KangarooInMalibu
March 1st, 2016, 08:40 AM
I know some people will probably say that I'm overreacting but I would like to have your opinion on this matter
I've been crushing on a boy in one of my classes. We're both seniors and we've known each other since jr high though we haven’t talked as much in the past few years due to not having any classes together. I started crushing on him sometime during September and began slightly flirting with him, glancing at him during class, sending him nice messages, etc., and sometimes it looked like he was glancing at me a bunch during class as well. He also playfully teased me once for a little while during class a few months back.
One day one of our close friends (let’s call her Lisa) private messaged me on Twitter and asked me if I had a crush on him to which I replied yes. She then proceeded to tell me she “honestly didn’t know how (she) guessed but (she) had a feeling I liked him” and also added how cute it was.
One morning, I decided to make a joke about how I can always hear his car’s engine from down the street and how I love hearing him rev his engine (I really do love hearing that sound). Later that evening, he ended up blocking me for a few hours but when I told Lisa he blocked me, she talked to him and he unblocked me (it wasn’t my idea for her to do that, she just volunteered). But neither Lisa nor I knew what his reason for blocking me was.
Because I didn’t know whether I’d said something that offended him or hurt him, I sent him an apology letter along the lines of “I’m really sorry if I said something to you that offended or hurt you in any way and I’ve never had any intention of doing that to you. I hope you can forgive me.” I never received any message back from, and I didn't mind. I also know that he is actually a very forgiving person so I didn't dwell much on not receiving any reply.
A few days ago I was surfing Twitter and I saw that I was no longer following him so I clicked on his profile and that’s when I saw that he had blocked me. Lisa found out and she told me how sad this made her and that she had no idea why he did it this time. The only thing I’ve been doing in class is casting a few glances in his direction. The last time I talked to him was when I sent him the apology letter a little over 2 weeks ago, which is why I’m confused to his reason for suddenly blocking me. One reason that I think could be in the realm of possibilities is that he and his on-again off-again girlfriend recently broke up a little over a month and a half ago. I also know that, sometimes, he can be a little bit of an overreactor.
I was wondering what your thoughts are on this situation I’m in? Should I just brush it off and act like it never happened? Should I forget about him and stop crushing on him?
I've been crushing on a boy in one of my classes. We're both seniors and we've known each other since jr high though we haven’t talked as much in the past few years due to not having any classes together. I started crushing on him sometime during September and began slightly flirting with him, glancing at him during class, sending him nice messages, etc., and sometimes it looked like he was glancing at me a bunch during class as well. He also playfully teased me once for a little while during class a few months back.
One day one of our close friends (let’s call her Lisa) private messaged me on Twitter and asked me if I had a crush on him to which I replied yes. She then proceeded to tell me she “honestly didn’t know how (she) guessed but (she) had a feeling I liked him” and also added how cute it was.
One morning, I decided to make a joke about how I can always hear his car’s engine from down the street and how I love hearing him rev his engine (I really do love hearing that sound). Later that evening, he ended up blocking me for a few hours but when I told Lisa he blocked me, she talked to him and he unblocked me (it wasn’t my idea for her to do that, she just volunteered). But neither Lisa nor I knew what his reason for blocking me was.
Because I didn’t know whether I’d said something that offended him or hurt him, I sent him an apology letter along the lines of “I’m really sorry if I said something to you that offended or hurt you in any way and I’ve never had any intention of doing that to you. I hope you can forgive me.” I never received any message back from, and I didn't mind. I also know that he is actually a very forgiving person so I didn't dwell much on not receiving any reply.
A few days ago I was surfing Twitter and I saw that I was no longer following him so I clicked on his profile and that’s when I saw that he had blocked me. Lisa found out and she told me how sad this made her and that she had no idea why he did it this time. The only thing I’ve been doing in class is casting a few glances in his direction. The last time I talked to him was when I sent him the apology letter a little over 2 weeks ago, which is why I’m confused to his reason for suddenly blocking me. One reason that I think could be in the realm of possibilities is that he and his on-again off-again girlfriend recently broke up a little over a month and a half ago. I also know that, sometimes, he can be a little bit of an overreactor.
I was wondering what your thoughts are on this situation I’m in? Should I just brush it off and act like it never happened? Should I forget about him and stop crushing on him?