Relationship help

[MrCK]

So i asked this girl who i've been hanging out with for about a month the other day out and she said YES. We had a great day out as BF/GF etc

Then she messaged me that night saying that we should get to know eachother a bit more before we get into a relationship.

Does she still have feelings for me and want a relationship and what should i do now?

Thanks :)

[Tesserax]

Just keep going, she's saying that she has feeling for you but wants more grounding, more foundation, before you two have a relationship.

Just keep going on dates and stuff, hang out every once in awhile, get to know her and open up to her a bit. Once you have that emotional connection, she'll probably be cool with a fully committed relationship. Just stay calm and play the long game, better than what I did and stuff it up quickly

[Lukas1999]

So i asked this girl who i've been hanging out with for about a month the other day out and she said YES. We had a great day out as BF/GF etc

Then she messaged me that night saying that we should get to know eachother a bit more before we get into a relationship.

Does she still have feelings for me and want a relationship and what should i do now?

Thanks :)


First of all: I think she still has feelings for you. I think she is right with her message. Knowing each other is probably good if you want to get in a relationship. Keep on going!

I hope that I could help you.

[West Coast Sheriff]

I would keep talking to her and assume she likes you. If she responds less, shorter answers etc. I think it shows signs of losing interest. For now, assume she likes you. Be nice and give her attention and get to know her better. Show her why she should date youu— Unless she shows signs of losing interest. Then, I'd move on.

[Sports Boy]

I would keep talking to her and assume she likes you. If she responds less, shorter answers etc. I think it shows signs of losing interest. For now, assume she likes you. Be nice and give her attention and get to know her better. Show her why she should date youu— Unless she shows signs of losing interest. Then, I'd move on.

Very good advice from the Sheriff.

[DoodleSnap]

I think it's fair to say, based on the limited information available, that she is interested in a relationship, but that she doesn't want to make it formal just yet. She wants to get to know you, so have fun doing that! Be honest, communicate well, and enjoy it.

[kylem1229]

You just need to keep talking to her. Dont rush things too quickly, start off slowly.