MtF trans looking for help

[Roxas2]

Hi everyone! To make long story short I'd like to meet people and friends to give me advices ^^ I want to know everything about being a girl and how to pass at school ^^ I'm looking for cis girls and trans girls but everyone can become my friends! See ya!

[UNKNOWN8198]

Smc711 might be able to help you when she's next on.

From me, just act how you want to act. (Depending on where you are), most things are no longer really thought of as 'male' and 'female' things to do. There are obvious perceived exceptions, like makeup, even though it's a gender neutral object, however I think you should just be you. Do what you want, act how you want, say what you want, wear what you want etc, just so long as it causes no negative effect to anyone else. The gender you are doesn't have to define you and what you can do.*

*Rereading and realising this may not be the most helpful for things like 'trying to pass'. I think what I'm basically trying to say is do what makes you happy, and fuck what other people think (if it's a needlessly negative opinion). Me being gender neutral/gender fluid/who knows does not really help you much in this situation:whoops:, still good luck:).

[Smc711]

if you want to pass as female, then you might want to start growing your hair out and dressing feminine. its really not necessary to pass tho. that comes much later. i still dont pass, it is still a little down the road for me, but what is important now is to get your chosen name decided/used. in other words if you have chosen a new name, try and get your friends and classmates to call you by that name and such. coming out comes before passing. so come out as trans before you try passing as a female, because its hella expensive to be a girl so it takes time to collect a good wardrobe and make up collection. the point is, take your time and come out first. many schools have a lot of ways and areas to help lgbt youth in the coming out process at school. talk to a guidance councilor or teacher and see if they have any advice. my last point in this confusing speech, you dont have to pass as female to ask to be treated as one. it may take some people more time than otehrs, but its important that your happy with yourself and this will help with that.

[Roxas2]

I already came out but this is a bite sufficient because even if I feel I'm a girl I still can't see me as a girl. It's a bit weird I know XD But I have chosen my name and I already asked to my friends to be treated as a girl ^^