Has your dad ever tried to have that "sex talk" with you?

[cleancut]

My dad has brought up the subject to see if I wanted to talk but it just is to uncomfortable.

He wanted to talk about "consequences of risky behavior." He said his say and I listened but didn't really say anything much. I'm glad that he doesn't force the conversation.

[ska8er]

Yeah I got the story and tell U the truth he
was more nervous than I was. Hes a doctor and
the crap he laid out was like something on a cheap
web site. He should know better and should know
that I know bout risky behavior. I use judgement
but it is a hell of a hard thing to do.

[swimjoey1]

Nope..never had the talk. Learn from friends and Internet.

[everlong]

A few small things here and there, but never really a talk.

[Zachary G]

I got "the talk" with my parents when I came out and it wasnt so bad because I had more questions then they had answers and I think I embarrassed them more than they embarrassed me.

[mahony0509]

Nope. Done everything in school and a note was sent home to inform them that it was done.

[TheLotus]

He never gave the official talk but he's said use protection and all that. Nothing too detailed

[SethfromMI]

I learned it in school, so my dad simply said if I had any questions, I could ask him.

[Bluebyrd]

I'm so glad he didn't have a talk like that or anything with me because that would be so uncomfortable for me!

[ska8er]

I got "the talk" with my parents when I came out and it wasnt so bad because I had more questions then they had answers and I think I embarrassed them more than they embarrassed me.


Ha-I asked my Dad if he "ever painted the wall"
and he was at a loss for words-hehe. :yeah:
Ok guys Think what it means. :whoops:

[mahony0509]

Did u get an A-Bro?

A++++

[pjones]

my dad talks with us about sex and masturbation, he does it well. we can ask anything

[Chapperz16]

Nope not had the talk but I suspect he knows that I know all about it.

[Ciel09x]

Nope, lol I'm glad though.

[Typhlosion]

Not really. My mother tried only when I was already 18 and spent an year in college :hmm:

[Vermilion]

Not really leaner the basics from my parents but school was the main thing and friends

I got "the talk" with my parents when I came out and it wasnt so bad because I had more questions then they had answers and I think I embarrassed them more than they embarrassed me.

That's very nice of them and funny for you :)

Posts merged. Please use the 'edit' button next time. aNdMoRe~

[Semi_IronMan]

Haven't had it, hopefully won't have it

[Zachary G]

Ha-I asked my Dad if he "ever painted the wall"
and he was at a loss for words-hehe. :yeah:
Ok guys Think what it means. :whoops:

LOL!!! Thats What a question to ask -- Hahaha

[Not Matt Damon]

The only sex talk my brother and I had with our parents was on how important condom is and try not to get a girl pregnant, oh and it is okay to have sex because that's normal.

[Sean4U]

I was my dad's second go round on the subject, as he talked to my older brother about a year before he did to me. He seemed comfortable but also had my brother there who, already of course, had told me all what my dad said. We are both gay and already knew most of the man/woman thing, but more interested in the guy thing. My dad had to do it once more to my younger twin brothers, but opted out and asked us to tell them, although he was there. I think it was his way of seeing what we learned from him...

[pjones]

I think its awesome you guys are so open and are able to talk about anything with him

he's really cool about that stuff

[Sickkboi]

My dad did the talk...my mom tried it. Didn't really work either way because I already knew everything from school.

[Atlantis]

Learned most of the content on here. My dad has tried to tell me a few things, but not much.

[thatonekidjacob]

My dad has brought up the subject to see if I wanted to talk but it just is to uncomfortable.

He wanted to talk about "consequences of risky behavior." He said his say and I listened but didn't really say anything much. I'm glad that he doesn't force the conversation.

My dad had the talk with me and my brother when we were 10. He pretty much explained it like this is what happens in puberty, this is what the boy parts do, this is what the girl parts do, this is how you make a baby, condoms do this, STD's, you should protect yourself, and watch out for predators.

My brother asked him about what about gay guys. My dad said some people like people the same sex and some like both sexes. He didn't say anything about it being right or wrong. Just that's how it is.

He really tried to be straight up about it and not embarrassed at all. He said the most important thing is to be respectful of other people, and be safe. Don't rush into anything because it will all happen eventually.

It was because of this I felt confident I could come out to him when I did later.

But it's not like I don't still have questions.

[hairy palmer]

yeah my dads a hippy ( so is mum) so he's been really cool with me n mybros ( 1 older 1 younger) but i only talk 2 him bout sex stuff.... NEVER my mum tho....2 weird!!!:metal:

[Leon03]

I never got THE TALK but my dad is fairly open towards me and my siblings. Whenever he felt like he mentioned things he thought to be important for us to know.
He is pretty cool so it's never been embarrassing or awkward talking to him about condoms, sex or anything down there.

[Xanman]

I've heard my parents talk about how he needs to do it but they obviously don't understand how the world is now lol.I knew what sex was and how it's done in 2nd grade

[Ricky.h]

Yeah My dad had the talk with me, it very blunt and rated r, it was like talking to another adult if that makes sense. And it was followed with the encouragement that I start having sex when I get around 16, and when I lost my virginity my dad was proud

[TeenPortland]

No, but parents bought me a book when I was like 12

[hairy balls]

Nope..never had the talk. Learn from friends and Internet but my mum did leave a book in my room one time about wean a boy becomes a man

[lliam]

Never had. Also my dad doesn't want to embarrass himself. Cause he is afraid that I already know more about that stuff than he does.

[ethan-s]

hell yes. he sat us all down on our butt's and talked about 'it' he even drew pics on a white board.

the thing is, i had secretly read a book on puberty that talks about sex beforehand. so far, he dont know.

[benlodge123]

Not with me. My brother

[Innuendo]

Nope, I told him I knew everything plus I learned from friends and the Internet.

[teenboyNathan]

Nope. That is what friends and the Internet are for

[Daniel2013]

yes it was awkward

[sack]

learned everything from school ,

[Ready2Go]

Well, I remember when I was in 2nd grade, me, my brother, and my dad were all in the same room talking. My brother randomly started reciting the things he learned in health class. I dad said that everything he said was true, and he wasnt going to lie to us, but he never added anything to the conversation and allowed my brother to do all of the talking. I didnt at all understand what he was talking about, being only 7. Eventually I learned from the internet.

[ethan-s]

I think its awesome you guys are so open and are able to talk about anything with him

yeah. thats awesome!:D

[jacwel]

Never had the talk. He knew it was all done in school! lol

[Drewboyy]

No, the only sex talk ever given to me was to bring my own condoms just I case the girl pokes a hole in it lol

[zaccary]

im 16 and im still waiting so...

[logan4sho]

My dad tried to talk to me when I was 13. I was like dad yeah that's for sex with girls, but I didn't say it to him. He talked about sexual predators and risky sex tho, that was good, scary but good.

[Dave2u]

My Dad did then my mom did, the most uncomfortable 30 minutes of my life

My dad has brought up the subject to see if I wanted to talk but it just is to uncomfortable.

He wanted to talk about "consequences of risky behavior." He said his say and I listened but didn't really say anything much. I'm glad that he doesn't force the conversation.

[presh jasper]

I tink u should just listen to what he has to say and relax