Hurts so much..

[districtnowhere]

Me and my boyfriend are together for almost 4 years now. But it started happening again.. -> my boyfriend just told me that he doesn't know if he loves me anymore. It hurts so much. I hope it's just an exam phase. But I don't know, that happened before. And this isn't helping my mental status. I'm sorry for ranting. I just needed to get this out of me. I just couldn't trust anyone else..

[Chapperz16]

It may be exams or it may be the truth. Either way, you need to ask yourself if there has been any other signs which may give you an idea as to whether he still lives you or not.

[districtnowhere]

It might just be that we've became a couple at a too younger age. He said it's different than last time he felt that way. But he also said that he has to deal with it in his own time. I just needed to write it somewhere. It feels so much better. I don't want to go back to cutting again ..

[Chapperz16]

It might just be that we've became a couple at a too younger age. He said it's different than last time he felt that way. But he also said that he has to deal with it in his own time. I just needed to write it somewhere. It feels so much better. I don't want to go back to cutting again ..

Its good that you are open about this, I have a friend who has been through hell and SH quite a lot. By writing it down and not hurting yourself, you display both self respect and confidence/

[districtnowhere]

I'm thinking of going back to the psychiatrist. It's affecting both my psych and my school work. .It doesn't help that we live together

[Chapperz16]

I'm thinking of going back to the psychiatrist. It's affecting both my psych and my school work. .It doesn't help that we live together

Do it, he/she will help you through this and if you do break up with your BF, they will be there to support you.

[districtnowhere]

I was right. He said we should go on a break. I don't know how i feel about it :(

[Chapperz16]

I was right. He said we should go on a break. I don't know how i feel about it :(

Maybe its for the best mate, who knows maybe you just need some space apart for awhile

[Hudor]

I was right. He said we should go on a break. I don't know how i feel about it :(

That must feel terrible man.
But since he has made it clear he needs space, i don't think there's much you can do except respect his decision. it seems like a precarious position. It might be exam pressure or some other issue he could be dealing with but i guess you should let him sort it out on his own and be there for him whenever he needs you.

[maniamsmart]

This tends to be normal, but at the same time, not a good sign. He could be losing interest, there could be something that's really bugging him, he could be falling out of love... it could be anything, but if you truly care about the relationship, and if he truly cares about it, then both of you have to effectively communicate to tell each other your feelings, hug it out, cry it out, and try to fix the problem together. Otherwise, you're on a roadway to heartbreak, do not ignore this, don't just think it's a phase. Because if it is, then this is not healthy for your relationship.

[districtnowhere]

This tends to be normal, but at the same time, not a good sign. He could be losing interest, there could be something that's really bugging him, he could be falling out of love... it could be anything, but if you truly care about the relationship, and if he truly cares about it, then both of you have to effectively communicate to tell each other your feelings, hug it out, cry it out, and try to fix the problem together. Otherwise, you're on a roadway to heartbreak, do not ignore this, don't just think it's a phase. Because if it is, then this is not healthy for your relationship.

He said he just need some time to think everything through, he has some personal issues with himself so I think i'm gonna give him space (which is kidna hard since we live together), but i'll try not to be so nosy towards him. We'll see. When it comes to it, we'll hug it out, and cry it out (there's been a lot of that recently), i think he still has feelings for me, but from the way i see it (and his comments), he's fallen in love with someone and he just wants to see if he can be with someone else because our relationship has became very "for granted", so he's trying to see if he can love someone else, or if he can't live with me. He said it's very horrible of him to do hat to me, but he just has to get that out of his body, so that we could possibly stay together and have a normal life again. I decided to give him time, and to see what will happen, i'm just afraid i'm in for a lot of heartache and pain.. .We'll see..

[warbit]

He said he just need some time to think everything through, he has some personal issues with himself so I think i'm gonna give him space (which is kidna hard since we live together), but i'll try not to be so nosy towards him. We'll see. When it comes to it, we'll hug it out, and cry it out (there's been a lot of that recently), i think he still has feelings for me, but from the way i see it (and his comments), he's fallen in love with someone and he just wants to see if he can be with someone else because our relationship has became very "for granted", so he's trying to see if he can love someone else, or if he can't live with me. He said it's very horrible of him to do hat to me, but he just has to get that out of his body, so that we could possibly stay together and have a normal life again. I decided to give him time, and to see what will happen, i'm just afraid i'm in for a lot of heartache and pain.. .We'll see..
That really sucks :(
When my ex-gf and I broke up, I was so sad for about a month but time heals stuff like this. It could be a phase and it might end soon but if it isn't then don't self harm or do any thing that you will regret. If you need help then get it. :) Pm me if you wanna chat ;)

[districtnowhere]

It hurts because we've been through so much, 4 years is not a short time. I just don't know how i'll move from this if it really happens. .:( thanks for the support

[West Coast Sheriff]

I'm sorry that has to hurt a lot. I can't imagine how you feel. My suggestion is to be there for him and try to make him as happy as possible. Being a source of joy can really remind him how important you are to him.

[amgb]

You don't have to be sorry for venting, it's okay, you needed somewhere to get this out of your chest~ It's really tough since you and your boyfriend had been together for 4 years, that is a long time, and to just have it broken off...it hurts. It hurts to know that someone doesn't love you in the same way that they did in the beginning. And to not know if the breaking off is going to be forever; that's hard enough to deal with. I'm sorry to hear that he's going through some personal issues :/ It's brave of you to step away and give him space and time, I really hope he can figure things out soon. I know it hurts so much, but I still really hope that both of you can support each other through this. Cry it out when you need to, it's okay to feel the hurt. Let it out, write it down if you need to. It'll be okay, and you'll probably believe more in the possibility of it all ending with him, but it hasn't happened. We won't know until we know. Don't beat yourself down, tell yourself that no matter what happens, you'll be able to brave through it.

We are all here to support you~~

[districtnowhere]

Lately i've been feeling as if i don't belong anywhere anymore, as if i'm all alone in this world. My anxiety has started acting up again and I haven't felt this bad in a long time. I don't know for how long I can cope anymore.

[Uniquemind]

You know it's just a phase though. You'll do okay in the long run.