To stay or to leave?

[Mumu]

Hi forum,

So I've been friends with this girl for about 2 years now, and I see her pretty much as 'perfection'. At first, we were in a friend group who got drifted apart due too conflicts where me and her were the only ones left. And so, we became real good friends these last couple of months.

And as I started to know her better, I started to create this huge crush on her because like I mentioned, she turns out to be perfect in my opinion.
She used to call me on everyday and we had tons of fun.

But 2 weeks ago she went to a party where she remet a lot of her friends from her past and there was this one guys, who she now find super attractive.

Now, I didn't know she liked him because she didn't tell me in time, but I bought her ticket to a show she really wants to see for her birthday, which still has to come, and like 1 hour after I bought them, she mentioned that she loves this guy.

They have been texting for almost 2 weeks straight now and now she barely calls me and when I message her on facebook I get messages back like: Ok or Haha or nice

Like she is ignoring me because of this guy and only calls me when he is not available.

I'm really depressed at the moment and I'm very confused on what I should do.

Option one is to ignore her calls and just let her go and cry it out.
Option two is to accept my fate and just stay her friend and see her with this guy.

But if I go with option one, I'll probably have to explain why I'm ignoring her. I'm not sure what to respond on this one other then to confess my love to her but that would be a d*ck move.

Can someone help me please :(

Thanks

[Vanilla Cupcake]

If you have been friends already for 2 years, I think you should stay friends. Does she know you like her? Did you ever get a vibe that she liked you?
They might not work out and you could end up with her if you stay friends idK?
It's really up to you if you think you want to remain friends or not.
That's a hard one..

[Sports Boy]

Do some role reversal. What if you thought the two of you were great friends and nothing more and some girl came along that you really liked and she liked you? How would you hope that this female friend of yours would react? Supportive? Ignoring you? Be completely honest and open with you? Only you can answer but treat her like you would want to be treated. Just another way of looking at it.

[Mumu]

Do some role reversal. What if you thought the two of you were great friends and nothing more and some girl came along that you really liked and she liked you? How would you hope that this female friend of yours would react? Supportive? Ignoring you? Be completely honest and open with you? Only you can answer but treat her like you would want to be treated. Just another way of looking at it.

All I can say is thank you :)

[maniamsmart]

Or option three is to commit your feelings to her, because you've had them for quite some time now.