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blaze_1327
March 6th, 2016, 03:18 PM
Okay so i really need some advice. I'm a 17 year old. You know when u had a crush on someone in your class or you you would just feel some type of feeling towards someone ? for the past 2 years I haven't had that it's like my romantic feels switch off. And recently I have been thinking about it alot . Am I the only who feels emothionless or is it a phase ?
Zachary G
March 6th, 2016, 03:52 PM
Ive gone through that period and am kinda feeling that right now ever since i broke up with my bf. You arent the only one who gets that feeling and it is kind of a phase because its something that you will experience from time to time.
Splat
March 6th, 2016, 04:09 PM
Perhaps a phase but I too feel like that.

Before Christmas I'd never had feelings for anyone then at Christmas I suddenly thought I had. But really, I hadn't had feelings for that guy romantically just more... he was similar to me in interests and I thought he was awesome but other than that...nahhhh. I recon that was just a hormonal fluctuation. Ever since then I've felt the same as before. Relationships don't interest me much at the moment. Sure, sometimes I get jealous that my friends have a guy to lean on but I'd personally much rather get on with my life than worry about it.
blaze_1327
March 7th, 2016, 12:04 AM
Okay thank you for the replies.
Splat , yeah I know what u mean I kinds get jealous too about couples an things but yeah I get ur point.
Hudor
March 7th, 2016, 04:16 AM
I haven't had the feels for quite a long while now. I think it has something to do with how you deal with crushes, relationships, breakups and the general environment around you. It's not abnormal and you're certainly not the only one. I guess most of us go through this phase at some point.
RJH98
March 7th, 2016, 01:23 PM
It could be just a phase but I can't tell you an answer that is definite. Things that happen to you like break-ups can change you and what you feel. I for example don't feel like I can every marry someone because of my parents divorce.

I haven't felt like being with someone for a while but I could meet someone tomorrow that changes that in split second. Or maybe not, i don't know yet.