anonymousturtlefrog
February 19th, 2016, 08:28 PM
I'm a 16-year-old late bloomer (only now getting deeper voice and incredibly persistent sexual urges). I have thick pubic hairs, little to no armpit hair, the beginnings of facial hair, and a still-small penis. I have never really embraced masturbation but find myself thinking more and more about it (as I'm sure is normal). However, I have not ejaculated on purpose in about 6 months (I stopped out of shock and because I wasn't really ready biologically), and have had only a few wet dreams since. This is not because I can't, but because I am uncomfortable with the thought (not quite sure why). Whenever I get close (I have managed it in the shower) I immediately back off in my panic. I have no moral problem with masturbation at all and, in fact, would prefer to start soon. How should I ease back into it? Any tips you would give to someone essentially starting anew? Do you know any calming techniques or routines that might help someone calm down and have a pleasurable and satisfying first experience? This may seem kind of stupid but it's just a weird mental roadblock for me, and any help would be immensely appreciated. You can message me if you think it would be best to give more personal advice. Thanks in advance.