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[mcsteamy]

Okay so I'm just gonna be straightforward with everyone because I would really appreciate a genuine, personal experience response. I have never had sex with another guy. So now, I've been thinking what it would be like and what I'd be, a top or bottom. For all of you who have bottomed before, I'd like your advice. Does it hurt, especially the first time? Does it eventually feel good? Can you ever be too tight?

I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this or if this will get deleted or not but I don't know where else to go.

[Bluebyrd]

I've never had sex either but I've heard that it can be all of the above. I recommend experimenting first to see what you like and don't like. Also use lots of lube if possible.

[Sports Boy]

Well, the first time I tried it I didn't know about lube so we never really got started. It hurt too much. Then we started using lube and fingers first (or dildo) to get loose. After the first or second time when there was still a little pain, it got to be really fun and an amazing experience. Once you get into it, you'll want to keep doing it. At least, that's the way it was for me.
So, get loose with fingers or a dildo using lube all the time, have your partner go slow, and you'll really like it.

[Zachary G]

Okay so I'm just gonna be straightforward with everyone because I would really appreciate a genuine, personal experience response. I have never had sex with another guy. So now, I've been thinking what it would be like and what I'd be, a top or bottom. For all of you who have bottomed before, I'd like your advice. Does it hurt, especially the first time? Does it eventually feel good? Can you ever be too tight?

I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this or if this will get deleted or not but I don't know where else to go.

Bottoming the first couple of times do hurt, its very uncomfortable, but the more you do it and the more you practice, the better it begins to feel. There is a such thing as being tight, but not too tight. Its a muscle and the more you work it, the more accustomed it will become to the actions you are presenting.

[Abhorrence]

Question is fine but just a note for users to not story-tell. Giving advice is fine but please try to refrain from using explicit details as that is against the rules.

[SethfromMI]

Okay so I'm just gonna be straightforward with everyone because I would really appreciate a genuine, personal experience response. I have never had sex with another guy. So now, I've been thinking what it would be like and what I'd be, a top or bottom. For all of you who have bottomed before, I'd like your advice. Does it hurt, especially the first time? Does it eventually feel good? Can you ever be too tight?

I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this or if this will get deleted or not but I don't know where else to go.

well I am a top when it came/comes to sex with a guy, but I can still help you.for your first time on bottom, it could def hurt, esp at first. make sure the area is properly cleaned, used plenty of lube, and make sure the guy you are with goes slow entering and slow until you get use to it. some people love being on bottom more than they do penetrating, but even guys who like doing vers many times enjoy the feeling of being on bottom during sex.

as far as being too tight, it will be more pleasurable for the top, it could make it slightly more painful for the bottom, but at the same time it can also help increase your own pleasure as well.

above all, take your time the first time. lots of lube and go slow. the more you do it though, the more it will (probably) become pleasurable for you

[hairy balls]

yes I agree with SethfromMI just take it easy

[Poontang King117]

Yep as a guy who has experienced being a bottom and top, I will say that SethfromMI is correct.

[ska8er]

Cant give u any advice-never been there but my "Straight"
friend that I experiment with has asked me a few times if
he can top me and I refuse cause I don't like pain. He says
what he sees in porn-that it is easy. Well I don't think so.
To get him off my back-HaHa-I said id top and he said no
that he wants to do me. The horn dog is determined to
bury his bone in my backyard. Really top or bottom im not
in for this but I thought bout it. This is all too funny. My
bud is a top seed wrestler in school. I cant believe I wrote
all of this.

[ska8er]

What I really wanted to say above before I went
into a story-I Know No Stories Here-Sorry For It
Just Reprimand Me-no matter what- it is sure to be
painful so know what u r getting into and make sure
u both r ready and want to. Ok I said everything I
wanted to say.

[rioo]

My advice is be careful with your sharp nail finger, it can make someone bleed . Any if you have sex with a girl or guy. Gentlemen please don't hurt your partner.

[shybi15]

For me and for guys ive been with - It hurts the first 5-10 minutes the first time you try it, after then it gets more enjoyable. If its your first time bottom then I recommend using a condom and lots of lube, it helps with the pain. Also make sure to finger/warm up/stimulate down there before doing the actual thing.
And no, there is no such thing as being "too tight"

[TonyJoe]

It'll only hurt if you think it'll hurt. If you think it'll hurt, you'll tense up and it'll be harder for the top to get inside. So you need to completely relax, close your eyes and basically make your bottom half completely still. use lube as well, so he can get in easier. good luck :)

[Jamesclarke]

I've bottomed multiple times and each time it felt like hell. Then again the guy was in my mind to big so ya know try and avoid that when starting out. however I've topped guys and they seem to have pain at first but then get used to it. Just make sure your comfortable, clean and relaxed.

[JellyBelly31]

To be honest, it's all on your preference. I have done top and bottom but prefer bottom. Yes it does hurt...... A lot haha. Put after it's just pleasure. If you use enough lube it should be okay though.

[kyrocks03]

My boyfriend and I have not had full sex yet but we have been talking about it a lot. Both of us are starting to feel like we are ready, but pain is our fear. I'm guessing it is easier to do if the boy inserting isn't fully developed yet? We've both used fingers on each other, and both agree that it feels amazing, but have been a bit afraid to put our penis in each other even though they really aren't that much thicker than the fingers right now. So I am wondering if it would actually be better for us to start before our dicks start getting thicker and longer?