In need of desperate advice

[unofficially_travis]

So basically
I am dating a girl, who I love, for the past year and then some. I care about her so much, and constantly think about her. But I keep flirting with our friend who has a huge crush on me and I can't help but flirt back. Mainly because my girlfriend isnt really physical at all, we haven't even kissed yet, and the other girl is. And I constantly get confused about what to do and what even ID happening and I just need advice on it all

[Sailor Mars]

If you love the girl you're dating, then you should be patient with her and let her take her time. Relationships aren't all about smacking lips (whichever way you want to take that). Don't go fuck around with other people just because your girlfriend isn't ready for whatever you want to do (be it kissing or anything else). Maybe talk to your girlfriend about being more physical in the relationship. Talking is the key. Otherwise yeah, just don't go roun flirting with other girls if you got one you want to keep.

[unofficially_travis]

If you love the girl you're dating, then you should be patient with her and let her take her time. Relationships aren't all about smacking lips (whichever way you want to take that). Don't go fuck around with other people just because your girlfriend isn't ready for whatever you want to do (be it kissing or anything else). Maybe talk to your girlfriend about being more physical in the relationship. Talking is the key. Otherwise yeah, just don't go roun flirting with other girls if you got one you want to keep.

I know, and we HAVE been talking about it and I KNOW that relationships isn't all about physical stuff, but that's how I tend to be and how I express my affection. I was raised with the phrase "actions speak louder than words" and that's how I think.
And I don't mean to flirt with her it just accidentally happens and I feel.horrible about it
So please don't take me a horny fuckboy

[Meron]

Have some loyalty in yourself. Ask yourself: "Will I like it if she did the same to me?"

That's all, if you wanna change things, then do so by stopping what's wrong and building up your relationship stronger.

[ClaraWho]

So basically
I am dating a girl, who I love, for the past year and then some. I care about her so much, and constantly think about her. But I keep flirting with our friend who has a huge crush on me and I can't help but flirt back. Mainly because my girlfriend isnt really physical at all, we haven't even kissed yet, and the other girl is. And I constantly get confused about what to do and what even ID happening and I just need advice on it all

If you aren't even kissing, what's the difference between what you have with her compared to if you were just friends?

I agree about not pressuring her into anything though, either commit or end the relationship before moving on. Never cheat.

~ Clara

[Tesserax]

Flirting in my opinion is not so bad, just make sure your girlfriend is okay with it also. But just don't cross the line, don't kiss, touch, or anything