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JeJbot
February 28th, 2016, 12:16 PM
I've been friends it's this dude for nearly 3 years and it's clear were good friends we've never jacked off together but I kinda want to, is that weird? Plus I dot wanna say anything otherwise it might be awkward and ruin our friendship

dbfordateam
February 28th, 2016, 12:18 PM
Is he hinting anything? If not then don't bring it up, if he shows signs of affection go for it.

JeJbot
February 28th, 2016, 12:19 PM
I don't really know what a sign of affection would be. He's kissed me before but not in a romantic way in a bit of a jokey way

ska8er
February 28th, 2016, 01:24 PM
He wants u to make a move. U go for a kiss in a joking way and c what he does. Ask him
if he wants to watch some porn online and
c where that leads to. Give it a try Bro.

Sports Boy
February 28th, 2016, 01:51 PM
You also asked if it's weird. It's not weird at all, especially if you're bi or gay. And even if you're straight, sometimes you can feel an attraction for a member of the same sex.

Bluebyrd
February 28th, 2016, 03:46 PM
I've said it before and I'll say it again. Try letting him catch you masturbating and see if he joins in.

jockeyboy97
February 28th, 2016, 04:20 PM
If he kissed you in a joking way he was checking you out to see your reaction, it seems he is curious. I would try watching porn with him at a sleepover and go from there. In my experience watching porn at a sleepover in underwear makes it easier to experiment. Your emotions, feelings and excitement can lead to a good time. You will be able to tell by your friends reaction how far the both of you are comfortable with.

teenboyNathan
February 28th, 2016, 04:28 PM
Like everybody said, if he hints it go for it

jake1214
February 29th, 2016, 10:39 PM
like you said, it could ruin the friendship or make things really awkward. I would just be careful...you never really know how the other person feels.

benbeny
March 2nd, 2016, 07:52 AM
I agree, it could be really awkward. If he's openly gay or bi, maybe you can ask him in joking way

Zachary G
March 2nd, 2016, 09:43 AM
I had a major crush on my best friend one time and I wanted to do so many sexual things with him, but I never said anything to him about it and he never hinted around that he wanted to do stuff either. I was afraid if I said anything that it would change our friendship and I didnt want to risk that because I liked him too much. Its a chance you take and you have to decide how important his friendship is to you.

hairy balls
March 2nd, 2016, 10:28 PM
yes I agree like you said, it could ruin the friendship or make things really awkward. I would just be careful...you never really know how the other person feels.

benlodge123
March 4th, 2016, 02:46 PM
Maybe

SethfromMI
March 4th, 2016, 03:07 PM
no it is not weird. I would be careful before acting on those feelings though. he may not like any advances and in some situations it ends up ruining the friendship. I am not saying that would happen, I am saying just be careful