I had my first wet dream, but what exactly are you supposed to be dreaming about?

[Mikeymic]

I was sleeping over my friends house after our game, since our parents take turns carpooling us. We were talking about girls we liked and stuff before we fell asleep on the floor in front of his big TV. Anyway, I dont remember anything sexual in the dream though. Actually, it kind of was just of nothing. All I remember was feeling this really, really hot/wet sensation around my dick. Then I kinda just woke up in the middle of me shooting with my dick hanging out of my boxers. My friend happened to be awake at the same time too, he just commented about how surprised he was that I cum like triple what he does and asked me what I was dreaming about. I'm surprised he didn't find it embarrassing like I did.

Anyway, he started telling me about his couple of dreams and how theyre all super sexual. But I literally dreamed of nothing? What is a "normal" wet dream supposed to be like?

[SethfromMI]

I was sleeping over my friends house after our game, since our parents take turns carpooling us. We were talking about girls we liked and stuff before we fell asleep on the floor in front of his big TV. Anyway, I dont remember anything sexual in the dream though. Actually, it kind of was just of nothing. All I remember was feeling this really, really hot/wet sensation around my dick. Then I kinda just woke up in the middle of me shooting with my dick hanging out of my boxers. My friend happened to be awake at the same time too, he just commented about how surprised he was that I cum like triple what he does and asked me what I was dreaming about. I'm surprised he didn't find it embarrassing like I did.

Anyway, he started telling me about his couple of dreams and how they're all super sexual. But I literally dreamed of nothing? What is a "normal" wet dream supposed to be like?

there is no normal wet dream. many people have sexual ones (or they're the ones which stand out more to them), but there is no set requirements of what a wet dream is supposed to meet

[hairy balls]

is it possible that your friend may have played with touched you

[Harrier]

It's just like ANY dream, some dreams we can remember and some we can't. Your dream MAY have been sexual but you simply forgot it. Also I think maybe wet dreams aren't always dreams, I could be wrong but it might just be a way for your body to get rid of "excess" sperm. Did your friend hear you talk in your sleep at all? And ya if I were you I would ask yourself if your friend touched you. Why would he be watching you sleep otherwise? And I'm not sure if guys "shoot" during wet dreams or just dribble ... idk cuz I'm always sleeping when it happens lol. BUT if he was touching you, you would definitely shoot.

[Mikeymic]

Why is everyone jumping to the conclusion that my doubles partner touched me or something? He's not gay and neither am I? I was shooting, but is that really indicative of something?

[Harrier]

Why is everyone jumping to the conclusion that my doubles partner touched me or something? He's not gay and neither am I? I was shooting, but is that really indicative of something?

I wasn't jumping to any conclusion. Simply through out a possibility for you to consider if you desired. If you re-read my post I never proclaimed either of you as being gay. Like my post said, I'm not really sure people shoot during wet dreams without stimuli, however I don't consider myself an expert on the subject.

[fast8]

There is no normal dreams to have it just happen

[ska8er]

I do not think u shoot during a wet dream. I think
a wet dream is a lot of pre cum after u have been
aroused. I only have a large amount in my boxers
in the morning that I can say that maybe I had
more than one dream. We get many boners during
the night and who is to know that the dream is sexual
or not-I guess it doesn't have to b. Anyway odd that
ur penis was out.

[Vermilion]

Wet dreams don't have to be sexual at all

[Zachary G]

some people have wet dreams that are related to sexual dreams, and some people have wet dreams that arent related to sexual dreams. For most, the sexual dreams are the ones that stand out the most because they are usually so graphic, but wet dreams are not always related to sexual dreams. There really is no set standard of dream sequences that can or will trigger a wet dream. It could be anything.

[Bluebyrd]

Well a lot of dreams you just don't remember so it might have been sexual and you just didn't remember it. And like I'm sure people before me have said there is no normal, and even if something you had a wet dream to was 'abnormal' it's nothing to worry about because you can't help it.

[Hermes]

To answer your original question first, I cannot speak from experience because I have never had a wet dream but when we were told about them in sex-ed it was mentioned that, while the dream itself may be sexual, it also may not be. It may also include things you either could not do, or would not want to do, in practice.

Why is everyone jumping to the conclusion that my doubles partner touched me or something? He's not gay and neither am I? I was shooting, but is that really indicative of something?

To be fair, divorced from any emotional involvement in what happened to you we can see that your friend doing something could explain several of the things you mentioned in your description. In particular if he was doing something it would explain why he was awake and also why your dick was out. If he was sucking you it would also explain the warm, wet sensation you mentioned.

Of course there could be other explanations for these things. You could have been moaning as you got near to orgasm and that woke him up. Your dick could have popped out just because it was hard. Not so sure about the warm wet sensation - if your dick had stayed in so the cum was gathering in a pool which had your dick head in it that would provide a warm, wet sensation but that wasn't the case. Maybe it was just pure imagination.

At the end of the day we don't know for sure, because we weren't there, we're just saying keep and open mind.

[hairy balls]

yes I also didn't say anything about anyone being gay . I agree with Hermes I find it very strange that your penis popped out of your boxers. I never had mine pop out of mine in a wet dream and also never woke up shooting I always found my mess was in a pool shot all over the bed

[Second Chance]

I was sleeping over my friends house after our game, since our parents take turns carpooling us. We were talking about girls we liked and stuff before we fell asleep on the floor in front of his big TV. Anyway, I dont remember anything sexual in the dream though. Actually, it kind of was just of nothing. All I remember was feeling this really, really hot/wet sensation around my dick. Then I kinda just woke up in the middle of me shooting with my dick hanging out of my boxers. My friend happened to be awake at the same time too, he just commented about how surprised he was that I cum like triple what he does and asked me what I was dreaming about. I'm surprised he didn't find it embarrassing like I did.

Anyway, he started telling me about his couple of dreams and how theyre all super sexual. But I literally dreamed of nothing? What is a "normal" wet dream supposed to be like?

My guess is that you were dreaming about something sexual, but you just do not remember your dream. After all, you were talking about girls and whatnot before you had gone to sleep, and my thinking is that your subconscious mind had sex at the forefront. Whether or not you were thinking about something sexual as you had woken up does not mean that what started the dream was sexual.

In short, you are fine, and I would not worry about what had happened.

[pjones]

I do not think u shoot during a wet dream. I think
a wet dream is a lot of pre cum after u have been
aroused. I only have a large amount in my boxers
in the morning that I can say that maybe I had
more than one dream. We get many boners during
the night and who is to know that the dream is sexual
or not-I guess it doesn't have to b. Anyway odd that
ur penis was out.

i've woken up during one and i was definitely shooting. have a friend that wears boxers and quite often when he gets an erection in his sleep his penis sticks out of the fly.

i don't remember most of my wet dreams, could have been about anything

[ska8er]

i've woken up during one and i was definitely shooting. have a friend that wears boxers and quite often when he gets an erection in his sleep his penis sticks out of the fly.

i don't remember most of my wet dreams, could have been about anything


Anything is possible-im just basing it on
what happens to me.

[Lachy]

Sometimes my penis sticks out of my boxers when I get hard or have a wet dream.

And this sounds pretty normal. As a teenager our hormones are raging so the conversation about girls would have put sex on your mind and probably made you a tad horny. Now when you fall asleep and you start dreaming these feelings are exaggerated to the point it is enough to make you orgasm. You don't always remember the dream when you wake up. The warm wet feeling was likely just the feeling of the fresh cum and orgasm as you are waking up.

Kudos for your friend acting so cool btw. I would freak out in that situation. Would be so embarrassed. Though strangely if I was in your friends position and saw it I would act the same way to make my friend comfortable.

Tip guys, Wear a pair of underwear under your boxers or pyjamas when staying at a friends or relatives place. It will contain cum from any wet dreams and stop you from ruining the bedding or making it obvious. If you do cum, go to the bathroom and clean it out with some paper before you go back to bed.

[The captain]

all my wet dreams were and are about sexual things and cum a lot really lol

[Semi_IronMan]

Mine always feature something sexual, I remember the latest I was humping a friend of mine

[Ciel09x]

I love this question, I always thought about it but never thought to ask. Anyways, I have random dream. It's like crazy, all kinds of crazy stuff. Then I just wake and I have no clue what happened, sometimes I remember them, and some of them I can't.

[mcsteamy]

I've had similar experiences like yours. I don't have wet dreams often, but when I do I most of the time don't even remember the dream. There's only been one or two dreams that I remember that were very sexual, that's about it though.