Stop or Not ?

[jacktvv]

My little cousin is 6 years old, and every time i go to his house he be sitting on me like literally on top of me & he tells me that he likes to do it because he feels good. I grab him and sit him aside and he goes back and sits on me like if he wanted to f***, he tells me to grab his hands and to hold him while he is sitting on me (he been doing some sex positions) i always try to avoid him but he always come backs to me. I told him to stop few times but i don't know what to do no more.

Should i just allow him to keep doing that? Or what can i do after i told him many times to stop?

He is really young and i don't want to have any sexual interact with him, i love him as my little brother.

[Plane And Simple]

Just sit him and talk to him seriously. He may not know that what he's doing is wrong. Tell him, and ask him to stop then wait and see if he doesn't, then speak to his parents as the last resort.

[jacktvv]

Yeah, I've told him few times to stop but he doesn't listen & i think if i tell him that he is doing something he should be doing i think it could end as a conversation about sex, i don't want to talk to him about that because he's only 6 you know. He will probably say why is it wrong or something... If i talk to his parents it will be awkward do how would i start the conversation :/

[ksdnfkfr]

Yeah, I've told him few times to stop but he doesn't listen & i think if i tell him that he is doing something he should be doing i think it could end as a conversation about sex, i don't want to talk to him about that because he's only 6 you know. He will probably say why is it wrong or something... If i talk to his parents it will be awkward do how would i start the conversation :/

Yeah, he will not get it.
You can just tell him you do not like it when he does that, without
going into anything having to do with sex. it is not important that
he understands why you do not like it, you dont owe him an explanation.
No means no, stop means stop. Be tough with him.

BTW you uncle will most likely understand if you go to him and talk to him about it man to man.
Im sure he will thank you and respect you for going to him about it.

BTW in response to the title of this: STOP
By all means stop. You would not want him looking back when he gets older and accuse you of taking advantage of him.

[Thomas01]

Yeah just tell him it makes you uncomfortable and that he should not do that to people. If he asks why just say it's rude.

As kashmir said, you're uncle will probably understand so tell him if necessary

[AlexOnToast]

Let him know, in a way that would make it easier for him to understand, that you are not comfortable with it. Failing that, talk to your uncle and that should do it. Best off Nipping it at the bud :/

[ddbumblebee]

He's 6 years old, I don't think he's thinking in the terms you are, he probably just wants to be cuddled and loved by you, that's a lot different to sexually touching him, but if it makes you uncomfortable then just sit him down and tell him like everyone else has recommended :)

[casperathome]

Puppy love.... nothing sexual. Just admiration and wanting to be close to someone he loves and respects and can get some attention from..

[Living For Love]

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[Second Chance]

I would definitely tell his parents about the situation since the boy is not listening to you. Chances are the kid is innocent and just wants to be close to because that's the way little kids are. Little boys in particular are pretty physical.

When you say that your cousin is in sexual positions with you, is he like humping you or rubbing your penis? If so, then I hope that the boy has not been exposed to sexuality at his age by someone else.

I would bring up the subject to his parents by saying you really enjoy hanging out with your cousin and that you love him like he was a little brother. I would tell them that he sometimes has issues with not listening to you to open up the problem. When they get specific, then just tell them that he gets physical in ways that you do not feel comfortable. Since this is your cousin, then I'm guessing this is either your father or mother's nephew. You should start by talking with your parent(s) to get their take on the situation. They might know something that's going on in the family that you might not know.

With your cousin I would gently put limits on him while letting him know that you still like him as a person. If he is still sitting on your lap in an inappropriate way, then put a pillow on your lap so that he does not have access to your privates. That way your cousin can learn that you feel uncomfortable. Maybe your cousin wants physical contact, and you can probably offer it in ways that you feel is appropriate so that he hopefully won't do what you do not like.

[Body odah Man]

Wow...this new generation is becomin pretty perverted-I'd just do what everyone else is suggestin: tell him to stop or go to the dude's parents cuz..wow.

[darthearth]

I can't believe everyone is so quick to suggest telling the parents. There are plenty of parents who will sooner "beat the gay" out of a kid than guide his behavior in any understanding way. Don't even think about telling the parents unless you know exactly how they are going to react, if you don't know for sure, DO NOT TELL!

All you need to do is tell him you don't want to act like you are having sex. I knew what sex was at that age, and I also teased a little, I would think that is what is going on here. Chances are he is teasing like I used to. A simple "I don't want to act like we are having sex or anything." should do fine and may save the guy some damaging abuse.

Don't you think? I think so.

[jacktvv]

I would definitely tell his parents about the situation since the boy is not listening to you. Chances are the kid is innocent and just wants to be close to because that's the way little kids are. Little boys in particular are pretty physical.

When you say that your cousin is in sexual positions with you, is he like humping you or rubbing your penis? If so, then I hope that the boy has not been exposed to sexuality at his age by someone else.

I would bring up the subject to his parents by saying you really enjoy hanging out with your cousin and that you love him like he was a little brother. I would tell them that he sometimes has issues with not listening to you to open up the problem. When they get specific, then just tell them that he gets physical in ways that you do not feel comfortable. Since this is your cousin, then I'm guessing this is either your father or mother's nephew. You should start by talking with your parent(s) to get their take on the situation. They might know something that's going on in the family that you might not know.

With your cousin I would gently put limits on him while letting him know that you still like him as a person. If he is still sitting on your lap in an inappropriate way, then put a pillow on your lap so that he does not have access to your privates. That way your cousin can learn that you feel uncomfortable. Maybe your cousin wants physical contact, and you can probably offer it in ways that you feel is appropriate so that he hopefully won't do what you do not like.

Yes, he just like jumps on my laps and start humping on me, but he never tries to grab my privates. About the pillow i always do, he removes it and still does it. If i talk to his parents to be honest his mom will probably do nothing, but his dad I'm 99.9% sure he will beat him up (hit him with a belt) i don't want him to get hurt because of my fault.

[daniel 2014]

I would just let it go. Hes just playing around. If he starts grabbing at your junk or asks to see your wee wee then I would take the measures listed above. He just thinks its a fun game. If you do too then there isn't a problem.

[Second Chance]

Yes, he just like jumps on my laps and start humping on me, but he never tries to grab my privates. About the pillow i always do, he removes it and still does it. If i talk to his parents to be honest his mom will probably do nothing, but his dad I'm 99.9% sure he will beat him up (hit him with a belt) i don't want him to get hurt because of my fault.

I agree with the post above and your post that telling these parents would do more harm than good. The fact that the kid is doing sexual stuff with you at his young age makes me concerned because it makes me think he might have been exposed to sex. Maybe he saw his parents, siblings, or someone else having sex, and now the boy knows what sex is but because of his age is too immature to understand what he's doing.

I would tell your cousin that while it's all right to be close to one another that what he's doing is not proper. I would tell him that if he continues to do what he's doing to your body even though you tell him not to, then he has to understand that you will not hang out with him as much. Your cousin has to learn about consequences now otherwise when he gets older he'll force himself onto other people. I know it's tough being so hard on a kid this age, but he clearly is not getting the message when you're being nice. I think you have to be a lot tougher on him because in the end of the day it's your body, and it is not all right what your cousin is doing considering his age.

I think the guy above who said your cousin might know about sex is on the right idea, and you might need to do what he suggested. You can have a really general conversation about sex with this kid because chances are he knows something otherwise he would not be doing what he is to you.