Girls - Do you "kiss and tell"?

[Harrier]

How much do you tell your girl friends? When you see a guy's dick, do you tell your friends how big/small he is? Do you tell your friends if guys are good kissers or not and how long they lasted during sex?

Please be honest, as we should for all posts on here. Girls always say they don't but guys aren't that stupid to believe that's always true. So please be honest and say why?

[Ashwells9991]

pretty much tell everything tbh

[AutumnWinds]

certain friends of mine i share 95% of what i do sexually with. for me though, if i say i won't tell about something, i won't. your word needs to be worth something.

[LanaPole]

I share it with my close girl friends about boys. boys dont normally tell me to keep secrets.

[Cangirl]

I share pretty much everything with my best friend and my sister. But like AutmnWinds said, if I do say I wont tell, then I wont tell if I feel it's going to hurt the person.

[Laibachd]

Almost everything haha

[ClaraWho]

My sex life is entirely private, any intimate moment I share with another stays between us amd special. I find telling is cheap and trampy, and I'm really not interested in hearing about it. I've never understood why people tell either, are they trying to get off on it?

~ Clara

[Cadanance00]

Since this is for all, I'll jump in and say something. My dad told me to never fuck and tell. He said your best friend will tell somebody else that you're fucking so-and-so, and they'll tell somebody else and it will get back to her and she'll be embarrassed and hurt and you're likely never to get any there again. So what goes on between you and a girl stays between you. If somebody asks you if you're really fucking ******, say if I was I couldn't tell you.

(Also, some kid will tell one of their parents and now it's in the grapevine and her mom finds out, etc.)

[Shiny Moon]

Well, I don't go around saying "hey, I did it with a guy that had a dick THIS big" or something like that on purpose. If the topic comes out I just talk about it.

[BlackParadePixie]

Some of my friends know which guys I've been with, and I have shared certain things with them...like kissing and stuff, but no I've never gone and spread rumors around about how big or small a guy is.

[jen698]

we talk about every thing to each other we keep no secrets

[Harrier]

Thanks for the answers so far.

I honestly understand each answer and I don't judge people but girls who tell their friends EVERYTHING I ask you that you seriously consider not doing it. I'm 100% satisfied with my size (wish I was thicker but w/e) and always have been told I'm great at kissing, oral, etc (unless they're all lying which would suck lol). I'm a virgin, and I do admit that when I have sex I am worried about how long I last, I won't even lie, but everything else has come easy to me so hope that continues. One thing that scares me the most is my current gf is best friends with my best girl friend. She was actually the girl who sort of hooked me up with my gf. It bothers me that my gf could be telling the girl who is basically like a sister to me very personal info.

Am I being to thin skinned? Would you girls care if guys told each other personal stuff like how loud you are, do you spit or swallow, how big certain things are, etc?

[Abhorrence]

Puberty For All :arrow: Family & Friends

It wasn't really puberty related.

[Babs]

I think it's bad bang etiquette to broadcast certain information.

[Vanilla Cupcake]

How much do you tell your girl friends? When you see a guy's dick, do you tell your friends how big/small he is? Do you tell your friends if guys are good kissers or not and how long they lasted during sex?

Please be honest, as we should for all posts on here. Girls always say they don't but guys aren't that stupid to believe that's always true. So please be honest and say why?

Here is how that works. Nothing is spoke about unless the topic comes up. Then it all comes out! Lol
However, if I was "dating" a guy with a small dick I would never reveal that it was small, I would either not talk about it or I would lie about it, protecting his ego etc.
I think most girls would protect their man in the penis department. I think girls complain more about what he doesn't do etc.
Once you break up though, I think the stories might change, especially if you broke up on bad terms.

That's my honest opinion, I can't speak for everyone, just speaking from what I've heard from other girls.

I want to also add that girls seem to want to brag about how big their Bfs dick are. It seems most all claim that they are 8 inches, which Im sure not true, they all can't have 8 incher's their must be variety in the mix! Lol

[jeny2a]

pretty much tell... it's a little bit ridiculous

[Uniquemind]

Here is how that works. Nothing is spoke about unless the topic comes up. Then it all comes out! Lol
However, if I was "dating" a guy with a small dick I would never reveal that it was small, I would either not talk about it or I would lie about it, protecting his ego etc.
I think most girls would protect their man in the penis department. I think girls complain more about what he doesn't do etc.
Once you break up though, I think the stories might change, especially if you broke up on bad terms.

That's my honest opinion, I can't speak for everyone, just speaking from what I've heard from other girls.

I want to also add that girls seem to want to brag about how big their Bfs dick are. It seems most all claim that they are 8 inches, which Im sure not true, they all can't have 8 incher's their must be variety in the mix! Lol


Vanilla brings up a good point that's usually how it goes down.


The information gets shared usually between us girls as a natural consequence of trying to learn from each other's advice and experiences to help guide our own decisions.

Sure you get your bragging types, but there really are two or three different contexts for why that information is shared all with the same end result.


But in my RL right now, none of my friends, except one know I'm dating someone older.

In contrast the privacy is nice, and it's been a real eye opener to how much I don't need to reveal my business with others.

As for my friends though, can't say their lips remain sealed, or if they do spill, it's obviously not vague enough for the rest of the social network to piece 2 and 2 together, to fill in the missing variable of "who" they were talking about.

This is especially true in schools because everybody sees and knows of at the minimum who is going out with whom.

However if someone dates someone outside of school, whom your friends have no connection with, then it becomes easier to keep details vague and private.

[thatgothgirluknow]

honestly no i don't really talk about my relationships in detail the most i might tell my friends is that he kissed me nothing specific