Conversation

[benlodge123]

Hello everyone! I started speaking to a girl! How do I keep the conversation going without seeming needy or annoying? 😐☺

[RJH98]

Ask her questions. This can be about anything like Hobbies and if you're in the same school you can use that as a conversation starter and keep going from there. Ask her what she likes doing in her free times or when she is with friends. As for not seeming needy you might want to wait like 3 to 5 to minutes before replying but only do this if the conversation is already slow. If she is responding very quickly just keep the convo going by asking her questions and relating them to yourself. Just be yourself and make the conversation feel comfortable

[SethfromMI]

Ask her questions. This can be about anything like Hobbies and if you're in the same school you can use that as a conversation starter and keep going from there. Ask her what she likes doing in her free times or when she is with friends. As for not seeming needy you might want to wait like 3 to 5 to minutes before replying but only do this if the conversation is already slow. If she is responding very quickly just keep the convo going by asking her questions and relating them to yourself. Just be yourself and make the conversation feel comfortable

good advice. above all, let it be a natural conversation. don't just say or ask something just to say or ask it. talk/get to know her like you would anyone else. the more you get to know her, the more you will be able to see if things might move in a more relationship direction

[Ryuun]

Pretty much what those 2 have said but also don't try and force it too much, if you try to force it too much then she might lose interest.

[Plane And Simple]

Agree with the 3 above. To add to that, don't make it an interrogatory. Ask open questions, and show interest when she replies, so that she gets to talk as much as you do.

[maniamsmart]

By not replying with one-word answers. If she doesn't reply with one-word answers in return, she has interest, otherwise... she doesn't have interest. Exactly how to keep a conversation going? Talk about her day, your day, her interests, your interests, your goals, her goals, future, things you'd like to do, things that bug you, your life at home, there's a lot to talk about when you feel comfortable with someone. The only thing is, is the other person interested enough in you to talk WITH YOU about what you talk about.

[FCKYALL]

Dude, just relax, alright. Because talkin' to girls is a skill given for us naturally.

[DoodleSnap]

As everyone above has said: just be yourself and do what comes naturally.

There's no need to be nervous: from her point of view, she's just having a casual conversation. The most important thing to do, as I said, is to feel comfortable, and be yourself. If you want someone to fall in love with you, you have to be you.

Take it easy.

[West Coast Sheriff]

To highlight on everyone else's words which were spot on by the way: If it comes to an awkward point, you can ask her to hang out sometime. Maybe see if she would like to see a movie or go to a park or something.

[Uniquemind]

By not replying with one-word answers. If she doesn't reply with one-word answers in return, she has interest, otherwise... she doesn't have interest. Exactly how to keep a conversation going? Talk about her day, your day, her interests, your interests, your goals, her goals, future, things you'd like to do, things that bug you, your life at home, there's a lot to talk about when you feel comfortable with someone. The only thing is, is the other person interested enough in you to talk WITH YOU about what you talk about.

Actually no, i disagree. Your premise is good, but if someone interprets this literally and gets walled with a bunch of questions it feels like an interrogation.

No do NOT spill your life's story on a date.

Only reveal what is relevant to the flow of conversation.

It also helps to be knowledgable about social circles, clubs, wise quotes and metaphors, and a good practical knowledge base like sense of directions, cooking and eating skills, good hygiene, and ability to make very slightly suggestive sexual puns.

[ClaraWho]

Hello everyone! I started speaking to a girl! How do I keep the conversation going without seeming needy or annoying? 😐☺

These posts always mildly perturb me.

She has different genitals. She's still a person.

How do you talk to your male friends? Just talk to her O.o

Girls don't have strange secret languages or rituals you have to learn and fit into, despite what stupid TV shows say. Be yourself, be natural and stop trying to treat her like an alien.

Maybe you are needy and annoying, but if you try to hide that it'll come out at some point. She'll either like who you are or not, just like any guy. In terms of romance, well there's no formula for that.

~ Clara