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Heyman
February 9th, 2016, 01:58 PM
Hey there!
So this is what happened... on new years eve I got a bit drunk and told this girl that I really like her and I kissed her, I really did mean it and I told her that the next day, but we haven't spoken since then and I really want to fix things because I really like her a lot!
So if you were her what, in your opinion, would you want to hear me say.
I have been running through what I want to say to her in my head over and over again and I literally haven't spent a day since not thinking about her...

PLEASE HELP!!!!

Shiny Moon
February 9th, 2016, 02:04 PM
And why are you doing this more than a month later?
You haven't talked to her in more than a month, so it won't be easy to fix. Also, how did your last conversation end? Do you think she's mad at you?

My suggestion is to take it slowly, maybe a few texts first, like "how are you", or "what are you doing" or stuff like that, just to break a little the ice that was formed in this month that has passed. After a few days or a week you can tell her that you want to meet to have a little chat.

West Coast Sheriff
February 9th, 2016, 05:39 PM
While I'm not a girl, I've had plent of experiences with them. My assumption is that she probably is not interested. Or if she did, she may have waited for you to move but you didn't and now she lost interest.

Man to man, I recommend texting or talking to her. Take things slowly and see how they go. Look for signs of interest.

Stormy Days
February 9th, 2016, 05:48 PM
Hey there!
So this is what happened... on new years eve I got a bit drunk and told this girl that I really like her and I kissed her, I really did mean it and I told her that the next day, but we haven't spoken since then and I really want to fix things because I really like her a lot!
So if you were her what, in your opinion, would you want to hear me say.
I have been running through what I want to say to her in my head over and over again and I literally haven't spent a day since not thinking about her...

PLEASE HELP!!!!
Hi there, I don't know if your problem's been solved, or when this was posted. I just got on this site and I'm just getting used to it. I'm not very good with this stuff since I've never had to deal with it but what I would say is that you should sit down with her, talk to her about it. Explain to her that just because you were drunk doesn't mean that's an excuse for your actions and apologize, but explain to her how she's the light of your life, and how you care so much for her. You don't have to go with it, this was just a thought, but hope it helps/helped :D

DoodleSnap
February 10th, 2016, 12:37 PM
See, the most important thing in a relationship is communication: speaking (or whatever it is that you do to communicate) to your significant other is what keeps you together, and allows you to get on. I know it seems daunting, but if you want to initiate something with this girl, you're gonna have to communicate, and be honest about it. The best thing to do, in my opinion, would be to say something like: "I wanna talk to you about something", and then try to tell her how you feel. She's not a mind reader, so let her know what you think of her. Once you have started a dialogue, then she can tell you what's going on with her, what she thinks, etc...

Good luck.