Nudes

[benlodge123]

What do you all think about sending nudes? This girl wants to see my penis! But I'm not sure I want to show it to her!

[Hudor]

I would say it's up to you. Personally, i wouldn't recommend it, especially not if you're under 18.

[yatapunch]

Do it or don't do it.
It's up to you.
If you're doing it, then it would be better without face.
So she couldn't show it someone other who knows you or something like that.
I did that before and nothing seriously or bad happened.

[Hermes]

I think there are two questions lurking here:

1. Do you want this girl to see your penis?
2. Do you want her to have a permanent record of what your penis looks like which she can share with her girlfriends and anyone on the Internet?

Inviting her to go somewhere private with you and then showing her your penis, i.e. there, in the flesh, may make you more nervous but I think it is actually the less risky of the two. if you don't want to do that and see a photo as the easier way then perhaps you don't really want to show her.

Remember, before you send a photo, that you can never get it back. Digital photos are trivial to copy, e-mail, post of social media etc. so you have no control over where it will end up and she may seem trustworthy now but will she be mature about things if you should ever fall out/break up? If you do provide a photo your best bet is to make sure other people wouldn't know it was a photo of you, i.e. a close-cropped picture of a cock would, to most people, just be a picture of a cock whereas if you show a significant amount of body or, god forbid, your face then anyone can try to embarrass you with it at some point in the future.

You might also check out the legal situation where you live.

[DoodleSnap]

First of all: sending naked pictures of yourself, if you're under 18, is a grave, and serious criminal offence in most countries.

I personally wouldn't recommend it, unless you have an extremely close, personal, and trusting relationship with someone. The thing about a picture is that it can be replicated, sent on, altered, saved - there is no limit to what could happen to that picture after it leaves your possession. Once you send it to someone, it's out of your control. In person, if you do something with someone, they can't prove it beyond their word, but with a photo or video, it's easy to shame, bully, etc...

I've seen too many kids have their life ruined by nudes, so I'd steer clear.

[SethfromMI]

I would advise against it. if you do end up wanting her to see, make it in person

[everlong]

It's up to you. It's probably best not to, plus it's more fun in person.

[Karkat]

!!DON'T SEND NUDES UNDERAGE. IT IS NOT WORTH IT. WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE 18!!

That's all I really have to say on the matter. Seriously, there are HUGE legal repercussions for both you and the recipient- ESPECIALLY if one of you turns the age of majority and still is in possession of those pictures. It could literally ruin your life. I'm not just some paranoid, uptight, boring adult. Someone very close to me is basically facing years in prison and felony charges- he's not even 20 years old and his life is essentially ruined- over THREE pictures. It doesn't take much.

Is it a likely scenario? I don't know, but is it really worth the risk?

Anyways, if it's LEGAL on both of your ends, and you WANT to, then I don't see why not. If you don't want to, however, or are feeling weird/unsure, absolutely don't. Don't send something like that if you feel uncomfortable or unsure. You're not obligated to, and anyone who would tell you otherwise is shit. Your body, your decision.

[Unknwn]

Don't do it. I've been in the same situation before. Luckily, I didn't send anything. Things can go very wrong with sending nudes. They may get spread around, people might think of you differently if they find out, idk, it's just too risky, and plus, you're still young. You shouldn't be doing stuff like that. It's just best to not send anything. If all the girl wants is a dick pic, I don't think she's someone you want to be associated with tbh :/

[West Coast Sheriff]

It's illegal. If you get caught, you'll be branded a sex offender. I knew two people who filmed their sex. His two friends had the video. He got expelled from school and the two friends of his can't get accepted into any college now.

Also, it makes me think she doesn't really care about YOU when she wants to see that kind of photo.

[AutumnWinds]

What do you all think about sending nudes? This girl wants to see my penis! But I'm not sure I want to show it to her!

i don't think you should do ANYTHING you're not sure you want to do. also, i think you should be aware that there is no guarantee that if you send her the pic she is the only one who will see it. but if you'll cool with taking that chance, and you wanna do it, i don't think there is anything wrong with it per se.

[PinkFloyd]

My advice is to not do it. I've been dating the same girl for years now and we have never exchanged nudes.

[scififanboy]

I would never recommend guys or girls sending nudes.. you just never know if they are going to get around. If someone wants to see your goods, chill with them in person :)

[lliam]

But I'm not sure I want to show it to her!


In case youv'e doubts, let it be.

[pconnor2001]

I think it is a bad idea to send nude pictures of yerslf.

[Shiny Moon]

It could be pretty dangerous, so I suggest you think carefully about it before doing anything. Think about all the risks and consequences, and the little benefit you would get from it.

[Leon03]

That is weird. I could not think of a good reason why she would want that.

[Emerald Dream]

Let's keep this appropriate, please. Posts have been deleted.

[fast8]

If you feel that it is wrong then don't do it if you want to show her do it in person not by pictures

[Zachary G]

DONT DO IT!!! It could be more trouble than its worth. If she wants to see it so bad, why cant you show it to her in person? Is she sharing with you as well?

The ultimate decision is yours, but if you decide to do it, dont put your face in it; if you dont, good for you. Youve saved yourself a lot of trouble

[amgb]

It does not matter whether it's illegal or not. Like a couple of the above posters have said, the nude pictures you send are completely out of your control once you send them or give them to anyone. You don't know who could end up seeing it, and it's not gonna be easy to take it back. It does not matter whether or not you're comfortable with it; don't show anyone any nudes at all, no matter how much you trust them. You know what, I've advised this to a good friend already; don't even take and keep nudes for yourself. No matter how safe and private you see it as, it's not. Nothing is private with technology, because once something is out there on a device or on the internet, it's out there and absolutely anyone can access it if they were determined to. I can't stop you, but I just really do not want you to regret this later on. If you want to show her your penis for whatever reason you have and if you trust her, do it in person. In fact, if you're unsure of a decision, that's usually a sign you shouldn't go along with it. Please stay safe online~~~

[tovaris]

Rather than send a picture convince ger to see it IRL

[Cadanance00]

Totally risky. If she wants to see it show it to her in person.

[Chapperz16]

I sent a nude before and was unlucky enough to place my trust in a total bastard who then spread it around school thus making my life hell for two years. Dont do it.

[pjones]

i would not do it. lots of kids have gotten in trouble around here for doing it. as others have said once you send it you have no control over where it goes.

[maniamsmart]

If you're not sure as you say in your first post, then don't do it. Be sure with what you do, then progress. And being sure, means being aware of all possible outcomes.

[AlexinCali]

Well if I were to say it in terms of legality, if you're under 18 no. You could always offer this in actuality, as in physically show it to her but that might be a bit out of her comfort zone, in which case she shouldn't be asking this at all.

In all reality it's up to you, it's going to be something that will always be there, and it could be embarrassing if she spreads it across the internet or your school.

[Jordan99]

Lots of good advice has been provided here already but what I haven't seen here yet is that it could (and likely will be) illegal to send her this photo. If you two are at that point in your relationship where you are ready to show each other your bodies, then as it has been written already, do it in person. The difference is doing it in person doesn't leave behind EVIDENCE.

[Cadanance00]

THIS JUST OUT! New Mexico just legalized 14-18 y/o's sexting. Seems like they got tired of treating kids like felons for sending nudies.

[Maddy01]

Just google one and send it to her.

Orrrr tell her to send you something first.