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cleancut
February 13th, 2016, 01:47 PM
I hang out with my girls friend but I don't want the guy I experiment with to and her to really know each other. The whole thing makes me feel guilty.

The guy knows about the girl, should I tell the girl about the guy?
amgb
February 13th, 2016, 02:01 PM
Teen Sexuality and Gender :arrow: Relationships and Dating

Two-partner situations are tricky...I think it's best to be honest, and tell both of them about each other. I don't want things to come crashing down later on if and when your girlfriend finds out. I know that if both she and he know about each other being in a relationship with you you'd be put in a really bad position. But it could be worse if you're not honest. If he knows about her, I think she also deserves to know about him. I don't know what's going to happen, but you can deal with this. I know you can. Do what you know is right and what's best for you and both partners. Sorry I couldn't really provide you with much help... :/
West Coast Sheriff
February 13th, 2016, 02:10 PM
You should be honest with anyone you care about. You should probably break it off with one or the other.
SethfromMI
February 13th, 2016, 02:45 PM
You should be honest with anyone you care about. You should probably break it off with one or the other.

this, it is not fair to the girl who does not know what is going on. you need to tell her.
Melodic
February 13th, 2016, 05:00 PM
Both of them have every right to know about this. You should've been clear about what your intentions were. However, it's good that you've acknowledged what you're doing is wrong.
Lachy
February 13th, 2016, 09:24 PM
It's a bit unfair on the girl that the guy knows you have two partners and she doesn't. You should tell her, and if she doesn't like it then she was the wrong girl for your situation. Good luck bro.
Cadanance00
February 16th, 2016, 10:35 AM
From the way you put things I'm picking up that you're not really gay and your feelings are with the girl and you're experimenting out of curiosity and the excitement. I'd say if you want to continue to experiment with him, you should tell her. Otherwise stop experimenting with him and be a good boyfriend.