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Beach_Blonde
February 19th, 2016, 06:30 PM
I'm just going to put it out there.

Is it weird to date/ go out with the younger sibling of my sisters best friend

Also is there like a huge difference in dating someone who is a little bit younger then you

Tesserax
February 19th, 2016, 06:57 PM
Maturity, innocence, vulnerability al come with really young partners. Honestly though, it's up to you but it would be difficult. If either your sister or her best friend dislike either you or her best friend's little brother, they may band together to make it hard for you two

Beach_Blonde
February 19th, 2016, 10:04 PM
I wouldn't say shes really young, she's is going to be 13 in a month. And neither one of them knows that we are like talking talking.....at least they havent let on if they have. And we all get along. My sister likes her, and her best friend loves me so there is that.

Uniquemind
February 19th, 2016, 10:36 PM
I wouldn't say shes really young, she's is going to be 13 in a month. And neither one of them knows that we are like talking talking.....at least they havent let on if they have. And we all get along. My sister likes her, and her best friend loves me so there is that.

Depends. Along the same lines of what others have said, since I see you said you're from NC, is it a heterosexual relationship or a homosexual one? Because that factors into it too, especially in conservative states/communities.

The saying "don't judge" has been around forever...it has not worked. People still judge.

West Coast Sheriff
February 20th, 2016, 01:38 AM
I don't think it's a big deal. If the four of you are all together, it's pretty awkward.

As far as age, it depends on maturity levels: physical, mental and emotional.

Tesserax
February 20th, 2016, 01:58 AM
I wouldn't say shes really young, she's is going to be 13 in a month. And neither one of them knows that we are like talking talking.....at least they havent let on if they have. And we all get along. My sister likes her, and her best friend loves me so there is that.

Oh I'm so sorry, pardon me for assuming you were talking about a male. Normally with a younger male, particularly around your age, the male can be quite immature in comparison to the woman, which is why females tend to look for older males, and older males look for younger females; the level of maturity is more even that way, despite the age.

maritza
February 21st, 2016, 09:48 PM
i think its weird because u will be mixing ur social life with ur love life

Beach_Blonde
February 21st, 2016, 10:03 PM
Oh I'm so sorry, pardon me for assuming you were talking about a male. Normally with a younger male, particularly around your age, the male can be quite immature in comparison to the woman, which is why females tend to look for older males, and older males look for younger females; the level of maturity is more even that way, despite the age.

lol no she is defiantly not a he....i think for the most part we are on the same level

Depends. Along the same lines of what others have said, since I see you said you're from NC, is it a heterosexual relationship or a homosexual one? Because that factors into it too, especially in conservative states/communities.

The saying "don't judge" has been around forever...it has not worked. People still judge.

it is with another girl....but we both know what other people are like and we have both said our relationship would stay just between us, nobody else will know

i think its weird because u will be mixing ur social life with ur love life

i mean kind of....but not really. We didn't really hang out or know each other until my sister brought me to the mall to hang out with her. Its more my sisters social life

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Uniquemind
February 22nd, 2016, 03:28 AM
it is with another girl....but we both know what other people are like and we have both said our relationship would stay just between us, nobody else will know

You'd have to keep it secret and under the guise of a really close friendship with all displays of affection never shown in public.

It's one of those closet situations if you know you won't be accepted.

Jordan99
March 1st, 2016, 09:56 AM
As long as you two are compatible and no laws are being broken what is the problem?

DoodleSnap
March 2nd, 2016, 01:08 PM
Considering that the age difference is less than a year, I don't see any major issue with it. If no one else will know about it, why does it matter whether they are your friend's sister(or whatever it is...)?

Beach_Blonde
March 5th, 2016, 02:51 PM
Considering that the age difference is less than a year, I don't see any major issue with it. If no one else will know about it, why does it matter whether they are your friend's sister(or whatever it is...)?

Well I don't know I just seen like shows where it is borderline taboo I guess. I mean I think that eventually are sisters will catch on. But idk.

As long as you two are compatible and no laws are being broken what is the problem?

I love how you think lol