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Shadow08200
February 11th, 2014, 06:26 PM
So over the past month or two, i've recently been masturbating to pictures of people at my school. At my point in puberty, i've gone crazy for girls boobs. I've felt really guilty looking at them, and eventually masturbating to the pictures that they post on social media websites. It makes me feel even more guilty/dirty when I see that person in the hallway, or when they're in my classroom.

Should I stop? I don't feel as if this is right, but I don't necessarily get a 'kick' out of what I do without a picture as of late. What should I do, if anything, to resist urges to masturbate to pictures of other girls (that are my age, in my school)

I don't want to feel like a creep to some people out there.

Fireangel
February 11th, 2014, 06:31 PM
If you felt guilty, stop then.

MechaSniper
February 11th, 2014, 07:10 PM
It's your choice of stopping or not. But I will say this. What they don't know cant hurt them.

chrisjenkins
February 11th, 2014, 10:34 PM
It is your choice.

Second Chance
February 11th, 2014, 10:51 PM
I wouldn't say that what you're doing is wrong, and it is not like you're violating anyone's privacy or something like that. You are just having a surge of hormones, and you are admiring someone's body. In my opinion, what's the difference between jacking off to some publically available photographs and thinking about a girl you like and picturing her in your mind? I do not see an ethical problem here, and you're just being a normal teenage guy.

If jacking off to folks at your school is making you feel badly, then find something else to jack off to especially if it creeps you out seeing the people you jack off to the next day.

dreamofdante
February 11th, 2014, 10:55 PM
So over the past month or two, i've recently been masturbating to pictures of people at my school. At my point in puberty, i've gone crazy for girls boobs. I've felt really guilty looking at them, and eventually masturbating to the pictures that they post on social media websites. It makes me feel even more guilty/dirty when I see that person in the hallway, or when they're in my classroom.

Should I stop? I don't feel as if this is right, but I don't necessarily get a 'kick' out of what I do without a picture as of late. What should I do, if anything, to resist urges to masturbate to pictures of other girls (that are my age, in my school)

I don't want to feel like a creep to some people out there.

There's nothing wrong with it. I did that when I was your age. Sort of. But if you feel bad about it, then stop.

ksdnfkfr
February 11th, 2014, 11:01 PM
I think everyone does that to one degree or another.

LunarScorpio
February 12th, 2014, 04:11 AM
If you feel it is wrong stop, but that is honestly your choice

AlexOnToast
February 12th, 2014, 04:36 AM
If you feel guilty, you should remember that the majority of guys do pretty much what you do. If it is really effecting you in a bad way, then maybe it's a good idea to try cut down, but other than that, don't beat yourself up to hard bro :)

joe_dare
February 12th, 2014, 04:56 AM
ha ha enjoy it mate everybody does it!

Living For Love
February 12th, 2014, 09:57 AM
If you feel guilty, you should try to stop. If masturbation is something that is supposed to give you pleasure, and if you can't have any benefit from it, and if it even makes you feel embarrassed, then what's the point in continuing it?

Ciel09x
February 12th, 2014, 12:59 PM
I mean if you feel that way try to stop

deregisterme
February 12th, 2014, 03:49 PM
So over the past month or two, i've recently been masturbating to pictures of people at my school. At my point in puberty, i've gone crazy for girls boobs. I've felt really guilty looking at them, and eventually masturbating to the pictures that they post on social media websites. It makes me feel even more guilty/dirty when I see that person in the hallway, or when they're in my classroom.

Should I stop? I don't feel as if this is right, but I don't necessarily get a 'kick' out of what I do without a picture as of late. What should I do, if anything, to resist urges to masturbate to pictures of other girls (that are my age, in my school)

I don't want to feel like a creep to some people out there.

I assure you, you're not alone in doing this. Some girls may get turned on by the thought, but some girls may get creeped out by the idea, so there's no need to tell them that you do.

JamesSC
February 12th, 2014, 03:49 PM
What they don't know cant hurt them!

Liam Peter
February 12th, 2014, 04:49 PM
Its your choice to stop or not, but I just wanna say I felt the same as you, and its normal to feel guilty but it should go away, your not doing anything wrong

Zachary G
February 12th, 2014, 05:14 PM
I wouldn't say that what you're doing is wrong, and it is not like you're violating anyone's privacy or something like that. You are just having a surge of hormones, and you are admiring someone's body. In my opinion, what's the difference between jacking off to some publically available photographs and thinking about a girl you like and picturing her in your mind? I do not see an ethical problem here, and you're just being a normal teenage guy.

If jacking off to folks at your school is making you feel badly, then find something else to jack off to especially if it creeps you out seeing the people you jack off to the next day.

I dont think I could give any better advice that this ^. He makes some very valid points.

everlong
February 12th, 2014, 06:16 PM
Masturbation is meant for pleasure, if the guilt of doing so is taking over the pleasure you want for masturbation, stop. But plenty of guys do what you do, including me. If you feel guilty, stop. Don't let me try to change your mind, but if they don't know about it, there's no harm done. You can jerk off to the pictures and not show or tell anyone, and you'll be just fine.

Jeonard
February 13th, 2014, 07:13 PM
do as you feel, just make sure they never find out...

Curious.kid
February 14th, 2014, 01:19 AM
So over the past month or two, i've recently been masturbating to pictures of people at my school. At my point in puberty, i've gone crazy for girls boobs. I've felt really guilty looking at them, and eventually masturbating to the pictures that they post on social media websites. It makes me feel even more guilty/dirty when I see that person in the hallway, or when they're in my classroom.

Should I stop? I don't feel as if this is right, but I don't necessarily get a 'kick' out of what I do without a picture as of late. What should I do, if anything, to resist urges to masturbate to pictures of other girls (that are my age, in my school)

I don't want to feel like a creep to some people out there.

I feel guilty, too because I do the same thing. Even though it's just using our own imagination I still feel bad after I finish, and like you, when I see them at school then next day. I've had wet dreams about a girl at my table kissing my penis and that made me feel even more guilty the next day because the dream actually felt real. Did you ever get something like that happen to you?

Remora
February 14th, 2014, 01:30 AM
I wouldn't say that what you're doing is wrong, and it is not like you're violating anyone's privacy or something like that. You are just having a surge of hormones, and you are admiring someone's body. In my opinion, what's the difference between jacking off to some publically available photographs and thinking about a girl you like and picturing her in your mind? I do not see an ethical problem here, and you're just being a normal teenage guy.

If jacking off to folks at your school is making you feel badly, then find something else to jack off to especially if it creeps you out seeing the people you jack off to the next day.

I complety agree with this post. Try finding an alternative way to get that "kick".

Second Chance
February 14th, 2014, 02:48 AM
I feel guilty, too because I do the same thing. Even though it's just using our own imagination I still feel bad after I finish, and like you, when I see them at school then next day. I've had wet dreams about a girl at my table kissing my penis and that made me feel even more guilty the next day because the dream actually felt real. Did you ever get something like that happen to you?

I wouldn't feel guilty about the wet dream because you just don't have control over what you dream about.

I think a lot of us probably jacked off to folks at school we found attractive, and it does feel guilty because we seem them in person like the next day. I think that as long as you treat the person right and not as an object when you see them, then you have nothing to worry about. The fact remains most junior high school and high school guys jack off to folks they see, and once the hormones wear off you'll be fine.

If jacking off to folks you know is something that really bothers you, then just remind yourself that you're going to see them the next day which should kill your desire to think about them. There are definitely a lot of other things out there you can use as wanking material, and just use those things instead of thinking of folks in school. If you have a sexual thought about someone at school, then it's not a big deal because everyone has them both guys and girls. As long as you don't act on your thoughts, then you're fine.

swimBoy
February 14th, 2014, 02:39 PM
I feel guilty, too because I do the same thing. Even though it's just using our own imagination I still feel bad after I finish, and like you, when I see them at school then next day. I've had wet dreams about a girl at my table kissing my penis and that made me feel even more guilty the next day because the dream actually felt real. Did you ever get something like that happen to you?

When I have a wet dream it will usually involve a scene from my daily life, like swimming. All I remember after waking up is a hand on my tool, I don't reacll any faces. If I did recall a face I'm sure the next time I'd see them I'd pop a bone, so I'm glad I don't.

Ben101
February 14th, 2014, 02:39 PM
There isnt really anything wrong with it, I bet loads of people do it, So really its up to u whether to carry on or not.

backjruton
February 14th, 2014, 05:51 PM
I do it and don't feel any guilt :D

Hermes
February 15th, 2014, 05:22 AM
Personally I don't think youa re doing anything wrong. You are using pictures that the girls concerned have chosen to make public and presumably you're not creeping them out by telling them you masturbate to their pictures so in that sense you aren't causing any harm or distress to the girls concerned.

Your thoughts, including sexual fantasies are private and no-one else can expect to control them or make you accountable for them.

So, if the reassurance you get from here helps you not feel guilty then great. Some people fel guily about masturbating regardless of any particular visual stimulation and that tends to fade with time, too. On the other hand masturbating is supposed to be a pleasure so I wouldn't prioritise conquering this guilt over enjoying yourself.

Curious.kid
February 15th, 2014, 06:06 AM
When I have a wet dream it will usually involve a scene from my daily life, like swimming. All I remember after waking up is a hand on my tool, I don't reacll any faces. If I did recall a face I'm sure the next time I'd see them I'd pop a bone, so I'm glad I don't.

You should consider yourself lucky then because my wet dreams have all been about people. And yes, I get a boner in class when I see them from my dream. It's embarrassing to see them knowing what happened in the dream even though I don't know why they did what they did. Sometimes I feel my face get red when she looks at me in class because I know I'm hard at the same time. It's so uncontrollable and like my body is hijacked by my penis.

swimBoy
February 18th, 2014, 07:12 AM
That sounds really bad, I'm sure my face turns red when someone looks at me (my zipper area) while I'm boned. Dones'nt matter if it's male or female, I still turn red.

DarkHorse4eva
February 18th, 2014, 06:45 PM
if you feel guilt, then stop.

whiteskittle
February 23rd, 2014, 06:24 PM
I dont think there is anything to feel guilty about as long as you treat them well in person. trust me, i masturbate to classmates all the time and have since i was a kid.

hockeyboy18
February 23rd, 2014, 06:31 PM
Everyone feels that way at one point, but its just part of life and masturbation is too much fun to give up

Hanson
February 23rd, 2014, 07:20 PM
Don't need to feel guilt. IIt's normal for healthy guys