redrider12
March 7th, 2016, 11:37 PM
This has been bothering me recently - Mods, please move if needed.
So I go to an all-male high school, and I have for the past 3 years. I love it, and I see the value in single-sex education and I'm glad I was so fortunate. It has, however, left me a bit deficient when it comes to girls.
For the past few years, I've been off and on with a few girls, one from my K-8 school and the other I met through a good guy friend. I've dated and done most everything that dating includes, and I don't regret it. They're both great girls and I'm still friends with one.
But other than that, I'm lost. I'm currently single, and I know almost no girls. When I go out in public, even shopping with my mom, I can't help but look at girls my age (Not in some creepy, pedo way). There's so much about girls I admire - the female body, almost everything. Every time I get close with a girl, she's the only one I talk to and vice-versa. And we talk for hours about deep stuff. The problem is finding those girls, or any girls for that matter. If they don't come to me, I have no idea how to seek them out. I don't have classes with them and don't play sports with them. But I need to meet girls.
I have a lot of really close guy friends, but something is missing. Something that only a female can bring. There's some emotional need for a female that is driving me absoultely insane - not a carnal desire for sex but a desire for a healthy relationship. And I have NO idea where to start.
Do any of you find yourselves in similar situations? Anyone have any tips? I would appreciate it so so so much.
So I go to an all-male high school, and I have for the past 3 years. I love it, and I see the value in single-sex education and I'm glad I was so fortunate. It has, however, left me a bit deficient when it comes to girls.
For the past few years, I've been off and on with a few girls, one from my K-8 school and the other I met through a good guy friend. I've dated and done most everything that dating includes, and I don't regret it. They're both great girls and I'm still friends with one.
But other than that, I'm lost. I'm currently single, and I know almost no girls. When I go out in public, even shopping with my mom, I can't help but look at girls my age (Not in some creepy, pedo way). There's so much about girls I admire - the female body, almost everything. Every time I get close with a girl, she's the only one I talk to and vice-versa. And we talk for hours about deep stuff. The problem is finding those girls, or any girls for that matter. If they don't come to me, I have no idea how to seek them out. I don't have classes with them and don't play sports with them. But I need to meet girls.
I have a lot of really close guy friends, but something is missing. Something that only a female can bring. There's some emotional need for a female that is driving me absoultely insane - not a carnal desire for sex but a desire for a healthy relationship. And I have NO idea where to start.
Do any of you find yourselves in similar situations? Anyone have any tips? I would appreciate it so so so much.