annoying girlfriend

[NathanC]

Hi all. So I've been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months now and we still haven't had sex. This dosent bother me that much I'm not in any rush but no matter how hard I try I can't seem to get her to be very affectionate towards me. It particularly bothers me when I see my mates with there girlfreind of less time and there constantly hugging kissing and sitting next to/ on each other's lap and just genrally very close together. I've tried talking to her about it and we've both told eachother things that the other foes that annoys us in a attempt to make the relationship better and whilst I've work hard on the things she told me annoy her she dosent seem at all bothered about trying to be more affectionate at all.
Anyone got any advise cos it's starting to get really annoying.

[Uniquemind]

Have you tried and focused on creating an emotional tone, and buildup for a date to make things romancey?

How does she react when you drop compliments on her?

[Vermilion]

Not everyone likes being hugged and touched.

[redrider12]

Second Twin. You can't judge your own relationships on other people. Some girls just aren't into the hugging/snuggling thing. If she's going so far as dodging your attempts, that's another story. But you can't always expect movie-style relationships

[maniamsmart]

Have you tried and focused on creating an emotional tone, and buildup for a date to make things romancey?

How does she react when you drop compliments on her?

I agree with this post here.

If you could go in depth a bit more about how she reacts or what you do to try and spark things, or how an ordinary date would go, I could provide more accurate guidance. It could be insecurity, discomfort, unexperienced vibes, etc.

[West Coast Sheriff]

Tell her you feel as if she isn't putting 100% into the relationship.

[Sports Boy]

Sorry to say this but maybe she's just not right for you. If she's not meeting your needs or you 2 are not compatible, what's the point of pushing the relationship along? Find someone who would love to be affectionate with you since that seems like it's something you want.

[SethfromMI]

Sorry to say this but maybe she's just not right for you. If she's not meeting your needs or you 2 are not compatible, what's the point of pushing the relationship along? Find someone who would love to be affectionate with you since that seems like it's something you want.

it is a possibility you have to consider. you do have to consider what Tom, twin, said, but if you are not getting anything out of the relationship, then you may have to consider whether she is right for you or not

[Vanilla Cupcake]

Maybe she doesn't like public affection? If that's not the case then I find it weird that she wouldn't want to be close with you.

[AutumnWinds]

Hi all. So I've been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months now and we still haven't had sex. This dosent bother me that much I'm not in any rush but no matter how hard I try I can't seem to get her to be very affectionate towards me. It particularly bothers me when I see my mates with there girlfreind of less time and there constantly hugging kissing and sitting next to/ on each other's lap and just genrally very close together. I've tried talking to her about it and we've both told eachother things that the other foes that annoys us in a attempt to make the relationship better and whilst I've work hard on the things she told me annoy her she dosent seem at all bothered about trying to be more affectionate at all.
Anyone got any advise cos it's starting to get really annoying.

have you confronted her about this? i think if you put it all out on the table you'd at least have a better idea of how and if to go forward with her. i think transparency is always a good thing.