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ZzeWatermelon
February 22nd, 2016, 02:15 PM
So my friend asked my crush if he liked me and he answered that I'm not his type of girl. What does it mean?
ClaraWho
February 22nd, 2016, 02:18 PM
It means he doesn't like you back, sorry :(.
~ Clara
eric2001
February 22nd, 2016, 02:50 PM
So my friend asked my crush if he liked me and he answered that I'm not his type of girl. What does it mean?
Don't give up. If he's your crush you can get him to like you. Most boys can be won over.
Uniquemind
February 22nd, 2016, 04:44 PM
So my friend asked my crush if he liked me and he answered that I'm not his type of girl. What does it mean?
This better be a new crush.
The person themselves already told you to your own face that he doesn't feel the same way. I don't understand why this topic hasn't been made peace with, it's your only option if you want to ultimately be happy in the end.
West Coast Sheriff
February 22nd, 2016, 07:04 PM
It means he doesn't like you back, sorry :(.
~ Clara
Blunt, straight up way to put it but, I agree. By not his type, it means he is looking for something else.
Don't give up. If he's your crush you can get him to like you. Most boys can be won over.
Not true. If a girl "doesn't meet a guys standards", he's probably not into her. Find someone who likes you and appreciates you for who you are.
This better be a new crush.
The person themselves already told you to your own face that he doesn't feel the same way. I don't understand why this topic hasn't been made peace with, it's your only option if you want to ultimately be happy in the end.
Chasing after him isn't going to help you feel better. If you pursue this crush, you'll most likely end up hurt and/or disappointed.
ZzeWatermelon
February 22nd, 2016, 07:19 PM
But not his type does it mean that he's not attracted physically, what does "type" or "style" of girl exactly represent? Because I got the part that he didn't like me back, and I know it clearly, but it's just the part of someone's type I don't get. The fact he doesn't like me I knew it from the day I met him lol, he's just out of my league.
West Coast Sheriff
February 22nd, 2016, 07:35 PM
His type is probably what he considers a "pretty girl", although I assure you, you are pretty no matter what he thinks. He probably wasn't going to be blunt in front of your friend. Had a close guy friend of his asked ... He might've said something else. Again, I don't know because, I wasn't there.
SethfromMI
February 22nd, 2016, 08:19 PM
it probably has something to do with looks. then again, there are some beautiful girls out there physically who can be ugly when it comes to personality. I am not saying you have that problem at all. it might be a matter of your interests being so different (again, if a beautiful and sweet girl had nothing in common with me, even if she is pretty and sweet I would still probably pass)
so much can go into this. you might have to begin to consider moving on if he is simply not interested
Tesserax
February 24th, 2016, 12:31 AM
"Not his type of girl" could mean a lot of things:
You don't look the way he wants
You don't act the way he wants
You don't have boobs as big as he wants
You don't have that something that he's looking for
This is unlikely, most guys have thought about having sex with at least 90% of their female friends, or even females that they don't know. Show interest, and he'll probably catch on, but don't do it in a sexual way otherwise he'll see you as a slut that he can fuck.
Gumleaf
February 24th, 2016, 06:31 AM
Like others have said, the "not his/her type" line is pretty broad and could mean one of many things. It could be things as shallow as looks and boobs, or could be not feeling like a good match based on personalities, similar interests, intellect or a lack of chemistry. Most importantly, don't let a comment like that discourage you or make you feel like you need to change yourself.
ZzeWatermelon
February 29th, 2016, 04:08 PM
Yeah but from what I know he loves my personality and we are litterally the same in terms of interest...Maybe we're too similar. So it has to be looks.
Jordan99
February 29th, 2016, 07:33 PM
He just isn't into you sweetheart. We all have what I like to call, "Filtering Factors" and we really and truly cannot help what they are. I am attracted to very specific things and am equally not attracted to certain guys and types of guys. That doesn't make me shallow or empty it is simply a part of being me and who I am. I once had a guy and even a few girls tell me I must be racist because I am not attracted to guys outside of my own race. What complete and total rubbish. I don't have to date or sleep with a guy to prove I am not a racist. I prefer guys with brown hair to guys with blonde hair but that doesn't make me anti-blondes...after all, I m blonde myself. I guess what I'm getting at is just because he isn't into you it is not an indictment on who you are, it just means he has certain filtering factors you do not meet. There is someone for everyone though and I wouldn't lose any sleep over it.
ZzeWatermelon
March 1st, 2016, 03:59 PM
Yes ok but it sucks... I mean it hurts a lot though. :/ That he doesn't.
ZzeWatermelon
March 2nd, 2016, 03:33 AM
And the worst is that he likes my best friend and talks about her non stop. And wants to date her. And she flirts back. They talk all the time.
Body odah Man
March 2nd, 2016, 10:11 AM
So my friend asked my crush if he liked me and he answered that I'm not his type of girl. What does it mean?
that he wants you to change urself before he will like you. Sorry
DoodleSnap
March 2nd, 2016, 01:00 PM
It means that he doesn't want to be in a romantic relationship with you. That doesn't mean that you're unattractive, inside or out; all it means is that you should probably move on.
Vocabulous
March 3rd, 2016, 04:35 PM
Don't give up. If he's your crush you can get him to like you. Most boys can be won over.
Do you want a restraining order? Because that's how you get a restraining order
eric2001
March 3rd, 2016, 04:39 PM
Do you want a restraining order? Because that's how you get a restraining order
I didn't mean kidnapping!!! I'm meant quiet persuasion in a nice way like putting a sweet note in his locker or something.
lliam
March 3rd, 2016, 08:41 PM
So my friend asked my crush if he liked me and he answered that I'm not his type of girl. What does it mean?
Well, that means that you somehow don't match his notions of a girl, he's interested in or such.
Also you easily can reenact it if you ask yourself what type of boy you would be dating ... and what type you will never ever date.
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