Finding the right guy?

[ECSTASY]

I'm wondering , how do you guys find the right person for a relationship over there? I mean , only 10 percent of each society is gay and that makes it hard to find someone who loves you back .
In iran , there are some gay cafes and parties in tehran .
But idk why most of the gays just think about sex here .
And about the parties , I'm not comfortable to go to a gay party , specially here which is mostly popular among transexuals than gays .
Being lonely sucks you know ^_^

[Zachary G]

its not easy to find the right person for a relationship, there is a lot of trial and error. You meet someone you like and you ask them out to see if you are compatible before you do anything sexual, and if that one doesnt work out then you find someone else and you do the same thing.

[Chapperz16]

Aye I agree wth Zack, you gotta spread your wings lol and try stuff out.

[DoodleSnap]

Yeah - it is hard. But I think you may be wrong on the 10% part: In the UK, 1 in 2 18-24 year olds said that they weren't 100% straight (Source). (https://yougov.co.uk/news/2015/08/16/half-young-not-heterosexual/)
I think it just goes to show that most people have some degree of fluidity in their sexuality, and with modern education and awareness, more people are accepting that.

But, that doesn't change the fact that it is still really hard to find people like yourself. I know that from my perspective, the prospect of trying to find another boy who is interested in dating a boy is a very difficult one: "What if they're straight?" "What if they make fun of me?"

And being under 18, I can't use dating apps/sites, or go to bars or clubs.

I think it's a hard thing for most young LGBT+ people out there, an issue that we all face. I think that going forward, places like colleges/universities, with a high percentage of educated and progressive young people, are the places where it will be easiest to find someone.

TL;DR: I don't have an answer, and yes, it does suck.

[Abhorrence]

Finding the right person is a long process for either heterosexual people or homosexual people. You can date a plethora of people and still not meet "the one" until later in life. You have to go through a process of love and unlove and all the positives and negatives in life to find what you deem perfection.