Am I Virgin Again?

[Amber98]

ok so i'm wondering if i become virgin again if i stay a long time without having sexual intercourse?

last time i had a boy inside my vagina was a long time ago and i'm very tight down there since i'm petite. when i lost my virginity i remember very well because i was screaming when he stick his penis inside me even tho we had foreplay beforehand.

am i going to have to brake my hymen again? and am i going to bleed next time i have sex? am i virgin again?

added: is it going to hurt like my first time?

[Blood]

You're not necessarily a virgin again, but if it hurt that much the first time you had sex it may hurt the second. Did the guy have an abnormally large penis? Size plays a big role in this situation.

Either way, just make sure to take things slow and if you're feeling too much pain be sure to tell him to stop.

[Elysium]

Let me correct a few misconceptions for you here:

"Virginity" is a social construct. You define it on your own. Archaically, it was associated with the "breaking" of one's hymen, but that's just not true when it comes down to it. Technically, losing one's virginity is having sex for the first time, so if you've had sex before, that's it; you're no longer a virgin. That is, if you care to define yourself as a virgin or not, anyway.

Secondly, the hymen does not break. That is a myth. You never lost your hymen. Over time, though, without any penetration, your hymen, like a rubber band, will just revert back to its original state partially covering your vagina (whereas after intercourse it was probably stretched out a lot more; if it bled some, you probably sustained a tear that's since healed).

[Amber98]

You're not necessarily a virgin again, but if it hurt that much the first time you had sex it may hurt the second. Did the guy have an abnormally large penis? Size plays a big role in this situation.

Either way, just make sure to take things slow and if you're feeling too much pain be sure to tell him to stop.

his penis was like 6 inches i think. i got used to it after a while and it was amazing!

Let me correct a few misconceptions for you here:

"Virginity" is a social construct. You define it on your own. Archaically, it was associated with the "breaking" of one's hymen, but that's just not true when it comes down to it. Technically, losing one's virginity is having sex for the first time, so if you've had sex before, that's it; you're no longer a virgin. That is, if you care to define yourself as a virgin or not, anyway.

Secondly, the hymen does not break. That is a myth. You never lost your hymen. Over time, though, without any penetration, your hymen, like a rubber band, will just revert back to its original state partially covering your vagina (whereas after intercourse it was probably stretched out a lot more; if it bled some, you probably sustained a tear that's since healed).

yea thanks for the info :)

[NotShortButFunsized]

Virginity is something you give meaning to yourself. If you've had sex, but for whatever reason have decided not to anymore, then yes you can consider yourself a virgin. You can't "re"break your hymen (unless it somehow heals which I've never heard of)

[enriqueroxx]

Virginity is something you give meaning to yourself. If you've had sex, but for whatever reason have decided not to anymore, then yes you can consider yourself a virgin. You can't "re"break your hymen (unless it somehow heals which I've never heard of)

Yeah what she said.....and no you cant re break your hymen. Once its broken, its broken...

[Romaana]

A virgin is someone who has never had sexual intercourse. If you have than your not a virgin. :)

[carmen97]

You are not a virgin, but i have heard of something called a born again virgin it is someone who had sex then decided to abstain from sex for whatever reason it is, but its good on you to wait for the right guy.

[Amsey]

http://img4.joyreactor.com/pics/post/funny-pictures-minecraft-games-auto-758934.jpeg seems relevant hahaha

nope I think once its gone its gone :) that isn't a bad thing thou

[sarahs]

If you have had sexual intercourse, you are not considered a virgin. However if your hymen was broken by some means other than a penis (i.e. masturbation) you are a virgin.

Also, in my belief, if you were sexually abused in your past and are physically not a virgin, yet you have had no sexual relations and consider yourself a virgin, you are still a virgin.

[ozteen]

There is no reset button. Once you've lost it, that's it....

[emily-candace]

You are only a virgin until you have a penis in you the first time and then you will never be a virgin again. That was IT. The first guy in your vag took you only virginity. Hope he was worth it. I'm still holding off.

[PurpleLips]

you cant be virgin again...?

[Brighteyes]

Simple one word answer...NO

[Luminous]

Your hymen doesn't have anything to do with virginity. You lose your virginity when you have (consensual, usually. Most people don't count rape) sex for the first time. Your hymen can be 'broken' numerous other non-sexual ways, and some people are even born without a hymen. Your hymen does not grow back, but it could hurt again when you have sex. Or it might not. It depends on the person. Don't stress over it.

[anyone50]

you can only lose your virginity once

[ninja789]

you are not going to be a virgin again