I'm new:)

[your_princess]

Okay so I'm new here and would like to talk to someone. I need advice on if I should move in with my boyfriend at his parents house for a few months. Once we get enough money saved we would get our own place. Good idea or No???

[Chapperz16]

Okay so I'm new here and would like to talk to someone. I need advice on if I should move in with my boyfriend at his parents house for a few months. Once we get enough money saved we would get our own place. Good idea or No???


I would recommend that it depend on both your age and the situation.

[Plane And Simple]

Intros :arrow2: F&F

Youll get better answers here. Welcome :)

[your_princess]

I'll be 18 Friday and he just turned 21 in September

[CosmicNoodle]

Bad idea, maybe not months, try a week first. Also, that's getting to the larger side of age gaps in our age range, be careful.

[West Coast Sheriff]

I don't think the age gap is that high after all you'll be an adult soon.

How long have you been together? Do you work? Does he work? How well do you know his parents? These are questions to think about before I can answer.

[kylem1229]

Welcome to VT Haile.

I would definitely not move in yet, especially because you are still very young. I suggest you wait until you are at least 21, and both of you have a secure job. Imagine if you moved in with him and bought a place at your current age, and things change and you two are no longer together.

[your_princess]

I don't think the age gap is that high after all you'll be an adult soon.

How long have you been together? Do you work? Does he work? How well do you know his parents? These are questions to think about before I can answer.

I've been with him for 6 months now. I'm currently waiting on a job interview. Yes he works. His parents and I are on good terms and now each other very well.

[Body odah Man]

Okay so I'm new here and would like to talk to someone. I need advice on if I should move in with my boyfriend at his parents house for a few months. Once we get enough money saved we would get our own place. Good idea or No???

Does your boyfriend live close by to your parents? Is he trustworthy? Do you think you'd be able to get along for years together in the same house? If the answer to the 2nd two is no, my answer is no. Getting your own place with a guy is a serious commitment.

[Meron]

Hi and welcome. I suggest making a new topic in the Introduction's forum if you did not yet.

Okay, so, about your topic - I suggest seeing how will it work out. If your parents and his parents are fine with you seeing each other and are fine with you freeloading at their place then that'll give you some breathing room. It will give you more time to think about future plans and even more time to save more money for a better place. If you really think it's time to move in to a new place just you and your boy then it's your call. Also weather your boyfriend can take the responsibility or not, that plays a big role.

Hope this helps, good luck.
Message me if you wanna chat by the way. I'm always looking for new friends, and I'm a good listener!

[your_princess]

Does your boyfriend live close by to your parents? Is he trustworthy? Do you think you'd be able to get along for years together in the same house? If the answer to the 2nd two is no, my answer is no. Getting your own place with a guy is a serious commitment.


ye she lives 10 mins away. very trustworthy. yes we could we can do anything together.

[Body odah Man]

ye she lives 10 mins away. very trustworthy. yes we could we can do anything together.

No need to convince me :)
It's your decision. I'm just trying to make sure it's a good one, hence the questions. You have nothing to prove to me. Hope u guys have a nice life together

[West Coast Sheriff]

I think it's safe to move in to his parents house.

[your_princess]

Thanks guys

[Ragle]

http://www.zerkelmotorwerks.com/forum/images/smilies/icon_gumby1.gif

http://tenhomaisdiscosqueamigos.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/hell-oh-novo-ep.jpg

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-jwf-UHG8zn0/T8BVK-w8VsI/AAAAAAAAALs/M3SRZeVJ-mM/s1600/princess-4.gif


https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcToaMBAJEFukdAK4sIrZ2THq_QmoKdxkpNUBxWGx8Pm4J6Wfbc3Mw


https://cdn.discourse.org/gethopscotch1/uploads/default/original/2X/0/0f4ef171100ba46086347c40d686236d39d96acb.gif

http://www.los-angeles-theatre.com/images/show/18133_show_landscape_large_01.jpg

https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcToaMBAJEFukdAK4sIrZ2THq_QmoKdxkpNUBxWGx8Pm4J6Wfbc3Mw

[kissban]

Hi :)

[ClaraWho]

Welcome to VT Haile.

I would definitely not move in yet, especially because you are still very young. I suggest you wait until you are at least 21, and both of you have a secure job. Imagine if you moved in with him and bought a place at your current age, and things change and you two are no longer together.

You've only been dating 6 months, that's not long enough to be considering anything long-term; be that moving in, marriage or babies. Take it slow. If he's the right guy he'll still be there in a years time or so. If he isn't you won't be left up the creek with no paddle. Focus on what you want in life and be more independent, don't just settle down and check out.

Welcome to the forum (:

~ Clara

[Brit4love]

I don't think it's long enough