masturbation with brother or sister

[federica]

Hi,
recently I caught my little brother masturbating (he is 12). It was the first time for me watching a boy masturbating. I asked him to let me see and he agreed. It was amazing i get so aroused and horny. I am normal? Is there anyone that had a similar experience?
thanks.


federica

[ClaraWho]

Okay, I'd be concerned about age here. Even if you are just a couple of years older, you should be telling him it's something he should do in private, not encourage him to 'perform' for you. He's just a child and at a very impressionable age. I'd leave it as it is and distract yourself with porn, hopefully it'll just fade into an inappropriate memory.

As this is your second post though, I am suspicious.

~ Clara

[Taryn98]

No, this is not normal behavior.

[Hard2Kill]

No, this is not normal behavior.


I have to agree with Taryn on this one, it is not normal behavior but you should not be ashamed or feel bad about it, it's just not "normal" par say, but everyone is different. Just don't break any laws!:D

[ashleigh7]

Hey...yes I had something similar happen to me....or us....I guess. But ya I caught my my brother and it was kinda a turn on. We ended up talking about it and stuff. But ya like the girls above please be careful.

[federica]

Hey...yes I had something similar happen to me....or us....I guess. But ya I caught my my brother and it was kinda a turn on. We ended up talking about it and stuff. But ya like the girls above please be careful.

Hi,
how old were you and your brother when it happen?

I have to agree with Taryn on this one, it is not normal behavior but you should not be ashamed or feel bad about it, it's just not "normal" par say, but everyone is different. Just don't break any laws!:D

i don't know I am so confused, but i was so curious to see...i think it is better to do experience with a person you trust

[West Coast Sheriff]

First of all, it crosses an extremely inappropriate boundary between siblings. Secondly he is very young. At 12, he is still a Child—not even a teenager. I would hate to sound rude but, I strongly recommend not repeating this. It crosses enough boundaries as it is, not to mention he hasn't even developed through puberty yet.

[ashleigh7]

Hey again : ) I was 15 and he was 17. We both were in full swing puberty.....hormones were flying all over the place : ) ha! But ya I agree it's a safe place to talk and experiment. If your both feel safe comfortable and no one is getting hurt, then have fun, and be safe. : )

[federica]

Hey again : ) I was 15 and he was 17. We both were in full swing puberty.....hormones were flying all over the place : ) ha! But ya I agree it's a safe place to talk and experiment. If your both feel safe comfortable and no one is getting hurt, then have fun, and be safe. : )

hi
thanks for your answer! :) I agree with you...also for us hormones were flying all over the place :) I was so amazing

First of all, it crosses an extremely inappropriate boundary between siblings. Secondly he is very young. At 12, he is still a Child—not even a teenager. I would hate to sound rude but, I strongly recommend not repeating this. It crosses enough boundaries as it is, not to mention he hasn't even developed through puberty yet.

hi,
i repeated it a lot of time is too amazing and both agree on this: what is the problem?

[TeenPortland]

People are typically not aroused by relatives.

[Cadanance00]

I think it depends on behavior. Doing something with him or encouraging him to do something that he might not want to do is wrong but letting him know it's normal to masturbate and have sexual thoughts is okay.

My half brother is three years older than me and I got to watch him masturbate when we were younger and he taught me that it's natural and not to be ashamed of my body and I'm grateful for that.

[BondJamesBond]

My siblings are probably the last people I'd even consider masturbating with.

[Jordan99]

Not normal behavior.

[ClaraWho]

hi,
i repeated it a lot of time is too amazing and both agree on this: what is the problem?

What?

The problem is this type of behaviour, and I believe the user Sheriff you quoted was making this point hopefully he'll clarify, that what you did was a mistake and should not be repeated.

It's borderline abusive and could lead to molesting, he is just a child and whilst both of you may seem fine with it now - he may not be later on in life. He expects you to set an example, not exploit him for your own sexual pleasure. This was wrong and illegal, you are old enough to know better.

~ Clara

[everlong]

Personally, I don't think those acts should even be thought about with siblings.

[Semi_IronMan]

That's so wrong on so many levels

What?

The problem is this type of behaviour, and I believe the user Sheriff you quoted was making this point hopefully he'll clarify, that what you did was a mistake and should not be repeated.

It's borderline abusive and could lead to molesting, he is just a child and whilst both of you may seem fine with it now - he may not be later on in life. He expects you to set an example, not exploit him for your own sexual pleasure. This was wrong and illegal, you are old enough to know better.

~ Clara

Preach!!

[Maddy01]

People are typically not aroused by relatives.

Most countries have one state where it's normal. In Australia it's Tasmania.

[federica]

I don't understand where is the problem if my brother and me agree to watch each other masturbating...

[sweettayla]

I don't understand where is the problem if my brother and me agree to watch each other masturbating...
Same here, l wouldn't let it go any further but l don't see any harm in agreeing to let each other watch.

[federica]

Same here, l wouldn't let it go any further but l don't see any harm in agreeing to let each other watch.

we have a "only watch" rule...

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Okay, I'd be concerned about age here. Even if you are just a couple of years older, you should be telling him it's something he should do in private, not encourage him to 'perform' for you. He's just a child and at a very impressionable age. I'd leave it as it is and distract yourself with porn, hopefully it'll just fade into an inappropriate memory.

As this is your second post though, I am suspicious.

~ Clara

I would totally agree with you Clara X :)

[jockeyboy97]

I have masturbated inn the same room as my brother. Him doing is own thing and me doing my own thing. That's as far as I would go. We have not done it for a long time.

[Hermes]

Hey again : ) I was 15 and he was 17. We both were in full swing puberty.....hormones were flying all over the place : ) ha! But ya I agree it's a safe place to talk and experiment. If your both feel safe comfortable and no one is getting hurt, then have fun, and be safe. : )

Personally I am much more comfortable about this than the original post because of the ages. Incest is taboo for a reason and you would have to have a limit in mind. At the same time I can see that a girl would be curious about how a guys looks naked, how he masturbates and what it looks like when he cums. A girl could, of course, and often would, learn all that from a first boyfriend but I can certainly see the attraction of a brother who you presumably trust who, it appears, is prepared to show you those things.

Certainly it would be the same with a guy watching his sister.

hi
thanks for your answer! :) I agree with you...also for us hormones were flying all over the place :) I was so amazing

i repeated it a lot of time is too amazing and both agree on this: what is the problem?

To me the problem here is the ages. This time I believe you are the older one and he is very young. That means that although he appears willing he may actually be afraid to say no. When you first walked in on him he may have been too frightened to say "Hey! Go away and give me some privacy!" and you have to hope that as he grows up he won't come to regret having shown you what he did.

[ashleigh7]

Thanks Hermes : ) when I first saw this, I didn't catch the age...and agree it's a little to young. Not like you can't have sexual feelings at that age...because it started for me about then...but was not nearly ready to make decisions on that level yet.

[federica]

Personally I am much more comfortable about this than the original post because of the ages. Incest is taboo for a reason and you would have to have a limit in mind. At the same time I can see that a girl would be curious about how a guys looks naked, how he masturbates and what it looks like when he cums. A girl could, of course, and often would, learn all that from a first boyfriend but I can certainly see the attraction of a brother who you presumably trust who, it appears, is prepared to show you those things.

Certainly it would be the same with a guy watching his sister.



To me the problem here is the ages. This time I believe you are the older one and he is very young. That means that although he appears willing he may actually be afraid to say no. When you first walked in on him he may have been too frightened to say "Hey! Go away and give me some privacy!" and you have to hope that as he grows up he won't come to regret having shown you what he did.

no he was not frightened just a little bit embarassed like me. I explain him that masturbating was a normal thing and that also girls do that and then also me so i told him that i was curious to see him and he told me that he was curious to watch me so we decide to watch eachother masturbating...

[snapbacktospaghetti]

It's atypical behavior, but as long as the relationship is healthy it's good. The only thing I'd be worried about is his age, at 12 he isn't old enough to make the best judgments and may end regretting this later on. Either way, I hope both of you are happy, safe, and do what's best for the relationship.

[Amy Wolf]

I think he's too young. I'm in a similar place but my brother is 15, so he's aware of what's going on. I'd wait a bit if you wan't to go down that path.

[mcdaniels]

No to be honest you look back on certain things you've done in life and you cringe at even the thought of it..
I don't want to say this is horrible, but it's somewhat borderline horrible because you don't even have a slight moral compass to see how it could in the slightest be a little wrong.

As you can see from the majority who replied, they all said it was wrong and you should stop.. You came looking for help on this site and asked this question, you got your answers but you refuse to take them...

[sack]

not normal behaviour

[federica]

not normal behaviour

why you think that??

I think he's too young. I'm in a similar place but my brother is 15, so he's aware of what's going on. I'd wait a bit if you wan't to go down that path.

my bro is aware too...

[ClaraWho]

I don't want to say this is horrible, but it's somewhat borderline horrible because you don't even have a slight moral compass to see how it could in the slightest be a little wrong.

As you can see from the majority who replied, they all said it was wrong and you should stop.. You came looking for help on this site and asked this question, you got your answers but you refuse to take them...

why you think that??



my bro is aware too...

It's interesting how you ignore the majority of replies that answer the questions you are asking. The above for example, as well as my own posts, explain how he cannot be aware due to his age.

Could it be you just want to keep this thread going to see what stories crop up?

~ Clara

[mcdaniels]

It's interesting how you ignore the majority of replies that answer the questions you are asking. The above for example, as well as my own posts, explain how he cannot be aware due to his age.

Could it be you just want to keep this thread going to see what stories crop up?

~ Clara


You continue to ignore everyone, there is no one that thinks this is right in anyway. You should stop because in a couple of years you could find yourself in court because the child will finally realise how you used him for your own pleasure

[Jameson9]

I have to agree with Taryn on this one, it is not normal behavior but you should not be ashamed or feel bad about it, it's just not "normal" par say, but everyone is different. Just don't break any laws!:D

I agree with u

[Gizmo RC]

Yeah, my family is pretty open, so this kind of thing is normal. If you both like it, have fun with it.

[Emerald Dream]

OP banned. :locked: