Getting caught

[ColtronForgot]

So my dad walked in on me masturbating the other day. What had happened was I was deep into it. Like my eyes were closed and everything. I didn't even hear him come in my room. Right before I came I opened my eyes to find him moving things around in my room. I came and didn't know what to do. He told me that it was fine what I was doing but I don't know how I feel. Has this ever happened to you? Have you been caught before?

[ksdnfkfr]

A. my parents knock before entering, just as they expect me to knock instead of barging in on them.
B. there is no way my dad would be hovering around in my room while i was masturbating.

[billys-big-gun]

Yup many times i just keep going

[Thomas01]

Yeah, unfortunately my room doesn't have a lock so I've been caught.

It's really awkward at first but I mean he's yoyr dad and has probably done the same thing as a kid so understands it's natural. Plus he probably assumed you did it anyways.

You can always talk to him about it though I feel you should just try to leave it in the past. You can tell him to knock before entering.

You can't change the fact that he caught you, so, like I did, just realize what has happened has happened. Try and forget about it and just carry on like normal

[mirabilis2345]

Yup many times i just keep going

What do you mean you just keep going? Dont you lose yur boner?

[AlexOnToast]

I wouldnt say I've been caught exactly, but there have been many close calls. My dad is the type of person who wouldnt care and laugh the whole thing off but it's still not something I plan on letting happen :/

[salty]

I wouldn't worry about it. I am sure your dad still beats off

[MechaSniper]

once but it wasn't my dad.

[loki2000]

I wouldent even worry about it because your dad was so cool about it..he knows its normal for you to beat off..Think how lucky you are to have a dad thats so calm about it.... I would just ask him to knock before he enters your room... No i have never been caught

[RyanCrest]

I never been fought, but I pretty sure if my dad walked in while I was jacking he probably would have left as soon as he saw what was up. But I'm pretty sure my dad knows I jack, and he probably would tell me it was OK.

[refrigeratorx]

yeah there's nothing to be worried about. I've never been caught but I mean if I were to, depending by who it would get different reactions. at this point in life parents should know that their kids are sexual beings and need a release... i'm sure they would rather that than real sex

[chrisjenkins]

My little sister caught me.

[ChrisFromKY]

My Dad caught me when I was 12. Scared me to death but he was cool about it. We talked. I asked questions. We've caught each other several times since then. We don't just do it out in the open but we don't really hide it either if it's just me and him home.

[ChrisFromKY]

My little sister caught me.
OUCH! How old was she when she caught you? She see everything? That would be embarrassing.

[RyanCrest]

My Dad caught me when I was 12. Scared me to death but he was cool about it. We talked. I asked questions. We've caught each other several times since then. We don't just do it out in the open but we don't really hide it either if it's just me and him home.
Seriously? You've caught your dad? I'm not sure how I would react if that happened....I think I would scream!

[ChrisFromKY]

Seriously? You've caught your dad? I'm not sure how I would react if that happened....I think I would scream!

Yeah. I've walked in on him before. But like I said we talked alot after he caught me. Told me he does it so it wasn't too big a shock. We are pretty close.

[ValentinClarke]

It's a alright he probably did it as a kid

[Fanta_Lover44]

Its ok, its awkward the first time but if he had a problem, he would of spoken to you. I've never been caught, i've had a few close encounters though.

[mychalo]

I have 4 brothers with not a lot of privacy so yes I've been caught

[HUSTLEMAN]

My sis caught me a few times and unlike most parents who were cool about it and accepted it, my parents were cool about it the 1st time but after that it went downhill for me.

[chrisjenkins]

OUCH! How old was she when she caught you? She see everything? That would be embarrassing.

She was 10. I was 14. She saw everything from the waist down but did not see me cum.

[Zachary G]

I have been caught but it wasnt by my dad, but i am sure if my dad did catch me, he would have stepped out of the room and come back later or knocked first. i think its kinda creepy that your dad hung around while you were still jacking. thats like totally disrespectful.

[ChrisFromKY]

She was 10. I was 14. She saw everything from the waist down but did not see me cum.
Sorry man. I bet that was rough. Hopefully she didn't realize what you were doing.

[chrisjenkins]

Sorry man. I bet that was rough. Hopefully she didn't realize what you were doing.

She was cool about it.

[countryboi9]

ive been caught by my dad and brothers several times, they all say its normal to do it, don't ever be ashamed to jack off

[ChrisFromKY]

She was cool about it.
WOW bro. 10 and she was cool about it. You got lucky.

[daniel 2014]

My sis caught me a few times and unlike most parents who were cool about it and accepted it, my parents were cool about it the 1st time but after that it went downhill for me.

Downhill? How so?

[HUSTLEMAN]

Downhill? How so?

Lets just say it was one of the reasons it culminated into being grounded for over seven months.

[daniel 2014]

Lets just say it was one of the reasons it culminated into being grounded for over seven months.

How did you get grounded??

[billys-big-gun]

What do you mean you just keep going? Dont you lose yur boner?

No i have been caught my my mom and cousin and other fam plus other friends and ppl at parties i am kind of an exobitionist

[Rene]

Never been caught, but there have been close calls

[Daz 2000]

I've been caught many times by my parents. My dad is cool with it, but my mum always goes mental. It doesn't stop me from doing it though :-)

[isaiah]

never been caught but close calls

[joe_dare]

how embarrasing!
not been caught by my parents
my older brother tho he said need a hand?
think he was joking lol

[HUSTLEMAN]

How did you get grounded??

This site actually. I was on the abuse section just looking around and I didn't bother to delete my history so when my stepdad checked the history he saw it and my parents took it the wrong way and took my electronics away. Then when my report card came I was failing math last year and it only elongated my grounding.

[daniel 2014]

Oh. I thought it had to do with your little sis... haha

[daniel 2014]

This site actually. I was on the abuse section just looking around and I didn't bother to delete my history so when my stepdad checked the history he saw it and my parents took it the wrong way and took my electronics away. Then when my report card came I was failing math last year and it only elongated my grounding.

Oh. I thought it had to do with your little sis... haha.

[Ciel09x]

Wow you have a nice dad, i dont wanna know what would happen if i was caught.

[nklarke]

I wouldnt say I've been caught exactly, but there have been many close calls. My dad is the type of person who wouldnt care and laugh the whole thing off but it's still not something I plan on letting happen :/

If your door room doesn't have lock, go to the bathroom before it happens...

[Country Cowboy]

I've had many close calls with my mom but no one esls

[JamesSC]

Nope. Never been caught. My mom knocks before entering.

[Liam Peter]

Ive been caught, but never, has he stayed in the room

[Jeonard]

I have luckily never been caught

[Collins1]

I haven't been caught as of yet. A bit strange how your dad stayed in the room though...?!

[backjruton]

Mum, dad and brother have caught me. Neither of them care... my dad laughed, I think my mum got slightly angry and I have no idea how my brother feels :D

[Liven]

I think some family members have seen me so if they mention it, I won't be shocked.

[shadynorm333]

This is a great point to start a dialogue. My parents both know that I masturbate, and even when I masturbate, so privacy is not an issue. I attribute the whole thing to a good dialogue

[Remora]

All of my family members are aware of...what i do, so they always knock before entering.

[Hermes]

As a couple of other people have commented some dad's having walked in and found that you were too busy to notice would have discretely walked out again whereas your dad clearly made himself busy doing nothing very much as an excuse to stay around until you finished.

He may have simply been curcious to see if you've reached the stage where everything works, he could have been turned on, or he could have been thinking to have a chat at the end to avoid the awkwardness of trying to raise the subject from cold at another time.

In some ways anticipation can be worse the reality and if this ever happenned again I am sure it can't be as bad as this time so that's one positive take on this. On the other hand, particularly given what I have said above, you should probably think about what you want and what you're comfortable with.

Do you want him to knock in future before coming into your room? If so ask for that. Now he's walked in he'll understand why without you having to labour the point. If your mum lives with you too then ask me to have her knock too, if that is what you want.

This is a great point to start a dialogue. My parents both know that I masturbate, and even when I masturbate, so privacy is not an issue. I attribute the whole thing to a good dialogue

I take it by that you mean they know your schedule? or do you mean you're comfortable to the point of being able to say "I'm going to my room to j/o" and then they know to leave you to it?

[Wesl3y]

It might be really awkward at first, but you just gotta accept that it happened and move on. . It's not like he didn't know you masturbates before he caught you lol.

[pjones]

have not been caught by parents but thy know i masturbate and if the bedroom door is closed they usually wait until its open before talking to me

[elmoc]

I have been caught but it wasnt by my dad, but i am sure if my dad did catch me, he would have stepped out of the room and come back later or knocked first. i think its kinda creepy that your dad hung around while you were still jacking. thats like totally disrespectful.

I have to agree, it was socially inappropriate that your dad remained in the room while you were doing that. My mom & dad have raised 4 boys (I am youngest), so masturbation is nothing new to them. Also, both parents are physicians

To restate a funny family story that I wrote about in a similar question:

When my oldest brother turned 13, my mom noticed that his showers were becoming more frequent, but lasting much longer. My brother was upstairs, in the shower again, & my mom said "What in the world is he doing in the shower for THAT long?" My dad replied, "Do you really want to know?" & winked at her. My mom replied, "Not MY son! What are you going to say to him about it?"
My dad ( a pediatric/adolescent specialist) replied "I will tell him what I tell the adolescent boys that I see in my practice." "What is that?" said my mother?"
Dad: "It's his penis &he can wash it as fast as he wants to!"

After getting my 3 older brother through puberty now, my mom simply makes sure that there is always a box of Kleenex @ the bedside, & doesn't ever surprised. She thought I was outside last week, & entered my bedroom without knocking. Guess where I was? Yep, on the bed, nude from the waist down, bottle of lotion, Kleenex & laptop porn beside me. Erection firmly in hand, & about 4 strokes before the point of no return! (whew!) She said "excuse me! I thought you were outside playing basketball." Then she walked out & closed the door. Nothing was said aftrwards.

I was surprised & embarrassed, but after a few minutes, decided to go ahead & finish.

[JamesSC]

It might be really awkward at first, but you just gotta accept that it happened and move on. . It's not like he didn't know you masturbates before he caught you lol.
There is a chance he didn't know.

[PizzaKing]

Yes I was caught by my dad. he acted like nothing happened and we didn't say anything to each other. I'm sure your dad does it too so it's not a big deal. have you talked about it with him?

[Jay98]

Yea both my parents have caught me lol. I just kept jacking

[nklarke]

have not been caught by parents but thy know i masturbate and if the bedroom door is closed they usually wait until its open before talking to me

How they know?

[pjones]

How they know?

my brother told them I do it

[fast8]

Its fine I'm sure he is or he did masterbate before to nothing to be a shame of its natural for boys to j/o

[joel-d]

It does seem pretty weird that your dad stayed in your room while you finished rather than leaving immediately.

I've almost been caught a few times by my brother, usually when he needs something in the morning and comes into my room through the bathroom between our rooms. But I've always been able to cover up so he doesn't see anything. One time I had just shot and was laying there for a minute before I got up when he came in and wanted me to show him where something was. I was stalling since I knew I wouldn't be able to hide the mess if I got out of bed, and eventually he found what he wanted and left. I felt really self-conscious but I don't think he realized anything was going on.

[Sean4U]

I have 4 brothers with not a lot of privacy so yes I've been caught

Like mychalo I have 3 brothers and we've caught each other many times ...and have done it together as well....my dad has caught all of us and just walked out ...told us it was normal and no big deal was made over it....after all as has been said, he was your age once and probably still enjoys some personal time

[ChrisFromKY]

Yes I was caught by my dad. he acted like nothing happened and we didn't say anything to each other. I'm sure your dad does it too so it's not a big deal. have you talked about it with him?

My Dad caught me to when I was 11. Had a long talk with me about how it was normal and that all boys do it sooner or later and nothing was wrong with doing it. Told me he still did it too which I thought was pretty cool.

[Brazilianboy]

When I was 13 y/o, my old brother caught me because our bedroom was together and we used to use the same computer. I was sure that he was at school but he left it early that day. It was horrible, he said it was ok but I was too embarrassed.

[DarkHorse4eva]

i've never been caught, but i've been close

[nklarke]

my brother told them I do it

Nice brother...

[Boar]

So my dad walked in on me masturbating the other day. What had happened was I was deep into it. Like my eyes were closed and everything. I didn't even hear him come in my room. Right before I came I opened my eyes to find him moving things around in my room. I came and didn't know what to do. He told me that it was fine what I was doing but I don't know how I feel. Has this ever happened to you? Have you been caught before?

Oh yeah. Like twice.

[Shado99]

no ive never been caught

[Hundred Spirited God]

no,but my brother walked in one time while i was masturbating

[radsniper]

nope and don't want it to happen unless they are really hot and help and when i'm done they start

[AlanPeanuts]

After getting my 3 older brother through puberty now, my mom simply makes sure that there is always a box of Kleenex @ the bedside, & doesn't ever surprised. She thought I was outside last week, & entered my bedroom without knocking. Guess where I was? Yep, on the bed, nude from the waist down, bottle of lotion, Kleenex & laptop porn beside me. Erection firmly in hand, & about 4 strokes before the point of no return! (whew!) She said "excuse me! I thought you were outside playing basketball." Then she walked out & closed the door. Nothing was said aftrwards.

I was surprised & embarrassed, but after a few minutes, decided to go ahead & finish.
They always get you right before you finish -_-

[awesomeness14]

No I haven't been caught.

[salty]

I wouldn't care. Everyone masturbates. Even dads

[Jaseblader]

That was a funny story and no ive never been caught

[Jaseblader]

I have to agree, it was socially inappropriate that your dad remained in the room while you were doing that. My mom & dad have raised 4 boys (I am youngest), so masturbation is nothing new to them. Also, both parents are physicians

To restate a funny family story that I wrote about in a similar question:

When my oldest brother turned 13, my mom noticed that his showers were becoming more frequent, but lasting much longer. My brother was upstairs, in the shower again, & my mom said "What in the world is he doing in the shower for THAT long?" My dad replied, "Do you really want to know?" & winked at her. My mom replied, "Not MY son! What are you going to say to him about it?"
My dad ( a pediatric/adolescent specialist) replied "I will tell him what I tell the adolescent boys that I see in my practice." "What is that?" said my mother?"
Dad: "It's his penis &he can wash it as fast as he wants to!"

After getting my 3 older brother through puberty now, my mom simply makes sure that there is always a box of Kleenex @ the bedside, & doesn't ever surprised. She thought I was outside last week, & entered my bedroom without knocking. Guess where I was? Yep, on the bed, nude from the waist down, bottle of lotion, Kleenex & laptop porn beside me. Erection firmly in hand, & about 4 strokes before the point of no return! (whew!) She said "excuse me! I thought you were outside playing basketball." Then she walked out & closed the door. Nothing was said aftrwards.

I was surprised & embarrassed, but after a few minutes, decided to go ahead & finish.

lml hilarious

[MTB1997]

I've never gotten caught in the action, but my parents have found my cum rag before. Now, I've just gotten ALOT better at hiding it! :P

[whiteskittle]

I got caught by my cousin once. she was sleeping over one summer and i decided to jack off thinking she was asleep. as soon as I started cumming she got up to go to the bathroom and saw everything

[hockeyboy18]

I got caught by my friend once and it was no big deal, he just joined in jackin his.

[Hanson]

Seriously? You've caught your dad? I'm not sure how I would react if that happened....I think I would scream!

Why scream?:what:

No. But my cousin saw me and asked if I needed a hand. I was shocked but tried to pretend to be cool and sporting. So we ended with helping each other and soon became a habit.

[stickytissues1]

I've been caught once by my brother, fully naked, covers off, defiantly got a look at my thing. So awkward after

[hithere14]

never been caught. YESSSS

[esparza.warren]

My dad has caught me. My brothers and I catch each other all the time since we share a room, but nobody cares. My dad is the only one that comes into our room. My mom rarely does and she knocks. If you're embarrassed talk to him, or just let it go. If he was really freaked out I think he'd tell you. My dad told me it was better than having sex, so he didn't care, and if i had any questions he was cool with it.

[Living For Love]

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