Who wants to be my friend?

[Let Me Be a Pony]

I'm asocial. Help me change that with the help of friendship.

[Moriya]

I will :D

[Hideous]

Welcome back, buddy!!!

[Sailor Mars]

who needs friendship when you can be asocial...

wait...

but then...

who needs to be asocial when you can have friendship?

[Let Me Be a Pony]

How does one create a friendship? Why do it when it's going to fall apart later on?

[amgb]

Two people can create a friendship through the first step of each wanting a friendship with the other. From there physical and emotional distance and closeness play an important role in determining the strength of the bond, at times tightening it and at times weakening it. I think the greatest part of a friendship is being able to spend quality time with each other, whether it's in talking or through doing things together and having a good time. Do friendship because having people in your life who will be beside you is something worthy. Being alone is one of the worst things you can feel. You could meet someone and something really good could come out of it if you give it a chance. I know it's conflicting sometimes when you've had bad experiences before and you don't want to let yourself get hurt again, but when you shut the door, you're shutting out the positive and the negative. You won't get hurt, but you'll also never see the good things that can happen. Take risks and let it in, there will probably be rejection, but you've got to tell yourself that an amazing opportunity might be waiting for you out there. If it falls apart, don't tell yourself to give up, don't let the hurt that other people gave you determine the choices you make ahead. Make it a learning experience for next time. Be yourself and the right people will come to you and create a spot for you to fit in their life. It's worth it~

[Sailor Mars]

How does one create a friendship? Why do it when it's going to fall apart later on?

Well it doesn't always fall apart. I've had the same best friend for like 4 years or something now? And the same group of friends for almost the same smount of time and I doubt were gonna stop anytime soon.

And tbh no idea how friendships start. They just sort of...do? Like if u ask how someone met their friend and when they became friends 99% of the time they prolly won't remember lol Friendship is a weird thing but yeah, it's worth it

[Jinglebottom]

What do you like to talk about? :D

[Meamo]

I'll be your friend :) I'm looking for friends actually. :p

[Hudor]

Well sometimes they don't actually fall apart so much as one or both people are caught up with something and don't get time to talk. I have lots of friends, especially a girl I barely get to talk to once in a couple of months but the warmth doesn't diminish. Albeit I wouldn't call her a close friend but we're out there if either one needs help.

[PinkFloyd]

I'll totally be your friend :)

[Let Me Be a Pony]

Oh snap, sorry guys. Was too afraid to check the replies for this thread.

What do you like to talk about? :D

Random conversations. I try to stay away from serious topics. Trying to fix that. I'll PM you.

Well sometimes they don't actually fall apart so much as one or both people are caught up with something and don't get time to talk. I have lots of friends, especially a girl I barely get to talk to once in a couple of months but the warmth doesn't diminish. Albeit I wouldn't call her a close friend but we're out there if either one needs help.

I'm feeling as if I'm socially beginning to collapse, bro. Almost no serious contact with people is diminishing my social skills. I literally haven't had a proper conversation with anyone for more than 1 month now. Had some short random chats with some people, but that's just all. I don't even go out anymore, unless It's Saturday. Priorly I was horrid in communication with other people, but now I've noticed how crippled my mother language and English are turning out to be, compared to how it was a few years ago.
I've lost my ability to relate myself to someone else's conversation.
Basically, it's like this: Someone starts a discussion. That conversation to me feels something of hostile essence to me. I just can't board the discussion, simply because it seems strange to me(have hardly talked with people in my childhood, I guess it would've been better if I had more training in my early years, lmfao).
Usually, I begin to talk about something completely random in order to change the general dialogue. I either think of something completely disconnected to invade the conversation or I just sit and listen without a say. Sometimes I don't completely change the topic, but I slightly steer it to another direction.

I will :D

I'll be your friend :) I'm looking for friends actually. :p

I'll totally be your friend :)

I'll PM you guys.

[pjones]

I'm asocial. Help me change that with the help of friendship.

my parents tell me to be rich in friends, not money. so if you'd like to be friends let me know

[Uniquemind]

We aren't friends on VT already?! *is shocked and slightly offended*

[Let Me Be a Pony]

We aren't friends on VT already?! *is shocked and slightly offended*

Rawr. You are going to get a load of random PM's this week. Happy about that? Meow.

my parents tell me to be rich in friends, not money. so if you'd like to be friends let me know

Friendship is magic. I want to get high on that magic. I will abuse its powers. つ_つ

[Uniquemind]

Rawr. You are going to get a load of random PM's this week. Happy about that? Meow.



Friendship is magic. I want to get high on that magic. I will abuse its powers. つ_つ

But one of the first unspoken rules of friendship, is to not treat them like a commodity.

I take issue with how your parents phrase their wording...it's too easily perverted.

Also unfortunately social media has taught a lot of us to treat "friend counts" like currency.


I think this is wrong. So hopefully I have amended and added to the value of your parents advice.