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BunniBoi
February 20th, 2016, 04:58 AM
I've excepted that i'm Bi but i have no interest in anyone and i really want to be in a relationship. :(
Abhorrence
February 20th, 2016, 05:41 AM
Why do you want to be in a relationship? I think in life relationships will come to you, unless you start dating random people you're not gonna find one easily.
BunniBoi
February 20th, 2016, 05:50 AM
Why do you want to be in a relationship? I think in life relationships will come to you, unless you start dating random people you're not gonna find one easily.
because i'm so lonely that's why
Abhorrence
February 20th, 2016, 05:52 AM
because i'm so lonely that's why
I think friends should suffice for loneliness. You don't need a relationship to complete you.
BunniBoi
February 20th, 2016, 06:02 AM
friends pfft at my school you aren't "friends" unless your in their gang and i have a future unlike them and the "friend" i had just leaves me alone by myself to his no English speaking "friends" who pick on him
Abhorrence
February 20th, 2016, 06:38 AM
friends pfft at my school you aren't "friends" unless your in their gang and i have a future unlike them and the "friend" i had just leaves me alone by myself to his no English speaking "friends" who pick on him
Well, if you start trying to make new friends (I know it isn't easy but at least give it a go) and then maybe something can develop. Relationships have to develop either way and they can go from platonic to romantic - if you both feel that way.
Zachary G
February 20th, 2016, 08:06 AM
I've excepted that i'm Bi but i have no interest in anyone and i really want to be in a relationship. :(
Its difficult to find or involve yourself in a relationship if you have no interest in anyone. You have to be interested in someone before pursuing them for a relationship.
Loneliness is a terrible thing and can be really depressing, so you have to combat that by putting yourself out there and meeting new people. If you involve yourself in things that are out of your comfort zone, chances are you just might meet someone that could spark your interest. Sometimes you just have to take a chance, its scary, but its worth it in the end.
ska8er
February 20th, 2016, 02:58 PM
U have to make friends in order to
start liking someone. U didn't say how
old u r or if u like urself. Sometimes
people who do not like themselves put
out signals to others that they r not
friendly and then it is difficult to start
relationships.
BunniBoi
February 21st, 2016, 03:27 AM
i know this is awkward but i have people i hangout with but i don't consider them friends so that's why i didn't include them in my post. so i'm sorry for not telling you guys.
DoodleSnap
February 29th, 2016, 06:06 PM
i know this is awkward but i have people i hangout with but i don't consider them friends so that's why i didn't include them in my post. so i'm sorry for not telling you guys.
That's alright. Bear in mind that you have to tag or quote someone for them to see that reply.
Anyhow, what about trying to make some new friends? I know that when I feel lonely, talking to a friend really helps, and a good friend is always willing to talk about whatever, whenever. Getting to know someone well can sometimes lead to a relationship - my first romantic relationship was with my best friend. You can't force these things, but the bets thing you can do is get to know people better.
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