help, I need tips to move on

[benbeny]

So basically we've been dating for about 3 years, and we broke up 2 years ago, but we still maintain close contact ever since.
The main problem is, I still feel the need to be with that girl, while she accepts me as a best friend.
I'm pretty much disturbed by the fact that my feeling about that girl makes me difficult to ask some girls, cause I feel guilty about it.
Any advice on how to take it easy and get my life better will be very much appreciated.
Thank you

[Meron]

Same's going on for me. Try telling her? Or is she already taken?

Right, try hanging out with your friends some more, get yourself a hobby. Just try to forget, or just... find someone new.

[Zachary G]

1) try telling her how you feel and see what she has to say about it.
2) stop feeling guilty over having thoughts of wanting to ask other girls out, you arent doing anything wrong and its not cheating. You have a new found friendship with your ex and thats all you have right now
3) take the chance to jump out there and ask a girl out as a friend and then see where that goes, maybe once you do that, you will feel much better about the situation and relax

[benbeny]

thank you for your advice guys... I'm looking forward to hear more about that from you