Gay or Straight

[teenboyNathan]

Okay I'm 14. I've always liked girls and I still do. But last year my best friend slept over and while we were sleeping I got a boner looking at him. Does this make me gay or what?

[Vermilion]

No it doesn't make you gay

[Uranus]

Is there any particular reason why you got an erection looking at him?
And no it doesnt make you gay, if anything it would be bi/bicurious

[West Coast Sheriff]

You can't control erections. They will come and go whether you want them to or not.

[Bluebyrd]

You're only gay if you find boys attractive, you can decide that yourself.

[SethfromMI]

Is there any particular reason why you got an erection looking at him?
And no it doesnt make you gay, if anything it would be bi/bicurious

this. not saying you have to be bi or bi curious. guys can get random erections for various reasons during puberty. you already said you find girls attractive so your not gay, but do you find other guys attractive as well?

[UNKNOWN8198]

You're only bi/gay if you are sexually attracted to guys. Getting a boner looking at him means nothing, given the number of hormones going through your body.

[Zachary G]

No, youre not gay. You probably had a random erection brought on by an unconscious sexual thought you were having about something else. It happens and usually at the most inopportune times. Youre alright dude.

[DoodleSnap]

It could have been a random erection, or it could have been that you were attracted to your friend, and even if you were attracted to him, that doesn't necessarily mean that you're gay - you could be anywhere in between on the sexuality spectrum.

[ptz7649]

Doesn't make you gay. You could be any sexuality