kittycat72
March 9th, 2016, 09:42 PM
OK, hiah, i'm newish to these forums so forgive me. I'll use Girl A and Girl B for identity of the two girl's i'll be talking about.
SO, tonight me and and Girl A just admitted our love to each other. This happened after playing around and calling each other baby and using hearts and saying we love each other for several nights, but it started in a more playful manor. But I finally asked if she meant what she said, and she said well it depended on what i said, and I replied that I mean the "I love yous" and what not. She said she did to, and everyone lives happily ever, right...?
WELL, I honestly do believe I love her. But I'm at that point in life (15 years old) where I don't know true love and I also have another girl, Girl B, who I've been chasing after for a couple years. Girl B knows I love her, she even said she had feelings for me (i'm pretty sure she really meant it), but the only problem is she has a boyfriend. Their relationship is odd because they're very frequently fighting (in texts) but then they always form a greater bond after the fighting is done. This has gone on for those couple years I've been chasing her for. She also has been having some problems w/ her boyfriend because she is having my feelings kinda mixing into her relationship and making her uneasy cause she can't tell if she really is into me or him. I feel REALLY shooty for this.
Now I honestly can't see a way without either of them as a big role in my life, but I am just a kid D;
Now here's the primary pros and cons of the two girls.
Girl A:
Pros: She's funny,shes cute, she has a similar look on things as me.
Cons: Heres the kicker... shes...er... 13 (shes also two grades below me)... Thats really the only problem I can see with her. Her parents are also a little bit strict, so that maybe also. (she also just got out of a odd long distance relationship with someone she never met in person)
Girl B:
Pros: I've known her longer, she's in my grade, she's funny on a deeper level than Girl A, she's also cute/hot, she's come to me for advice and we've formed a good bond that way. She has a similar look on things as me, but not as similar as Girl A.
Cons: She's in a relationship. Simple. She's come to me for advice several times on fights in her relationship, and I did the moral thing and gave her good advice rather than saying "You shouldn't date him cause hes stupid and instead date me".
Now FINALLY here is my final questions to you guys.
1. What do you think on what I should do?
2. Which girl seems best?
3. How should I go about if I really love them both??
Thank you for any help!
SO, tonight me and and Girl A just admitted our love to each other. This happened after playing around and calling each other baby and using hearts and saying we love each other for several nights, but it started in a more playful manor. But I finally asked if she meant what she said, and she said well it depended on what i said, and I replied that I mean the "I love yous" and what not. She said she did to, and everyone lives happily ever, right...?
WELL, I honestly do believe I love her. But I'm at that point in life (15 years old) where I don't know true love and I also have another girl, Girl B, who I've been chasing after for a couple years. Girl B knows I love her, she even said she had feelings for me (i'm pretty sure she really meant it), but the only problem is she has a boyfriend. Their relationship is odd because they're very frequently fighting (in texts) but then they always form a greater bond after the fighting is done. This has gone on for those couple years I've been chasing her for. She also has been having some problems w/ her boyfriend because she is having my feelings kinda mixing into her relationship and making her uneasy cause she can't tell if she really is into me or him. I feel REALLY shooty for this.
Now I honestly can't see a way without either of them as a big role in my life, but I am just a kid D;
Now here's the primary pros and cons of the two girls.
Girl A:
Pros: She's funny,shes cute, she has a similar look on things as me.
Cons: Heres the kicker... shes...er... 13 (shes also two grades below me)... Thats really the only problem I can see with her. Her parents are also a little bit strict, so that maybe also. (she also just got out of a odd long distance relationship with someone she never met in person)
Girl B:
Pros: I've known her longer, she's in my grade, she's funny on a deeper level than Girl A, she's also cute/hot, she's come to me for advice and we've formed a good bond that way. She has a similar look on things as me, but not as similar as Girl A.
Cons: She's in a relationship. Simple. She's come to me for advice several times on fights in her relationship, and I did the moral thing and gave her good advice rather than saying "You shouldn't date him cause hes stupid and instead date me".
Now FINALLY here is my final questions to you guys.
1. What do you think on what I should do?
2. Which girl seems best?
3. How should I go about if I really love them both??
Thank you for any help!