what the hell gender am i?! :(

[clarpere]

guys i have a dilema, idk what i am??
I was born female, i "dress" like what society thinks a female dresses like.
but even though i appear feminine, i feel like im just a guy who is feminine . does that make anyyyy sense? :c oh well...
-clar

[Moriya]

I am not a licensed therapist, so this may be inaccurate.

Have you thought about the possibility of you being transgender? Bigender? If you "feel" like a guy and don't think you identify as a [cisgendered] female, then you might be trans. If you feel like you're a guy, but content with also identifying as a girl, then you could also be bigender.

There's also demigender. But you can look that up on your own. I hope this helps.

[northy]

You can be whatever gender you want to be. Don't label yourself as something you aren't comfortable with, labels are not needed or necessary.

[ptz7649]

Yes this makes lots of sense

[Think with my heart]

I d think that there may be some hidden trans within you. If that's the case then maybe right now you don't need to make up your mind. Dress like a guy under cover. Dress like a girl under cover. Do whatever makes you happy in life. :D

[West Coast Sheriff]

What was your gender assigned at birth? I read you were born female but I wasn't sure if you meant anatomically or a female trapped inside a male body

[Cristina15]

You can be whatever gender you want to be. Don't label yourself as something you aren't comfortable with, labels are not needed or necessary.

yes! i agree with you 100%

[Microcosm]

clarpere,

It is best I think to not make a decision right now. There's no reason to rush yourself. My advice: go with whichever gender you feel most associated with. If you feel like you are mostly a girl, then go with that. If you feel like you are mostly a guy(having manly tendencies and a desire to dress like one, things like that), then go with that.

It's best in my opinion not to be undecided or to try to be both. Usually this will cause you to be very confused and possibly very depressed.

Hope I helped you. Good luck.

[Jamesclarke]

Umm excuse my ignorance but why do you or anyone need to assign a label to yourself? I mean I get wanting an identity but also rather than saying your a Demi triangular night owl, can't you just say your a person and let your actions shape how people see you? Dunno I just think it's weird that we often have people saying they hate labels and then go ahead and deem themselves as being queen lizard woman or whatever. Just be you and yea that's it