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Devillain
March 6th, 2016, 09:08 AM
I'm gonna explain my situation first, so here's the background info.
Me and this girl got to know another through a mutual friend a long time back. After some time (both of us were 13 then) we fell in love with one another, and came together. It was the first real relationship for both of us. It was a great time, although I do admit to not devoting as much time to her as she would have hoped. Then, about 7 months later, she broke up with me. It was quiet sad, but I was able to handle it. Then, again 2 months later, she told me she had made a mistake, so we gave it another try. This time the relationship failed after a relatively short time.

This has been more than two years ago, and me and this girl have been good friends since. But lately I started to develop feelings for her again. And I really do not know what I should do. Like really, I'm not even sure she would still want to. Also all this thinking of the past does make me quiet sad at times. What do you people suggest here?

Leprous
March 6th, 2016, 10:10 AM
As someone who has been in 3 relationships with the same girl, I can say one thing. Think about it, very very well. It'll only be harder if it fails again. Do you get along well? Do you understand eachother?
Keep these things in mind, don't just go for it again if you're not sure if it'll work out.

Zachary G
March 6th, 2016, 12:51 PM
I think the 2 of you should sit down and talk about your feelings, see where she is as far as her feelings go, then way out the pros and cons of your being together as a couple. That might help you sort things out and help you both make a decision without anyone getting hurt.

Devillain
March 7th, 2016, 06:30 AM
Thanks for the advice guys, I'll see what I'm gonna do about it.