What is the worst quality in a girl?

[cleancut]

Some girls think of a relationship as a game. That is the worst thing of all.

If a guy friend said, "I don't want to be your friend anymore" then there must have been something seriously wrong that happened.

Why is it ok for a girls to just get tired of the relationship and say, "let's brake up"?

If they were sincere about the friendship then they would care about hurting their friend.

[Falcons_11]

Worst quality IMHO is she is cheating on you with another guy.

[Pat the Bunny]

Why is it ok for a girls to just get tired of the relationship and say, "let's brake up"?
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Because they don't want to be in a relationship that they don't to be in

[Uniquemind]

Some girls think of a relationship as a game. That is the worst thing of all.

If a guy friend said, "I don't want to be your friend anymore" then there must have been something seriously wrong that happened.

Why is it ok for a girls to just get tired of the relationship and say, "let's brake up"?

If they were sincere about the friendship then they would care about hurting their friend.

Dishonesty is the worst quality, and usually implies manipulation. It's the worst quality to take into a romantic relationship, or even a friendship, regardless of gender.

But for the second part of your post, you cannot compare the dynamics of a friendship versus a romantic relationship, they have different criteria on what is appropriate and inappropriate both to start one, end one, and maintain one.

It isn't a fair comparison and so comparisons cannot be drawn between the two like you attempted too do so.

[Babs]

Fact: nobody is obligated to stay in a relationship that they don't want to be in. It doesn't matter if you don't like their reason for breaking up wit h you.

[Uniquemind]

Fact: nobody is obligated to stay in a relationship that they don't want to be in. It doesn't matter if you don't like their reason for breaking up wit h you.

That's a very modern view though. Many cultures and religions don't feel that there's no obligation especially past a certain point.

^beware the double-negative there. What I said is what I meant though.

[Babs]

That's a very modern view though. Many cultures and religions don't feel that there's no obligation especially past a certain point.

^beware the double-negative there. What I said is what I meant though.

Sure, but just because somebody is apart of said cultures, doesn't mean their partner is obligated to abide by its customs.

[West Coast Sheriff]

If a guy isn't putting in his all, a girl can break up.


I think it's annoying when a girl doesn't show interest. If her mind is elsewhere, I find that a turn off.

[Uniquemind]

Sure, but just because somebody is apart of said cultures, doesn't mean their partner is obligated to abide by its customs.

I believe the term is "rebel" in those cases, and usually there's a cost when your in the minority like that.

[Babs]

I believe the term is "rebel" in those cases, and usually there's a cost when your in the minority like that.

It's not a radical or rebellious notion that people don't have to stay in a relationship they don't want to be in. I call bullshit.

[Uniquemind]

It's not a radical or rebellious notion that people don't have to stay in a relationship they don't want to be in. I call bullshit.

Yeah it's a dying concept now, but in some communities divorce or breakups come with a lot of baggage.

It just depends but like I said, your view is the modern one, meaning it's definitely a majority view.

Also I meant you'd be a "rebel" in the immediate geographical area or era in that point in time.

[RJH98]

Biggest turn of for me: Smoking.

I can pretty much give someone a second chance with anything, even cheating but smoking is a no go. It's just disgusting imho

[Babs]

Yeah it's a dying concept now, but in some communities divorce or breakups come with a lot of baggage.

It just depends but like I said, your view is the modern one, meaning it's definitely a majority view.

Also I meant you'd be a "rebel" in the immediate geographical area or era in that point in time.

Ah whoopsie, that registered backwards in my mind.

[StoppingTom]

When someone doesn't put as much effort as you into the relationship (that can go for both genders). It's just shitty trying to carry that all by yourself.

[Tesserax]

Worst quality is being shallow. Ignorance, naivety, whatever you want to say it's all the same. Shallow waters can be deceptive, you don't know if it's 1 foot deep or 10 feet.

[lliam]

inconsiderate, gold digger, superficial and such.

ah yes: ... and garrulous

[ethan-s]

i dunno. i guess dishonesty.

[ashdyn]

I can't stand attention whores. Like girls that play dumb cause they think it's cute. Ughhh

[Ragle]

babbling

[Professional Russian]

Someone who won't tell me what they honestly think
I want you to be open and honest. Not just saying things.

[Typhlosion]

Yeah... as Satan and other said, your post is a bit off. PLUS, a lot of guys play relationships as if they were a game too.

To me, a bratty princess type is the worst, obviously. But the worst has to be superficiality. Boring.

[Cadanance00]

Smoking weed all the time or doing pills. That's the only thing in the world to them and the only reason they have sex with a guy is to get some more drugs.

[Jordan99]

Fact: nobody is obligated to stay in a relationship that they don't want to be in. It doesn't matter if you don't like their reason for breaking up wit h you.

This. People grow, evolve and change. If someone outgrows the relationship they should get out of it or at least they shouldn't feel compelled to stay in it.

[DoodleSnap]

Sure, but just because somebody is apart of said cultures, doesn't mean their partner is obligated to abide by its customs.
And just because it's a 'culture' doesn't mean it is right or just. Just because in Saudi Arabia they practice sharia and it is their 'religious right' doesn't mean that they should be stoning women to death, killing 'apostates', and executing gay people.

[mcdaniels]

Something I hate is when they can't accept a complement, like you'd say you look stunning , and they'd say nothing or say no I'm so spotty or fatty

[Sailor Mars]

Something I hate is when they can't accept a complement, like you'd say you look stunning , and they'd say nothing or say no I'm so spotty or fatty

It's hard to accept something you've convinced yourself that you aren't.

As for OP, as many others have said, a bad personality on anyone is a turn off

[Uniquemind]

This. People grow, evolve and change. If someone outgrows the relationship they should get out of it or at least they shouldn't feel compelled to stay in it.

Unless like cade said, drugs or alcohol enters the picture. Then yeah people change, but the growing and evolving stops from what I've noticed. That goes for anybody though.


And just because it's a 'culture' doesn't mean it is right or just. Just because in Saudi Arabia they practice sharia and it is their 'religious right' doesn't mean that they should be stoning women to death, killing 'apostates', and executing gay people.


You've hit upon a concept here I've been wrestling with for a while now.

The idea that the concept of Right VS Wrong, depends solely on the values you're brought up with which you then use to judge other cultures that may embrace and consider "fair" what you consider unfair or even evil.

This concept hits upon the fact that "religious rights" and the details of a faith, might paradoxically undermine the right to have and practice that faith, then this means you no longer believe in freedom of religion.

[DoodleSnap]

Unless like cade said, drugs or alcohol enters the picture. Then yeah people change, but the growing and evolving stops from what I've noticed. That goes for anybody though.





You've hit upon a concept here I've been wrestling with for a while now.

The idea that the concept of Right VS Wrong, depends solely on the values you're brought up with which you then use to judge other cultures that may embrace and consider "fair" what you consider unfair or even evil.

This concept hits upon the fact that "religious rights" and the details of a faith, might paradoxically undermine the right to have and practice that faith, then this means you no longer believe in freedom of religion.
Well, yeah - as a believer in relativism, I don't believe that there is an objective 'right' or 'wrong', but I do think that if you believe in something strongly, then you shouldn't be pushed over and abstain from criticising the actions of other groups, just because it has a name along the lines of 'religion' or 'culture'.

[eric2001]

One word ........ lying.

[mcdaniels]

It's hard to accept something you've convinced yourself that you aren't.

As for OP, as many others have said, a bad personality on anyone is a turn off


I completely understand that but when someone says how beautiful they think someone is, I find it frustrating how they eventually can't see it themselves