Some advice from guys ?

[Kennedy]

Hi,

I'm currently in Senior year and I feel very attracted to a guy in my class. At the beginning of the year, I remember this one time where we were smiling at a joke, and I looked at him, and he looked at me right back in the eyes, and it felt magical and as if we'd been both struck by lightning.

Recently, I was sat with a few of his friends and of mine, and my friends randomly asked him what he thought about me. He said, right in front of me, that I was "beautiful". I'm just wondering if that means he obviously likes me, or if, because he said it so casually in front of his friends, he doesn't feel anything for me ?

Thanks for your help !

[Chapperz16]

Nah boy I reckon he likes you, he may be joking in front of his crew but with the looks and how he said it, I reckon there is something there.

[Uniquemind]

You should've used that social opportunity to drift to his side slowly, and whisper in his ear that you thought he was "electric", slip your number in his pocket, and then ran off back to your girlfriends.


But then again I'm devious when it comes to flirting, it's too forward for some.

[West Coast Sheriff]

He probably likes you if he's so bold like that. Or he thinks you like him, and he wants to take advantage of you. Talk to him and show interest but, be modest in case he has ulterior motives.

[Uniquemind]

He probably likes you if he's so bold like that. Or he thinks you like him, and he wants to take advantage of you. Talk to him and show interest but, be modest in case he has ulterior motives.

Yeah that's an aspect I forgot to mention.

But at the same time it's also hard to tell between a genuine guy who wants a relationship and one who wants to bed you.

Definitely play it safe and kinda work it so that it's socially destroying the group (you guys sounded like a mixed gender group of close friends) where backlash would be bad if either of you cheated or used the other person.

It's not a foolproof method of guarding you're heart, but it is a strategic tactic.

If you do pursue him, make sure everything is discussed regarding what you want from each other (just sex, exclusivity, FWB, open relationship, rules regarding contraception what works what doesn't for each person).

Ack I'm probably freaking you out.


tl;dr : communicate honestly from the heart and with your brain too.

[Kennedy]

That was quite helpful, actually. Thanks ! I'm going to try something out but keep on the safe side.

[Uniquemind]

That was quite helpful, actually. Thanks ! I'm going to try something out but keep on the safe side.

Just remember that guys are usually oblivious. Dropping signs us girls think are "strong hints" run a chance of not even being detected by the guys.