Did I do something wrong?

[bigboywilly]

Hey boys.
I'm William, fifteen years old.
So. My homie is Grayson. He's fourteen, fifteen in like a few months. We've been homies since like pre-school. We've always been super comfortable around each other like, from when we were younger we could be naked around each other. Talk about shit you know? Never anything sexual between us but we would jerk off in the same room that's all.

So yesterday we were at the public swimming pool. I always walk around the changing room naked, most guys do. Gray sometimes does too. But last week he totally freaked out when I stripped in the main area thing? Sure, it's a mixed changing room but it's made perfectly clear anyone can be naked or shit you know? Usually he slaps my ass as a joke, or mocks my dick. Laddish banter. But now he freaks out even if I'm just in my boxers around him like what the fuck? I recently noticed he hit puberty, and he seems to be way more closed off since. Is this normal or? Like, please help. It's just I feel like I did something wrong now. :what:

[Bluebyrd]

I can't see anything that you've done wrong. The only way you'll find out is if you ask him.

[Atlantis]

He might have changed his mind about certain things, as sometimes puberty does to people. As Jake has said above, if he thinks it's wrong, that is his opinion.

[Zachary G]

I dont think that its you have done anything wrong as much as it is that he has probably become self-conscious about his body now that hes hit puberty. Its not unusual for someone to suddenly become shy at the onset of puberty whereas before they were not shy before.

[pjones]

puberty does change us. you should talk to him and see if there may be another reason. anyone bothering him or does he seem scared of anyone recently?

[ska8er]

I would say his attitude toward being naked has changed
since he started puberty. It may be that he is uncomfortable
with the changes he is going through and even embarrassed
with pubic hair and the size of his equipment.

Y don't u just ask him if u changing or walking around in
ur underwear is making him uncomfortable and if he has
any questions he may have on his mind. Don't get the idea
that u r responsible with the way he acts.

[Hero.of.Hyrule]

Yeah, i really don't see anything that you did wrong..I'd ask him.. :confused:

[lliam]

, please help. It's just I feel like I did something wrong now. :what:


he's your best mate since ... ever? so just ask him, why he freaked out. may be his secret crush was there around or such.

[Ciel09x]

Maybe he's bi curious, and being in that situation can make him either uncomfortable. As his friend be there for him.

[eric2001]

He sounds like me actually --- he probably just needs a little time to adjust. Just keep doing normal friend things with him.

[ashdaniel]

Well, you are not him. Dont try to assume what he think, if you guys are homies. I think u can just simply ask him what happen. Some time guys are more self-conscious when they hit the puberty.

[TeenPortland]

Ask
He may have also learned something about you or himself that is upsetting him.

[Straya]

its nothing youve done man sounds like hes just gotten really self concious about been naked around other guys but the best way to find out is to ask him

[presh jasper]

Well it ain't bad if you just confront him ask him some question like ' do i make u uncomfortable when am naked or in my underwear' and remember to discuss whether he's turning gay ...... Pls dont put him on the spot:lol:

[Emerald Dream]

Well it ain't bad if you just confront him ask him some question like ' do i make u uncomfortable when am naked or in my underwear' and remember to discuss whether he's turning gay ...... Pls dont put him on the spot:lol:

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