TheGentleman
February 22nd, 2016, 05:37 PM
Hi guys, so I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 years now, and we are distance dating, we met online, and won't be able to be together in real life until she is 18. Our relationship has been going great, but there's something that really annoys me and it's always been annoying me, and that's the fact that she is super possessive and gets jealous easily. If I am in Skype calls with other girls, or I am playing a game with another girl, she will get super defensive and start to guilt trip me, and get mad.
Now what I don't understand is that I've been loyal to this girl for 3 years now, never cheated, only loved her, turned other girls down, and made sure I've always shown my love to her. Her on the other hand, has cheated on me a couple times, but this was very early on in the relationship, and she's completely turned herself around. She knows I'm a good guy, and she knows I would never cheat on her, but for some reason she still gets jealous and she tells me thing like that she doesn't want to share me, and she doesn't want me to be nice to other girls. Like I am a nice person in general, and I am kind to everyone, so I don't really know what to tell her or what to do. I've tried encouraging her and trying to help her be less jealous, but it's like I literally can't even have any female friends because she'll rage and make me feel bad and guilt trip me, or get into arguments.
I don't mind if she has friends that are guys, and in fact I get along with them, but she has a problem with girls. I don't know if it's because maybe some of these girls like me, or maybe she is scared that I will date them, which I won't but it's really annoying at this point. She has a friend that we play a game together with, and this morning my gf was at school, and I was off, and I was playing with her friend, and her friend DOES HAVE A BF IN REAL LIFE, and then when she came home and saw us playing in a Skype call she got super mad and jealous and started guilt tripping me, and she gets along with this girl and its her friend too.
I don't know what to do... I mean I love my gf, but I hate the fact that she is so jealous so easily, and so possessive, to the point where I am restricted and can't even do what I want to do anymore. Any ideas, tips, maybe reasons why she could be acting like this?
We are both 17 by the way.
Now what I don't understand is that I've been loyal to this girl for 3 years now, never cheated, only loved her, turned other girls down, and made sure I've always shown my love to her. Her on the other hand, has cheated on me a couple times, but this was very early on in the relationship, and she's completely turned herself around. She knows I'm a good guy, and she knows I would never cheat on her, but for some reason she still gets jealous and she tells me thing like that she doesn't want to share me, and she doesn't want me to be nice to other girls. Like I am a nice person in general, and I am kind to everyone, so I don't really know what to tell her or what to do. I've tried encouraging her and trying to help her be less jealous, but it's like I literally can't even have any female friends because she'll rage and make me feel bad and guilt trip me, or get into arguments.
I don't mind if she has friends that are guys, and in fact I get along with them, but she has a problem with girls. I don't know if it's because maybe some of these girls like me, or maybe she is scared that I will date them, which I won't but it's really annoying at this point. She has a friend that we play a game together with, and this morning my gf was at school, and I was off, and I was playing with her friend, and her friend DOES HAVE A BF IN REAL LIFE, and then when she came home and saw us playing in a Skype call she got super mad and jealous and started guilt tripping me, and she gets along with this girl and its her friend too.
I don't know what to do... I mean I love my gf, but I hate the fact that she is so jealous so easily, and so possessive, to the point where I am restricted and can't even do what I want to do anymore. Any ideas, tips, maybe reasons why she could be acting like this?
We are both 17 by the way.