it never happened to but is it ok for me to be turned on for thinking it?

[twinkboy]

i have never been raped or anything
and i turns me on to like think of a boy or a bf to
hold me down and do that to me
will i go to hell when i die?
not for being gay
but for wanting that.

[hesaidhesaid]

As a Christian, yes.
As a teenager, no but that is disturbing nonetheless. But if you seek exactly that, you need to do what you think is right for you.

[UNKNOWN8198]

Not at all. Everyone has 'fantasies' and personally, I share a similarish fantasy to you. Without trying to say too much, I think it's a subsection of BDSM, and is one of the more popular fantasies people have, so you are by no means alone in having it*. Obviously though, I would not suggest going out and 'looking for it', it's something to discuss with a partner (bf).

*Rereading I feel it important to note that I am not saying that rape is a 'popular fantasy' at all, but more the idea of 'submissiveness', which is to an extent what you are describing.

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[ECSTASY]

Religions are made to scare us from some stupid things like sex before marriage , being gay , drinking alcohol etc. So they can abuse people's emotions and fears to reach their financial or even political goals(No offense thats my personal point of view)
I believe that you must enjoy the life and be who you really are . You can actually do whatever you want as long as you dont hurt anyone . If youre happy by having a boyfriend , theres nothing wrong with that :)
Even if theres a hell , i find it really stupid that you'll be there just because you loved someone! :)

[Zachary G]

Not at all. Everyone has 'fantasies' and personally, I share a similarish fantasy to you. Without trying to say too much, I think it's a subsection of BDSM, and is one of the more popular fantasies people have, so you are by no means alone in having it*. Obviously though, I would not suggest going out and 'looking for it', it's something to discuss with a partner (bf).

*Rereading I feel it important to note that I am not saying that rape is a 'popular fantasy' at all, but more the idea of 'submissiveness', which is to an extent what you are describing.

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Very well said. Ive been there and I can relate.

[kryptonite]

i have never been raped or anything
and i turns me on to like think of a boy or a bf to
hold me down and do that to me
will i go to hell when i die?
not for being gay
but for wanting that.


As long as you don't break any laws and keep your thoughts to yourself, you're fine. If you're worried you might carry out anything illegal, seek professional help immediately.

Some people like to roleplay or do something in a fantasy. The catch here is that anything you do, you and your partner agree to do, but you're pretending it's rape or whatever. Pretend rape...AS LONG AS BOTH PEOPLE AGREE CONSENSUALLY is fine.

In the meantime, your hormones are just running wild.