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victoriamartin856
March 9th, 2016, 07:46 PM
i have a close guy friend who i am developing a crush on. i have tried to hint at it and my girl friends have noticed, but he has not. my school has significantly more girls than boys, so he has tons of girls who like him/ he is friends with. i am probably is 2nd closest girl friend. i have been trying to "flirt" and all, but he just thinks that i am being friendly. i don't want to ruin our friendship, but i do want to date him. do you guys have any advice?
thank you!

West Coast Sheriff
March 9th, 2016, 07:49 PM
Say "we should totally hang out sometime." Get him to ask. Also, I'd recommend texting him first and being like "heyyy." He might get the hint.

lliam
March 9th, 2016, 11:48 PM
may be you get this: no risk, no boyfriend.

TeenPortland
March 10th, 2016, 01:57 AM
Give him more hints: if he feels the same way, he is likely to pick up on them pretty quickly.

ashdyn
March 10th, 2016, 05:25 PM
If y'all are really close just be upfront. Catching feelings doesn't ruin friendships.

alexgirl01
March 10th, 2016, 07:16 PM
from my experience a lot of boys are dumb (not all lol go easy) and dont get hints! just tell him you like him

Cadanance00
March 11th, 2016, 10:57 AM
I think you should just tell him you want to be his gf. Sure, you can be disappointed but I never knew my friend wanted to be my gf until she told me. (doh, I'm a little dense sumtimes)