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[Daniella98]

Hi girls
If you got a boyfriend who one day admitted he was hugely turned on by the thought of you having sex with other guys, you choosing the guys yourself, while he either watched or you made a private video to see with him later.
Would you do it just to please him? Would you think it was a paradise? Or would you find it repulsing? Or do you want it, but you dont dare to?
How would you feel about it?

[cherylcherylX2]

Hi girls
If you got a boyfriend who one day admitted he was hugely turned on by the thought of you having sex with other guys, you choosing the guys yourself, while he either watched or saw it later on a video you made, would you accept the offer or find it repulsing?

It really just depends on you, IMO, if both members of a relationship consents to such an act, it's perfectly ok to do so.

[Daniella98]

It really just depends on you, IMO, if both members of a relationship consents to such an act, it's perfectly ok to do so.

Hi Cheryl. Im not affraid of my doing is wrong. And I think I would try it out. I just want to know if anybody is like me...

[stacy1203]

Maybe I would, but only under my terms, that includes no filming. If the relationship is based mainly on physical values, I don't find it repulsing at all.

[Daniella98]

Its not only physical values. I guess that would just be a friend with benefits right? Its a boyfriend with true feelings for you, but the with the urge to see you with other guys

[stacy1203]

I kinda fail to see the "feelings" part, it just doesn't make sense to me...IMO

[Amber98]

i think you should do what you feel like doing at that moment. stop thinking in the future and enjoy your youth. most adults complain about there boring lives because they werent adventurous enough and because of society pressure.

so if u think its hot go ahead and have fun! :)

[sambeans]

i think you should do what you feel like doing at that moment. stop thinking in the future and enjoy your youth. most adults complain about there boring lives because they werent adventurous enough and because of society pressure.

so if u think its hot go ahead and have fun! :)

Agree

[Daniella98]

Agree

Thank you. But Im not insecure on this question. Im just asking: would you go for it? Of course on your terms (no pimping intended).

[Amber98]

Thank you. But Im not insecure on this question. Im just asking: would you go for it? Of course on your terms (no pimping intended).

i think we all must agree that even though when we are in a relationship you still find other people attractive and you feel physically attracted to them and you definitely would have sex with them if u werent in a relationship. so if your boyfriend is encouraging you to do so i guess thats perfect isnt it? lol

i definitely would.. ;)

[sambeans]

I probably would.

[jenna123]

i dont think i would, and specially wouldnt film it, but it depends also on the level of confidence i have with that boyfriend and how much time we have been dating. We would have to be very confident and close for me even to consider it

[juanita]

It's not for me but if it's something YOU want to do go for it, but don't do it just to please somone else.

[melissa13]

Id prob do it,and filming it to me is no big deal.

[Taryn98]

If I'm in a relationship with someone, then no I wouldn't do it because I would be committed to that one person. If I was single and the opportunity came up to do something like that, I would consider it but not being filmed.

[RachelW]

thats and interesting question im not sure. what girl has never had the dream of sleeping with multiple guys but video is out so he would have to be there, even so im not sure if i would

[sambeans]

forgot to add, filming it would be out of the question. He would need to be there to see it. Thought about it some more. only way I would do it is if it were talked about extensively before hand. If this is something that would truly make him happy and you would not be hurt by it then go for it.

[Pensive]

I'd be heartbroken if my soulmate said that to me...

FYI I've never had that dream. There's only One person for me.

To go against the general overly sexual atmosphere of vteen;

Are you positive this isn't simply a test? That he wasn't insecure about your relationship, and seeking reassurance?

Sometimes a partner encourages the other to not be 'held back' and 'unsatisfied', to give the green light for sexual acts that otherwise would be cheating, simply to keep you happy.

Or he wanted a straight 'Never, you are the only one I ever want.'

Or last scenario, he is laying the foundations for asking to have sex with other girls.

The one thing that I can be 100% certain about, is that;

A) Your relationship has major issues
B) They won't be solved by being fu>&ed by other guys

[Daniella98]

I'd be heartbroken if my soulmate said that to me...

FYI I've never had that dream. There's only One person for me.

To go against the general overly sexual atmosphere of vteen;

Are you positive this isn't simply a test? That he wasn't insecure about your relationship, and seeking reassurance?

Sometimes a partner encourages the other to not be 'held back' and 'unsatisfied', to give the green light for sexual acts that otherwise would be cheating, simply to keep you happy.

Or he wanted a straight 'Never, you are the only one I ever want.'

Or last scenario, he is laying the foundations for asking to have sex with other girls.

The one thing that I can be 100% certain about, is that;

A) Your relationship has major issues
B) They won't be solved by being fu>&ed by other guys

First of all: Im not in a relationship, Im single.
It is a hypothetical question. I know that some relationships are like this, and I thought it might have been interesting to know how many of us would consider doing it or to hear your thoughts about it.
Second: I cant see this as cheating on the boyfriend, as it is a part of the sex in the relationship, which turns him on and he wants to happen.

[enriqueroxx]

I think I would if that's what he wanted......but definitely no filming...

[Pensive]

First of all: Im not in a relationship, Im single.
It is a hypothetical question. I know that some relationships are like this, and I thought it might have been interesting to know how many of us would consider doing it or to hear your thoughts about it.
Second: I cant see this as cheating on the boyfriend, as it is a part of the sex in the relationship, which turns him on and he wants to happen.

1. It was a realistic hypothetical answer - which hopefully might help someone

2. I was referring to sanctioned cheating

[Daniella98]

I dont think Ive answered this myself. I would do it. Not only to please myself but to please the boyfriend in question. If he is so much turned on by it, why should I deny him it if I deep down are open to it. After all, the other guys are ones I choice and nothing is forced upon me.
Id say yes

[carmen97]

i dont know if i would let that happen but it would all depend on each situation

[Rainbowfairy]

I've done it before and filmed, at first i done it to show him he wouldn't like it thinking I would hate it and I actually loved it,
He was watching and he actually cried as I let the guy do more stuff than he was allowed to(anal,cum in me) and the guy I chose was much bigger and better, I made him lick me out after the other guy had come in me.
I let him film but on my phone so it couldn't be shared except by
Me got to be carefull

[Shailene]

All I'll say is it can be fun :)

[highschool]

call me wild but I would do it, especially if he wanted me to and was 100% okay with it.

[Emerald Dream]

This is not puberty related. :locked: