Moving in with the girl i like.

[Ryuun]

So after a year of liking this girl she admitted to me last week that she likes me aswell and wants me to move in with her. she lives like 10 hours away, we always visit each other and just came back from a camping trip that we both went on.
Im really nervous about it, its a massive change i feel like im growing up too fast or something.

what do you all think?

[paul955]

Hey I don't know how old you are man or what the norms are in Australia, but I would definitely tell you to hold off on moving in with someone unless you're the best of friends (and have been for a while) or you've been officially dating for a long time.

Just because you both like each other is definitely not enough reason to move in with someone. Of course, thats just my opinion.

[Ryuun]

Hey I don't know how old you are man or what the norms are in Australia, but I would definitely tell you to hold off on moving in with someone unless you're the best of friends (and have been for a while) or you've been officially dating for a long time.

Just because you both like each other is definitely not enough reason to move in with someone. Of course, thats just my opinion.

she has been my best friend for over a year now and i am 20

[Uniquemind]

I'm sorry I'm not old enough to have personal experience on this matter.

But my gut tells me 1 year isn't enough, and the economy isn't good enough right now,

[redrider12]

Too soon in my opinion

[gemma 2000]

Go for it

[maniamsmart]

There's nothing wrong with it, unless you don't feel safe, or unless there's no way to back out if you need to. Moving in with someone will really help you understand that person, and help you learn a lot about them. I think it's a healthy move for your relationship to see if you two really are meant to be and if you two really do have a good relationship with each other. As long as you feel safe with her, are financially stable enough, and can always have an alternative to move back to where you are now, then go for it.

[Ryuun]

There's nothing wrong with it, unless you don't feel safe, or unless there's no way to back out if you need to. Moving in with someone will really help you understand that person, and help you learn a lot about them. I think it's a healthy move for your relationship to see if you two really are meant to be and if you two really do have a good relationship with each other. As long as you feel safe with her, are financially stable enough, and can always have an alternative to move back to where you are now, then go for it.

I will always have the alternative to move back where I am now. I'm just nervous about it, but I'm sure those nervous will subside when I move in.

[paul955]

she has been my best friend for over a year now and i am 20

Ah yeah that was important to know lol. Well if you guys have gone camping and stuff then it's probably okay. I would just make sure you both have a talk on how things are going to get paid for. Make sure everything is out in the open.

[Rubbish]

I basicly live at my GF house. Its the best decision that i have ever made. (i sleep at home once or twice every 2 weeks

[SillyShyGuy]

"It's a trap." - Admiral Ackbar

If you are over 18 years of age then you can do as you please. But it would be much better for the both of you if one of you had a stable job or attend school. Being around your partner too much can drive you both crazy. Living with the person you like/love is not the same as casually dating them. You must adapt to how they live and they might have some habits you are not fond of. You have to share the same toilet, shower, and so forth.

[Ryuun]

"It's a trap." - Admiral Ackbar

If you are over 18 years of age then you can do as you please. But it would be much better for the both of you if one of you had a stable job or attend school. Being around your partner too much can drive you both crazy. Living with the person you like/love is not the same as casually dating them. You must adapt to how they live and they might have some habits you are not fond of. You have to share the same toilet, shower, and so forth.

Yeah I know. I have a job lined up and she is doing a course, so during the week we will both be busy.

[Meamo]

Just do it, your 20. Could be fun. You may enjoy it. Hopefully you do. Just take your time when moving don't get overly excited and try to do it in one night. :p

[Ryuun]

Well its now official im moving out in 2 days to go live with her.
I got a brand new job i start on monday which im actually so excited for. only sad part is im leaving all my friends and family, but they are all happy for me and sending me off with a party

[RJH98]

Good for you. Congrats and best of luck!

[Karkat]

Congratulations :) I hope everything works out

[AutumnWinds]

So after a year of liking this girl she admitted to me last week that she likes me aswell and wants me to move in with her. she lives like 10 hours away, we always visit each other and just came back from a camping trip that we both went on.
Im really nervous about it, its a massive change i feel like im growing up too fast or something.

what do you all think?

it feels a little fast to me, but that;s just me. you know your life better than i do.

[Ryuun]

Good for you. Congrats and best of luck!

Congratulations :) I hope everything works out

Thank you both!

it feels a little fast to me, but that;s just me. you know your life better than i do.

yeah it does seem a little fast but I don't have a single doubt in my mind

[Shiny Moon]

Congratz! :) Looks like things are going really good for you :yes:

[Ryuun]

Congratz! :) Looks like things are going really good for you :yes:

THank you and i know about time things started going my way :P