think they're just going to plow into you with no consideration and it's your first time - don't do it. It will hurt.
You must be verbal to your partner. If they're hurting you then say so, it will hurt to begin with no doubt but if the pain gets unbearable at any time then just stop it. Sex shouldn't be that painful.
You must relax, any tension will make it bad and you'll never enjoy it. It may take some time before you can fully relax however.

I've had several bad experiences with inconsiderate people just being extremely aggressive and unless you're into that, it's a bad fucking time. Don't go into it unless you trust this dude, gay sex is an incredibly intimate act and it does take trust, comfort and preparation.

[Bluebyrd]

I'm sure you've heard it all before but just make sure you're ready down there. If you haven't already, I recommend experimenting to see if you like it and to get a general feel of it. Also, try using lots of lube.

[ska8er]

My best friend is always hinting that by experimenting
he wants- as he says "to do me" but im not that keen
on being a bottom. I heard its painful and I don't like
pain but im not into this kind of experimenting. He
has to tell me always that he is straight which im
beginning to wonder. I told him I am curious of doing
this but just to c how it feels and Id b the top. He gets
bent out of shape when I bring it up. Hes a horn dog
that needs to bury his bone in my backyard. Im not
going to b pressured and if I did and my girl would
find out she would hit me in the nuts and ruin me.

Anyway im sure it is going to b painful at first and
don't let anyone force u into something if u r hesitant
and have to ask for advice. Other than that im not an
expert so Idk for sure what it is going to b like. Just b
careful.

[West Coast Sheriff]

I have heard you are going to want to use LOTS of lube. If you think you are using too much, you aren't. Be careful and be aware of the risks that come with sex.

[TonyJoe]

You need to carefully prepare. use lube, take it slow. and if you start to bleed, stop imediately, because that shouldn't happen.

[rioo]

be careful playing with finger because it can bleed your anus, I never receiving anal only giving it, just doing it slowly.

[alexmunroee]

first time i tried it, it hurt a little but not much and it felt really good

[Zachary G]

There's several things that you need to have before going into this:
You need to prepare, this can be anything from hygiene to just mentally being ready.
You need to have a trust with the person, if you think they're just going to plow into you with no consideration and it's your first time - don't do it. It will hurt.
You must be verbal to your partner. If they're hurting you then say so, it will hurt to begin with no doubt but if the pain gets unbearable at any time then just stop it. Sex shouldn't be that painful.
You must relax, any tension will make it bad and you'll never enjoy it. It may take some time before you can fully relax however.

I've had several bad experiences with inconsiderate people just being extremely aggressive and unless you're into that, it's a bad fucking time. Don't go into it unless you trust this dude, gay sex is an incredibly intimate act and it does take trust, comfort and preparation.

Excellently stated.

[Hideous]

I'd like to add on. Accidents do happen and that's okay. It will get messy here and there.

Make sure you trust the person. Go slow and use a lot of lubricant. I would highly recommend condoms for anal sex.

[pconnor2001]

Anyone that wants to do anal to another boy is not straight, no matter what he says.

[chiisaiaoiryu]

Anyone that wants to do anal to another boy is not straight, no matter what he says.

Sorry, but I have to respectfully disagree. That comment is an unfair observation. I had a best guy friend in high school, and we used to do anal a lot. For us, sex was an act to be done with those we really trust. He's completely straight, and I know that for a fact as he only dated girls and is now married to a girl.