sex

[tmkf]

hi im a guy, and want to know how you would like to start to have sex, because me and my girlfriend are ready, but it doesnt seem to happen, how would you go about starting it off...!

[Techno Monster]

I am against sex before marriage, DON`T DO IT UNLESS YOU HAVE NO SECOND THOUGHTS you will be happy later in life. And just ask her if she wants to have sex.

[Underground_Network]

^^ Have to say thats interesting considering your username (no offense). Anyway..If both of you are interested, just wait for an intimate time when its just the two of you, and just let things happen. If its both of your first times, don't expect everything to be perfect. Again, just let it happen. Bring up the fact that you want to have sex, but don't just say, "Hey, wanna go have sex?" Be calm and ask her if she feels she's ready (though from what you said it seems you both have already decided to go through with this).. You should wait until a really intimate time when both of you are alone, and possibly bring it up, or if both of you have concluded that you are already ready, just try and "get right into it" so to speak.. I'm a virgin, so don't know how helpful my advice is lol. :P

[ScotsGirl]

Firstly, are you sure you are both ready?
Really sure?
I mean, she isnt just saying so to please you, or vice versa?

Having sex for the first time is something you are going to remember for a very long time. You want to make it a nice memory Im sure which is why it is so important not to rush into anything before you or her arent ready. Dont feel the need to get it all over and done with just because other people have.

You say that it doesnt seem to happen, maybe thats because it isnt meant to happen yet?
You will know when it feels right and one thing will happen after the other. Until then maybe you can explore each other in other ways. That way you will know what feels good for each other so when it does come to having sex, it will be a lot more enjoyable for you both.

Saying that, I cant stop you having sex so I guess all I can say is...PLEASE USE PROTECTION.
Know whats available and what can go wrong, and what to do if things do go wrong. If you dont know, I suggest you find out before you do anything.

Good luck! :D
xxx

On a lighter note...
^^ Have to say thats interesting considering your username (no offense).

LMAO!!!! :D I agree :eyebrow:

[Maverick]

Girls Puberty -> General Puberty

[Mad Mads]

OK Let Her warm up to u for one.
Make sure She is ok with it.
Make sure u have a CONDOM to protect urself.
Make sure u are sweet to her.
Make sure she is the one u want to lose ur virginaty to.
And once ur in Be gentle with her & go with the flow.

[Lifesreject]

^^^ All of above is really good advice but a want to add that it is a good idea to have foreplay first. It may help to get you both in the mood and prepare you mentally and physically for sex.

Good luck and have fun:D

[tmkf]

thank you all - great advice!!

ps: for the people who replied first - i would use protection, i wouldnt want a child before marriage!

[optimashprime]

ok enjoy it

[The Entertainer]

woah! Hang on! If you DO decide to do it (personally, Im against sex before marriage, but I cant stop you) make sure you arent forceful, if your girlfriend doesnt want sex you HAVE to respect that opinion, no matter how much you want it.
Also, it might hurt her if its her first time as well, as her hymen might be intact. If it is, dont be suprised if she finds it uncomfortable and there is a little blood

[PhillyBby]

Yea I've heard if you're too rough when the hymen is intact it can cause serious bleeding and pain for the girl.

[eskimogal700]

well if youve never done anything sexual before try maybe some mutual masturbation to maybe get used to each others bodies

[tmkf]

woah! Hang on! If you DO decide to do it (personally, Im against sex before marriage, but I cant stop you) make sure you arent forceful, if your girlfriend doesnt want sex you HAVE to respect that opinion, no matter how much you want it.
Also, it might hurt her if its her first time as well, as her hymen might be intact. If it is, dont be suprised if she finds it uncomfortable and there is a little blood

i always would respect a girl, anyone in fact.

[PhillyBby]

That's right whoever the girl is whether "easy" or "hard to get" you must always treat her with respect.