Gay or straight???

[NyanShadow]

I am having a lot of trouble deciding if I'm gay or straight. So far I have had three dreams (Not wet) about sex. Two were female, and one was male. The female ones were weaker then the male one. In person I have more attraction to females, compared to males. But I check males out for some reason anyways. Now when I'm in the computer female porn doesn't turn me on at all, but looking at males definitely does. I just don't understand. Does anyone know about this, and how it works? If I was bisexual, I would be interested in males, and females in person, and vice versa on the internet.

[Sports Boy]

Why do you have to be one extreme or the other? Maybe you're somewhere in between. Or maybe you still need to figure it all out. How old are you? Don't worry about needing a box to fit into as if you need to check gay or straight. Experiment some, be open to different things and experiences and someday you'll know what really makes you happy.

[Sohann]

May be you r just a curio or something...so just get to know about everything and then get into wat suits u....may b dats wat ppl usually do.

[zerosix22]

Same here. Hahahah

[Abhorrence]

Puberty For Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality & Gender.

[Bull]

Just be open to the possibilities that present to you. It may be a guy, it may be a girl. Makes no difference if it is a person with whom you want to spend time and maybe develop a sexual relationship. Labels can be a stumbling block to happiness. Don't be anxious, be open. Enjoy life!

[Bluebyrd]

You don't really have to label yourself as gay or straight or bi or anything else. You like all sorts of things so why must you say "I'm this" or "I'm that"?

[Vermilion]

Like others have said you don't need to label yourself but I understand why you want to. Also you could label bi and go from there just see what happens

[SethfromMI]

so many possibilities. you could be bisexual, something which was not in your title. don't rush something like that. you will figure out through dating and just coming to terms with it

[LiveLifePreppy]

hey im not sure how old you are but i am assuming you are still going through puberty. I am attracted to women also but I feel myself checking out guys more often now. I feel that due to puberty we become more interested in comparing ourselves to see how far along we are and what differences we have or what we wish we had. As for watching gay porn i also think it is a way to compare ourselves; their penis size, body hair, muscles, orgasms. unlike females their is no comparison. and if you wanted to you could always copy guy in the gay porn whether it is anal or just jacking off. hope this helped, fedl free to pm me

[DoodleSnap]

I went through a similar phase of confusion, as I'm sure most teens do, in regards to their own identity. My best advice at the end of the day is not to pursue putting a label on yourself, but instead to keep an open mind and learn what it is that you enjoy over time. I have learned so much since I first realised that I like guys as well, and I learn more and more about myself, and my sexuality, every day. Let time tell you who you are, instead of rushing to define yourself.

[West Coast Sheriff]

I am having a lot of trouble deciding if I'm gay or straight. So far I have had three dreams (Not wet) about sex. Two were female, and one was male. The female ones were weaker then the male one. In person I have more attraction to females, compared to males. But I check males out for some reason anyways. Now when I'm in the computer female porn doesn't turn me on at all, but looking at males definitely does. I just don't understand. Does anyone know about this, and how it works? If I was bisexual, I would be interested in males, and females in person, and vice versa on the internet.

It sounds like curiosity or bisexuality. Don't rush into conclusions, you have plenty of time to figure out your orientation.

[northy]

Labels are not what you need, they can be helpful for explaining, but that is about it. Just do what you want and what seems like the best thing to do when the decision comes. You'll find the right person eventually.