ruining my life

[thatgothgirluknow]

my mom makes everyday a struggle nothing i do is every good enough in fact she yells at me over every step i make no matter how hard i try she keeps saying she can't wait till im 18 so she can kick me out and saying she hates me and im worthless she does her best to make working toward collage and my future harder by taking away school opportunities like early collage away from me ugh i don't know what to do trying to get emancipated vent over

[West Coast Sheriff]

Ask her why she's so mean to you. Hearing those words might be a real eye opener for her.

Don't be afraid to hug her and say you love her. Those words/gestures could really help change her attitude toward you

[Straya]

if you have a close friend maybe just see if you can move in with them and dont tell your mum. just one day while shes not home move and really throw in her face what shes done

[Zachary G]

You need to let her know that all that she is doing is causing you hurt and that she needs to explain herself as to why she is being the way she is towards you. She needs to know that you are hurting and she is the one who is hurting you deeply. Tell her being a bitch isnt getting her anywhere.

If she continues, maybe you could call child services on her and get them involved and maybe they can help you get emancipated like you want.

[thatgothgirluknow]

Ask her why she's so mean to you. Hearing those words might be a real eye opener for her.
Don't be afraid to hug her and say you love her. Those words/gestures could really help change her attitude toward you
i have ask her and she says it's because im a horrible person

if you have a close friend maybe just see if you can move in with them and dont tell your mum. just one day while shes not home move and really throw in her face what shes done in florida it is illegal to move out under 18 without parent permission unless emancipated which im working on right now but yes my friend and her mom have offered me a place to stay

You need to let her know that all that she is doing is causing you hurt and that she needs to explain herself as to why she is being the way she is towards you. She needs to know that you are hurting and she is the one who is hurting you deeply. Tell her being a bitch isnt getting her anywhere.
If she continues, maybe you could call child services on her and get them involved and maybe they can help you get emancipated like you want.
sadly they wont do anything for me where i live they don't help much unless your a little kid or end up in the hospital even seeing bruises she left on me wasn't enough

[gothy]

hey jordan, i just saw this now. I dont know the whole history behind this or how long it has been going for, but if this something that is reoccuring over a long period of time i suggest you leave. In Canada, there are shelters for children who are victims of unsafe homes and abusive environments. There is one called Covenant House. It was started in the USA I believe so maybe you should check if there is a location near you or a similar shelter. Second, In Canada, a youth (16-18) has the legal right to leave their parents as well as consent to various other things. This sets the minimum age for youth shelters to 16+. If you really feel threatened and scared, I suggest going to the police station. Or contacting a Children's Aid service. When you go to this, you need to let them know everything and stress that you dont feel safe going home (if this is the case). In Canada, they can not turn down a child who is in an unsafe situation. I don't know much about USA law but I assume there must be some laws in place.

I hope this helps.

[Porpoise101]

my mom makes everyday a struggle nothing i do is every good enough in fact she yells at me over every step i make no matter how hard i try
Sometimes this happens to me as well. It's not nearly as bad as your case seems but usually issues that erupt between my mother and I is the result of us being stressed. Today was in fact one of those days. When people are stressed, emotions are more intense and unbridled and people act more rashly. Just know it will pass and that you should try to lower each other's stress.

[thatgothgirluknow]

Sometimes this happens to me as well. It's not nearly as bad as your case seems but usually issues that erupt between my mother and I is the result of us being stressed. Just know it will pass and that you should try to lower each other's stress.

I agree that its stress but the problem is that it doesn't pass in a reasonable amount of time it always last at least 3 weeks and when it ends it seems like there's rarely more than two weeks between another fight